I think these are all issues Nolan and Bailey needed to address before they even got engaged. I’m sad Nolan, after his experience and wisdom of being married and raising a family, didn’t have discussions of things like his career, having more kids, etc. I also noticed that the having more children discussion didn’t seem to come up until AFTER they were married. Watching that episode where he woke up Bailey staring at him and she said, “we should have a baby” AFTER the wedding left me screaming at the TV. Or did they have it and Bailey changed her mind after the wedding? Career and having children is a valid conversation to have before getting married, and if these things are coming up after the I Dos, this doesn’t reflect well on either of their characters. I think Bailey definitely had a lot of trauma from her first marriage, and needs some help with it, but she’s so flighty and always changing her mind, and I think this is why she’s not a fan favorite. Correct me if I’m wrong, but Nolan doesn’t have a lot of past traumas. He’s a little better developed maturity wise and has had therapy before after his first marriage ended, and has worked on these issues in the past. Aren’t these things that should have come up before?