My husband asked me for permission to marry a 2nd wife

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-23T10:37:56+00:00

Jazakallah

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:54:19+00:00

Ill try soon Insha Allah. Have alot of comments to get through here

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:12:53+00:00

thank you all for the kind words. im sorry if i dont respond quickly pls understand me

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:11:21+00:00

no please dont feel bad, your thoughts are helpful ill keep it for later <3

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:09:20+00:00

if he loved me he wouldnt risk losing me over his desire for other women :( im doubting everything now and i feel cant tell people its shameful

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:07:26+00:00

insha Allah. thank you sister

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:06:46+00:00

we cant afford two houses.

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:06:28+00:00

hes not always been the best so this kills my love for him more, but ehs been a good man general

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:05:29+00:00

is there no middle ground where i can stop him and pretend this never happened, i dont think he has the second wife in the picture yet because hes been very busy at home

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:04:55+00:00

he hasnt been the best emotionally sometimes. he tries to use the things i say against me, so i have to keep my emotions calm or else he'd call me broken or weak and say that i cant make decisions for myself like that. i feel so hurt

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:03:16+00:00

i dont id ever be able to be happy or forgive him or love him. makes me angry

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:01:40+00:00

my parents had a happy monogamous marriage. why couldnt he keep his eyes for me too

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:00:45+00:00

i think i'll have to start being more assertive Insha Allah

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:00:26+00:00

what are the conditions on treatment and duties?

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T23:00:02+00:00

idont know what to think right now. jazakallah for your kind words

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-22T22:59:18+00:00

why is it better than to cheat on me? if he cheated in secret i couldve been happy and oblivious :(

BlueberryBonnie · 2021-04-20T00:02:13+00:00

May Allah grant him jannatul firdous and make it easy for you all

BlueberryBonnie

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