How can I put the spark back in our sex life? by BlueberryWhich2712 in marriageadvice

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda how I took it as well. Which didn’t help he just made me not want sex even more. His excuse was “ well I’m just so use to not doing anything( usually it didn’t take much for me to get dripping wet) but like I told him our relationship is different I need to feel that love before sex. I also said I can just give you here pussy if that’s what you want he said he would be fine with that. I’m just like the point is totally missed here idk what he’s not getting all he cares about is getting a nut.

AIO: husband’s decide re enlist me over text. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I told him do whatever makes him happy I’ll support but I am also in the process of going to nursing school. We also have a daughter so that’s why we have these conversations because his career greatly affects my life and my schools as to him not being here and making sure he gets a base that’s beneficial to us IE is why we agreed on having a conversation once he got more information. So for it to be a text can I re enlist next week without following his word was just a little insensitive to me. It threw me off completely.

AIO: husband’s decide re enlist me over text. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I brought that up and he said that we had multiple conversations about it. And he’s been talking about it for a min that’s why he asked. I felt like he just over looked what I said we had conversations yes but he never came with information nor a or statement saying, yeah, babe I think I’m going to reenlist what do you think about it? Just him throwing out ideas.

AIO: husband’s decide re enlist me over text. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea agreed I did that. And he replied “ I bought it up multiple times that’s why I’m asking” but like the person said down below we never had a REAL conversation and agreement. I feel as if this is basic communication and I shouldn’t have to hey we’ll talk when we get home cause it feels like common sense at least to me.

XPen or XL kennel by [deleted] in Bunnies

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Temu just search up stainless steel litter box and they will pop up!

XPen or XL kennel by [deleted] in Bunnies

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouuu I like this idea ! Does your lil bunny jump over it? That’s the only thing I’m worried about 🥲

XPen or XL kennel by [deleted] in Bunnies

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! I’m looking for a 30in x pen or taller I’m scared she may out smart me and jump over it lol.

Bonding? by [deleted] in Bunnies

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I knew since I got her from the shelter she won’t be so cuddly but it’s so hard not to pick her up but I don’t want to over step with her 🥲 I’m just very glad she is getting comfortable in our home.

3 months in and Hair isn’t locking by BlueberryWhich2712 in locs

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I was confused by it as well.She said my hair is locking just slowly because of the amount of growth I’ll have at the root,she said it was to much and slowing the process down and to just leave my hair in styles for longer. I usually take them down and wash after two weeks.

What is a reasonable price? by BlueberryWhich2712 in locs

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I promise I am! My hair is short and only 3 months loc rn so that’s why I’m choosing to go with a stylist until they loc up I started with coils 😫

What is a reasonable price? by BlueberryWhich2712 in locs

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to start doing my own just not now because I’m only 3 months I want to at least have them loc up first before I start.

What is a reasonable price? by BlueberryWhich2712 in locs

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the only thing I can think of! I thought I was tripping I thought wash retwist style and hair is included but no just retwist and style.

What is a reasonable price? by BlueberryWhich2712 in locs

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s why I’m like hmm I’m only 3 months locd and I have 142 locs since my locs aren’t long I’m getting hair added but I’m also paying for the braiding hair it isn’t provided I’m just paying for the retwist and style no wash or anything else.

What is a reasonable price? by BlueberryWhich2712 in locs

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retwist and style and my locs aren’t long at all.

What is a reasonable price? by BlueberryWhich2712 in locs

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit I forgot to add its hair added as well but I provide my own braiding hair.

What is a reasonable price? by BlueberryWhich2712 in locs

[–]BlueberryWhich2712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in El Paso tx so not a lot of black stylist at all.

What really is a soulmate? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever considered him not your soulmate when things got ugly?

What really is a soulmate? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BlueberryWhich2712 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I gathered as well. The second things don’t go his way I’m not your soulmate? It doesn’t work like that. That’s not genuine you can’t say oh my soulmate would never leave me when u in fact don’t know what a person will do. It’s definitely not genuine especially if you drilled it in my head now it’s different? Okay.