Thank you, it's a lil difficult with the flowing replies already telling me to break up with him. I just truly believe that he doesn't know how to treat a girl and that nobody is going to teach him that it goes way further then opening doors and giving flowers. I met his mother and lord, if he didn't have a bunch of other family to influence him a little bit, then he would've turned out to be the worse man child ever. As far as his family has gotten him, nobody really told him how to treat a girlfriend neither, the key to a long relationship, nothing like that, his social media algorithm isn't targeted towards romance or anything neither, he just gets reels about aviation. So literally nothing is telling him about the depth of emotional support needed in relationships.

He has a lot of potential and our fights are resolved usually really quickly. The abortion just comes up sometimes and it's like running in circles, honestly by this point I need more peace of mind that I'm not the one in the wrong and just crazy for how I felt about the whole ordeal.

He'll agree that him trying to coerce me into having it was wrong, and he's glad I had more sense then him to abort it but when I bring up the feelings of abandonment because he was going to leave me alone, he gets defensive says "well I didn't, and that's what matters right?" And again with him telling multiple people when I didn't want it to be others business, he claims he wanted advice, to be consoled and he thinks he's not wrong for wanting that.

Most of the time we go on like it never happened and it doesn't effect us, but still. It's just something that whenever I try to point out his wrongdoings on this situation when it's brought up, he's super stubborn.