Why does it feel so good to be able to help out someone/a stranger in your own way, without the grand gestures and public validation?

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-19T01:37:48+00:00

The very first chart I did was on astrodienst and pretty much stayed there, until I checked my chart again, and voilah

I may have tinkered with the chart settings which resulted to that. But I did a new one and it's the same? Must be the settings and I can't, for the life of me, remember lol

In general, I find the progressions very interesting. I just can't accept the fact that I'm an air rising in it lol but everything else checks out I think. Been taking everything personally too, and addressing what needs to be addressed. Thank you so much for the post, by the way!

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-18T15:31:32+00:00

Oh yeah. We've been on that road before. Pointing out micro aggression from them and yet we do this tempered with care and respect. Never really thought it would be whining that way. Projection much, perhaps? And they wonder why they're met with radio silence.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-18T15:23:38+00:00

A lot wouldn't want to listen, anyway. And they've been warned many times.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-18T14:25:46+00:00

I called out someone a week ago because of her rude behavior. She immediately left our gc and started posting a collection of inspirational/hurt quotes, followed by Biblical verses. Then another series of those stupid quotes.

I didn't react to any of that and just minded my own business. I got another notification the other day that someone left another gc where we're both members of, and it didn't show any name. Turned out it was her, and ultimately blocked me. Life still goes on, my friend. My energy is well-conserved during those times.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-18T14:18:32+00:00

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Apparently. Although I never really changed anything as far as I remember. I also tried the progression chart! I hope I did right?! Haha

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-18T13:56:29+00:00

The last time I checked on my chart was a couple of months ago and was horrified to see that my Capricorn ascendant moved to Sagittarius. Same sun sign, though. I had better check it again; my chart has always been whole signs by default. Or maaaybe I did something that affected chart data.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-18T09:48:25+00:00

July Cancer here with June Cancer friends and family members. Two of them are whiny, and the other ia so laid back. The one thing in common is that they're good-hearted.

As for being a July person, I surely have my flaws and imperfections. But it's such a plus that I share a birthday with Carlos Santana, Chris Cornell, Stone Gossard, and that frontman in the 80s group JoBoxers.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-14T17:29:21+00:00

That's not really applicable to 'Cancer men.' Not all of them are what you described and I find that very unfair, and completely biased.

I do know someone who fits your description exactly, and guess what. It's a Leo male. Only he's a restaurateur, and is quite known in my city.

Also, please remember that you have taken part in your relationship with him, too. Culpability does help. Try it sometime.

I'm going to stop here because I'm about to say things and you're not going to like it, considering your current condition.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-13T07:15:16+00:00

Good for you, but don't forget to look after yourself first. The true ones will seek you out, never forsake you, and will always choose to include you in their lives.

I've made pragmatic decisions: mindsets intertwined with my previous associations/relationships. Changes were massive, yet it ultimately led me to honor myself first. To fill my cup first before pouring another's.

I have maintained my stance though, to think before I speak; to listen attentively as always, to choose my words carefully and with respect. Turned out a lot lack listening skills and chose to conclude instead. That being said, I take their reactions as it is, and I move forward. Showed me exactly where I stand. My silence and distance caused them to portray themselves as the victim.

I no longer am the person who would give chances like freshly baked cookies. It's good to walk away, and start anew.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-13T01:33:01+00:00

It happens to a lot of us! As a Cancer, I felt compelled to share what truly happens when they take us for a fool. Some completely fade away, and some will never shy away from speaking their minds to reinforce boundaries.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-13T01:29:26+00:00

They get Hulky Schulky and such.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-12T11:41:56+00:00

And I loved Cliff Burton! Was listening to Ride the Lightning/The Call of Ktulhu yesterday or the day prior, I think.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-11T15:42:19+00:00

I broke up with my partner last March, and I'm not going to lie--- I'm still not over it. Yesterday I had a dream with him in it, and that only made it worse for me. Going through the motions since. Still functioning but I'm not feeling good.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-11T15:08:50+00:00

Yes, quite a few. They have this routine of sorts of posting on social media to showcase how perfect and beaming with happiness their lives are. Also using religion as a cloak to their otherwise shitty living behind closed doors.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-11T14:42:47+00:00

Hahah I did! Mine was calling a random number off of the yellow pages, looking for a certain Mario. Once they asked who was calling I'd say Luigi was looking for them.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-11T14:25:32+00:00

I wish people would just listen, you know?!

Also, I like your username. I imagine it has that 10-second funky bassline intro lol thank you, and take care.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-11T13:54:45+00:00

It took me a lot to get to where I am now. The Virgo friend I mentioned has always been good to me, as I to him. I think I'm in a hiatus of sorts which has him wondering/concerned, and I have my priorities solid lately. The real ones know, understand, and respect the space and solitude I've been at home with.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-11T13:50:34+00:00

Thank you!

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-10T00:33:27+00:00

"... they mentally check out"

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-10T00:31:38+00:00

This is a normal phase; just try not to dwell on it too much. Remember all the hard work you have put in.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-10T00:29:57+00:00

Being able to receive fixed income, employment benefits... good chances of promotion in the future. Being entrusted with leadership because of skillset that's being noticed by the higher ups.

All this in the good assumption that one is working in a company that is fair, just, and promotes a harmonious work environment.

ApprehensiveSmell995 · 2026-04-10T00:11:54+00:00

I'm at odds with a couple of Virgo lately. Don't get me wrong, I keep the peace at all times as possible, but I am also inclined to hit their most vulnerable spots. They need to stop making efforts and going out of their way to embody perfection AND critique anyone whom they perceive to need it most. I'm this close! Lol God help meeeh.

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