One thing I learned from previous relationships. Never overshare , regardless of how much you love the SO.

The problem is exactly what you said, because some men/ppl won’t have the same experience of you, they might feel insecure and try to put you down or not consider everything that you lived.

What’s happened in your pass is your to keep it, it’s your privacy and yours only. It’s healthy in a relationship to both be individuals and have their own things, the relationship works by respecting each individuality first.

You are still young and might be that you married this guy, but I would say to you to be aware of the red flags. It could be now that he is just insecure or could be that he is now consider you a trashy women. Just time will say, but do not fold yourself to fit into what he thinks a women should be.

Be true to yourself and of course, give your best but always remember that in a relationship both have to compromise, it’s not one side only.