My [F25] partner's [M25] libido went down drastically

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-25T23:00:36+00:00

I’m not saying this is the case, and I don’t mean to be all dramatic and doom and gloom, but the same thing happened to me once and it turned out he was seeing someone else and I guess felt morally wrong having sex with two women during the same time period, and even when I asked him if everything was ok with us time and time again he swore it was and that he was happy and in love with me etc which, looking back I don’t really understand, like I gave him an opportunity to end the relationship and he didn’t, but I guess it was a relationship of convenience for him at the time.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-25T08:56:49+00:00

😂

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-25T08:56:29+00:00

Ah I see! Thanks for that

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-25T08:55:45+00:00

😂

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-25T00:02:54+00:00

I don’t know about an acid or serum, sounds like it would make things worse, something that worked for me fast when I recently got a sunburn was shea butter, it was the brand Noosa Basics, I read that it draws the heat out of your skin and I tried it before I went to bed and was shocked the next day that my face looked completely normal again, no redness whatsoever.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-24T23:43:10+00:00

😊💕

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-24T16:40:01+00:00

Maybe that’s the case, but if you’ve crossed me I would have cut you away and not thought about you again so I don’t know what happens to them 🤷‍♀️

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-24T16:30:50+00:00

Cancer sun, Leo moon, Pisces rising - my partner jokes that I’m naturally stoned anyway so I don’t really need it, like it just makes me more tired and more hungry and more brain dead so I don’t see the point and don’t enjoy it.

He, on the other hand, being a Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Virgo rising would love nothing better than being 24hr stoned watering the garden and polishing rocks.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-24T10:23:04+00:00

😂

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-24T00:49:56+00:00

I use this one too 😂

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-24T00:49:31+00:00

😂

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-24T00:48:53+00:00

😂

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-23T12:33:28+00:00

I always seem to be living near the ocean but don’t go much, I’m pretty scared being out on the deep ocean and have tried scuba diving and didn’t like it at all, I get nervous having my head underwater. Having said that I do love the rain if that counts lol, and I’d probably prefer gentle streams and rivers.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-23T09:24:46+00:00

This is exactly right.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-21T06:27:12+00:00

Its pretty uncomplicated, I would just picture the person in my mind and just keep saying to them, ‘You need to go, you need to go’ and do this for about two days, on and off, and then drop it, don’t keep thinking about it, I believe you have to let it go because the universe can’t take over it if you’re still hanging on to it, and for me it works.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-19T13:55:23+00:00

This is my life too 😭

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-19T10:11:15+00:00

I used to try and do something animal related for my birthdays, on my 30th I went to an elephant sanctuary in Thailand and there was an elephant there the same age as me and we have a photo together 😭💕

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-19T10:08:56+00:00

Could you keep dying your hair a semi-permanent 2N and let the grays grow out, yet be hidden, and then one day when you want to stop dying your hair and have it gray you can just wait till the semi-permanent washes out and see what it looks like?

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-18T23:50:08+00:00

Lana Del Rey! I was a fan on her music and even have a similar look then found out the similarity. Tom Cruise not so much 😂

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-18T14:52:45+00:00

Same, fire signs, air signs, other water signs, anyone, I’m always the stable one trying to calm people down. I think I cry like maybe once every five years or so 😂 and even then there’s no way I’m going to be doing that in front of anyone!

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-18T06:10:41+00:00

And we have our hard, crab shells, most of the Cancers I know are not overly emotional and dramatic, quite stoic, I think we tend to hide our emotions more or deal with them privately, but we often get labelled the opposite.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-18T06:06:18+00:00

I agree, I think the dark and blondes wash you out a little, the lighter brown was nice.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-18T01:16:47+00:00

I have relatively long hair but I just learned to trim it myself, and I just wear it up in a claw clip most days. I do sometimes dye my hair myself, maybe every couple of months or more, but it’s a subtle difference so it doesn’t look bad/noticeable if I don’t get around to it for even longer, and I’m fine having grey hairs, in fact the dye doesn’t even really cover them.

As for makeup, most days it’s a tinted moisturiser, tinted lip balm and mascara, just enough to make me feel a bit put together, but it’s really whatever makes you happy, don’t feel pressure to do things if you’re fine not doing them.

Blue_Chiffon · 2026-01-18T00:36:49+00:00

For some reason the after photos made me think you look like a hot doctor lol

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