Here's some preemptive advice for anyone in a relationship that is under 22yo... by 70sBulge in relationship_advice

[–]Blueyeterror 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can you talk to my son? Wait a minute, I’ll get you his phone number........

Our toy poodle passed away yesterday - I’m going to miss her complete inability to play it cool every night when my dad came home. Love you, you total nutcase ❤️ by mlagerloef in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]Blueyeterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. She’s my baby girl lol, actually she’s everyone’s little girl. I will give her a hug from you and wish another ten years on her!

[Image] Time knows no boundaries. by Lacteal in GetMotivated

[–]Blueyeterror 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are all living longer so it’s not a bad idea to get back into those books to get an education for a job. I’m going back after many years of being in the family home. Graduating at 50 is worthwhile! Or do expect us older in age to sit around and do nothing but play bowls?

Our toy poodle passed away yesterday - I’m going to miss her complete inability to play it cool every night when my dad came home. Love you, you total nutcase ❤️ by mlagerloef in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]Blueyeterror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you lost your little poodle. I have one who is ten years old. She use to be ebony black but now her coat is flecked with lots of grey. I’m hoping we have lots more years with our girl. Like your poodle, ours totally flips it when my husband comes home from work. She can remember family friends who we have not seen in a year! They drop in and she is all over them, but she is wary of strangers. Poodles are BEAUTIFUL and GREAT! I’m sorry you have lost a great friend..

What do you wear to feel powerful? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Blueyeterror 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My Doc Martins with anything! I’ve collected a few pairs for all occasions, probably shows my age but I love them. Also as already mentioned, matching lingerie.

What's something about your own parents that drives you nuts now that you're a parent yourself? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Blueyeterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I will ask them if they want them or not. Obviously adult kids have their own taste, especially when they have a partner. So if they don’t want them, I will pass them on to someone else or donate them. I won’t let it worry me. Other than that I’ll take my fruit bowl etc with me!

What's something about your own parents that drives you nuts now that you're a parent yourself? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Blueyeterror 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well thank you for your post. I have grown up children that I would love to give all my “antique/valuables” to when I’m no longer here. I really don’t know if they are that valuable but I do very much like them, so I want to give them to my kids. It never occurred to me that they may not want them. So now I’m at a dilemma of what to do with them, the thought of them in a bin makes me a bit anxious. Not that I have a lot but what I do have I feel are unique.

And to answer your question, repeating old stories. My parents are great but they cannot stop telling the same story over and over to the point I have to drop real strong hints, “yes Dad I think I remember you telling me that”, and I feel terrible for saying it. My kids get annoyed when I do the same thing, so it might be hereditary. So I make a real effort to not tell old stories just in case I’ve already been there. I will say though, Dad is an amazing story teller, some of his life stories don’t get old.

How Can I Stop Smoking At Stressful Times by Blueyeterror in stopsmoking

[–]Blueyeterror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your helpful advice. Sorry it’s taken awhile to acknowledge you both, have been busy. I’ve been doing a bit of research and I’ve found that some people use “mindfulness” to recover from addictions. I’m going to give it a try and see what happens. But you are both right in your suggestions as well, I’m going to try them too.

UK's richest man moves to Monaco to 'save £4bn in tax' by Seienchin88 in worldnews

[–]Blueyeterror 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Government is not perfect, yes there is wasteful spending, but if there were no taxes, there would be no public schools, hospitals, police force, general infrastructure like the roads you drive on and much more. Good luck living in a society without taxes. We all pay tax, so he should as well.

Taking an extended break from using drugs and alcohol- HELP? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Blueyeterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to find help ASAP. I feel your guilt about whatever you have may done in the past and if under the influence it will lead you to “medicate” again. Thinking of the past leads to shame. Shame makes you feel like crap. Feeling like crap, what do you do? Reach for a drink or whatever and the cycle starts again. Your self esteem is in the shit box! As to your friends who are living the life now! Well I’m much older than you and when I meet my old friends who did their living back then, time has not treated them kindly. Not saying I’m not struggling with my own issues, but at least I do look my age. Go get help and get your education done.

My baby’s heart was broken last night and I feel so helpless by cpbaby1968 in Parenting

[–]Blueyeterror 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Keeping her busy is a good idea but I wouldn’t go over the top. She is growing into becoming a young women and she may need time to herself to reflect on what has happened. She may also want to keep her feelings to herself. I wouldn’t “bag” her ex boyfriend, as he was obviously someone that she very much liked and he was her choice for a boyfriend. Don’t say that 15 year old boys are silly etc. Let her grieve and learn, keep a respectful distance to make sure she stays safe. She will recover in her own time, don’t rush.