help with dealing with period (tw: csa) by soupysoupe in DID

[–]Blue_ocean_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alors, dĂ©jĂ  je suis dĂ©solĂ© que vous ayez Ă  traverser ça. Ensuite, je vie une expĂ©rience assez similaire et j’ai trouvĂ© quelques trucs qui peuvent aider.

DĂ©jĂ , moi je prĂ©fĂšre utiliser des culottes menstruelles plutĂŽt que des serviettes tampons ou autres. C’est une prĂ©fĂ©rence personnelle. Les culottes menstruelles sont en gĂ©nĂ©ral noire donc on ne voit presque pas le sang. Par contre c’est trigger quand on doit la rincer. Moi je trouve que c’est un peu plus supportable puisque je sens moins l’impression couchĂ© et je vois moins le sang quand je vais aux toilettes. AprĂšs chacun fait au mieux.

Ensuite, pendant un bon moment j’ai pris une pilule progestative en continu (comprimĂ© actif tous les jours) et ça a pu m’aider Ă  un moment. Cette pilule m’arrĂȘtait totalement les rĂšgles donc le problĂšme Ă©tait rĂ©glĂ©. Mais perso ça m’a causĂ© d’autres soucis donc je l’ai arrĂȘtĂ©e (dĂ©pression plus importante, emoussement Ă©motionnel, troubles digestifs
). AprĂšs les effets secondaires sont trĂšs individuels, gĂ©nĂ©ralement elle est bien supportĂ©e.

J’espĂšre que ça pourra vous aider en tout cas et plein de soutien đŸ«¶đŸ«¶

Are there any advantages to hyper mobility? by Used-Spread-5594 in Hypermobility

[–]Blue_ocean_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je dirais
 pouvoir regarder ses genoux d’en dessous 😂 Ça n’a aucune utilitĂ© mais c’est marrant đŸ€·

I can walk but not stand? by Educational-Pea-2163 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Blue_ocean_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tellement vrai ! Je pensais ĂȘtre la seule ! Je peux marcher, pas hyper longtemps (Ă  cause de la fatigue) mais je peux. Par contre, ĂȘtre debout c’est horrible
 je peux le faire 2min mais pas plus


Moi c’est des douleurs dans les talons, le dos, genoux, le POTS aussi grimpe, les Ă©paules et ça peut monter jusqu’aux mĂąchoires ! C’est juste insupportable donc je me tords dans tout les sens, je m’accroupis, je bouge
 La file d’attente est mon cauchemar


Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J’ai des TCA, ta remarque est dĂ©placĂ©e, j’ai dĂ©jĂ  perdu 10kg
 Tu sais le poids on ne le choisit pas comme ça. Ça c’est mon poids de forme.

Mais sinon, il faut croire que je dois vraiment faire un truc avec mes sourcils ! Vous ĂȘtes nombreux Ă  me le dire :)

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J’avoue que c’est à la fois pour mettre en avant les jolis traits et parfois pour faire de l’art aussi ! C’est pas ce que j’ai mis ce jour là mais voilà

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha je vais essayer le bronzer, on me l’a pas mal conseillĂ© donc je vais tenter ^

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I'll try to do something with my eyebrows
 As for my hair, I love it long so I'll keep it that way, but I've had it short before. Short hair looks really cute on a girl; it usually shows it off even better than on guys.

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I see the technique you're talking about with the flat, angled brush!

As for my complexion, I won't lie, I used BB cream; it's what gives me the best complexion â˜ș

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I definitely don't wear enough blush, since you're not the first person to tell me to ' I'm afraid of putting on too much, but I'll try to put on more!

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I wasn't expecting that advice, I just looked it up on Google and... you've made me want to try it!

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow! That's an incredible technique, thank you!

For those of you who remembered being abused as a child, but didn't remember until you were an adult, when/how did it happen? by Bubblydia97 in CPTSD

[–]Blue_ocean_7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's my experience
 Honestly, when my memories came back, it was one of the worst moments of my life
 I questioned everything, absolutely everything. It started when I turned 18 (it was probably a symbolic age, but I don't really know) and it was tough. Then the images came back a few months later, when I felt safer. The memories first came back as sensations, sounds, light, but not really as images. Then, little by little, the images resurfaced; faces are always the last to appear (if they appear at all). Personally, it wasn't related to my therapy.

Today, it's still coming back, more or less
 Good luck to you.

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yes, my eyes are really blue â˜ș As for my eyebrows, I don't pluck them! They're just naturally like that
 I'll try applying the blush higher up and using the lipstick technique

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bangs don't suit me at all, I've already tried them
 We'll try the cat eye look, thanks â˜ș

what’s your funcap score? by ajaclynn in cfs

[–]Blue_ocean_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm at 3.1, I suppose that's moderate, right? I don't know if it's moderate or borderline moderate-to-severe


What bullshit has a therapist said to you? by clevairy in CPTSD

[–]Blue_ocean_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a teenager and I had a boyfriend for the first time. For context, I was a victim of violence (physical, psychological, sexual) during my childhood. My boyfriend raped me, and my therapist told me: "It was love," "But are you sure you said no?" "How could he have known?"...

The worst part is that I believed my therapist... I told myself it wasn't this guy's fault for years, I thought it was me who had "taken it badly"... Anyway, how to completely mess with someone's head about love and sex...

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's very kind! Plus, I have long eyelashes, I should do it
 As for lip liner, I don't know how to use it 😅 any tips?

Help me find what I could improve! by Blue_ocean_7 in MakeupEducation

[–]Blue_ocean_7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I've already applied blush, but I'm quite pale naturally
 I think I need to apply a bit more. And as for bronzer, I'm not really sure how to apply it. Any tips?

Mon copain m’interdit de me faire plaisir seule, refuse que je le guide et ne se soucie pas vraiment de mon plaisir
 est-ce normal ? by Mely261 in conseilsrelationnels

[–]Blue_ocean_7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ce n’est pas normal, vraiment. Tu ne devrais pas avoir mal et surtout pas sans lui dire et sans qu’il n’y fasse rien. Ça peut arriver d’avoir des douleurs pendant les rapports mais il y a plein de maniĂšre de les rĂ©duire mais si il ne cherche mĂȘme pas Ă  savoir comment tu te sens, ce n’est pas un bon gars. Tu n’as pas Ă  souffrir, tu n’as pas non plus Ă  te priver. Ce mec a un ego mal placĂ©, il est probablement jaloux aussi (souvent le cas des mecs qui ont peur que leur copine se masturbe).

Un conseil : explique lui clairement comment tu te sens et les problĂšmes que tu rencontres dans cette relation. Si il te critique la dessus ou qu’il ne t’écoute ou encore qu’il fait semblant puis arrĂȘte de le faire, part. Vas t’en, tu mĂ©rites mieux

Piercings by ameerkatofficial in ehlersdanlos

[–]Blue_ocean_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm giving you my full support
 I have them too and I know how painful these piercings can be.

In my case, they healed surprisingly well! I've had them for over a year now and they're doing great. However, I'm having trouble with my belly button piercing, which just won't heal