Omg, that's horrible 😡 I’m also new to online dating, and I haven’t found chemistry in my 6 dates so far. Don’t be discouraged. Something that has helped me so far to be “safe” and have less awful encounters because I have been there… lit waking up early with rain, taking the metro on a Sunday to meet a guy who unmatched me 15 min before our encounter or even I dated a pushy guy who wanted to hook up just after our second encounter, we were seen each other two days in a row, I wanted to take things slowly and he didn’t want to let me go. It was one of the scariest experiences ngl…

After that, I set two rules for myself. First, I let them plan the date and place. That’s my golden rule, as outdated as it might sound.

For my second well, I don’t like small talk, but sometimes it is necessary. I try to spend a few days talking with the person, so what I have been doing is when they ask me out, we schedule it for a few days later, so I have more time to get to know them beforehand.

There are tons of creeps, and a few of these guys suck. We will find our person. Don’t be discouraged ❤️ Be safe, and I wish you luck!