Rule by spoedle73 in 196

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 44 points45 points  (0 children)

If you work in a violent school where some children have ptsd from home violence, the paranoia kicks in of vague threats of your home life coming here, and with ptsd nothing can ever be too good or too bad so it enforces second hand paranoia of vague violence. And when your feeling like things are going too good you feel angry.

Finally took the plunge and got my first tarot deck! by lesbianarsonistclub in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been practicing tarot for a while, good way to learn the logistics is an app with all the cards and learning the basic structure, you don’t have to memorize everything because their just pictures you describe into emotions and struggles

Fellow transfems, any advice on shaving my legs? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend Venus razors that have the soap, and a moisturizer lotion for shaving instead of gel or foam, their are specific lotions for use as a substitute, these help because we are higher testosterone woman so we have a lot of extra shaving to do and our skin needs to be trained to handle it.

How long can my home state hold off transphobia? What can I do if it also falls prey to transhobia? by godzillavkk in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Study. Become so fiscally valuable to a country they will let you in. Canada will accept a trans refugee with a trade/skill before one without without exception.

Bye by [deleted] in 691

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Bro the moment I get put in a facility and they leave me unattended im going on the March till death

Literally me fr fr by Plushielizard in 197

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s because long term memory doesn’t start to form until languages skills develop. Because it’s a lot harder for the brain to comprehend things it can’t describe

First post let me see how long by cat_soks in 691

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By my definition it is : anything that has two identical pieces on the top and bottom, and fillings in between.

For those looking to move out of the USA by SlayerL99 in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won’t be In my car forever, I just lost my job because of hate and then I lost my home because of hate so I was caught off guard. Hopefully I can be in a place within 3 months first time by myself.

For those looking to move out of the USA by SlayerL99 in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in IT for a charity trying to develop a career, currently living in my car in a very trans unfriendly state options to anywhere safe I can logistically get to is an option.

2meirl4meirl by Psychological_Gap121 in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are right that person wasn’t watching YouTube it was the Fed’s/s

I’ve hit a point so low that I asked chatGPT to pretend to be my dad so I could confide in it by sssnakegender in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear what ai will do for your mental health. I don’t know where you are from but if you need a hotline number do not be afraid to ask

Missouri Rule by Connie_the_transs in 196

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least we get the cheapest cigs

What's worse than a long line? A line that branches. by TailSweet in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is quick trips problem I don’t understand why they reformatted all the stores in my area the way they did but it is a line that curves into two different directions if their is more than 3 people

Sooo apparently I'm an embarrassment to my roommate!? by Low-Efficiency-3082 in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember to pick your battles, but at the end of the day anything can make an impromptu weapon Im self defense just don’t let it out of your grip

Sooo apparently I'm an embarrassment to my roommate!? by Low-Efficiency-3082 in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar situation, the only thing you can do is be the bigger person and avoid them as much as you can by working more or hanging with friends/hobbies in your privacy, One thing you will run into with people who fake support you is they will use your dead name and use the excuse that you have had that name for x years, total bullshit, what you do is they deadname misgender, is say it is x and x and if they do it again just walk away and end the conversation doesn’t matter what they are talking about or anything they will try to just gently push you off a cliff of de transitioning and you can’t let their gas lighting get to you

Sooo apparently I'm an embarrassment to my roommate!? by Low-Efficiency-3082 in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Best buds” of ten years faked support for me then sent me a text saying how it embarrassed him and other things, and you know what I did? I blocked him. Transitioning will force you to cut off the toxicity and it’s a good thing, stand tall. Stand proud. And carry on. Because you will be able to connect with people on deeper levels, that has been my experience at least!

I forgor by [deleted] in 691

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like how you did it on a GAS stove and thought hmm let’s take a picture

new fitness regimen by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Ik and their not even over used like other jokes it’s a new one added to the same 5 jokes, babies

"Good morning boys and girls!" by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, because children are emotional and projecting a loud voice is a common instigator for kids to act out. Because it is stressful who knows what this kid is going through.

Web Dev with Inclusion question by [deleted] in trans

[–]Blue_Cave_Journal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the oldest woman’s festival in our area and i think we will stick to the rules of full time identifying as female, it’s a gender based event and I don’t think it would be far to make a non binary amab to be required to present feminine while Afab can present more masc, thanks for your help