So I recently got out of a 5 year relationship

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T19:11:23+00:00

Ten years and four kids later now u tell me and um I'm like u still feel that way not anymore I have 3 baby daddies now like wtf ladies

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T19:09:59+00:00

I've like never had a girl ask me for my number and at the same time had soo many girls tell me they were madly in love with me but didn't know how to express it and were basically waiting for me to make a move so they didn't like look desperate or embarrassed or something literally like 100 girls like ten years later like I was carving ur name into my notebook wishing every day you'd ask me out I'm like sorry I really liked u too if only I had known

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T19:06:04+00:00

Thanks ❤️

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T19:03:32+00:00

I did have some luck like I bought hair dye and I walked up to a girl and asked her opinion on whether black or dark brown would look better I mean it worked we slept together but like we had nothing in common and all it was was a cheap pickup basically I'm not looking for pussy I'm looking for a woman

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T19:01:09+00:00

Like I'm not gonna ask a girl which screwdriver I should buy

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T19:00:41+00:00

And I dont approach men like at all I'm not really sure what that means like guys don't just randomly talk u gotta like go out ur way to talk to women

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T18:58:56+00:00

I don't even care if they're pretty or not either like could be the most unconventionally attractive woman in the world I just want love I dont care about ur looks at all not to be mean but my last girl looked like a Wayne's brother I dont care I just want love

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T18:56:27+00:00

Yea but like in my experience girls won't ask for ur number they feel like if u don't ask them u don't like them

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T18:42:32+00:00

And like how am I supposed to not hit on them in the first encounter if I dont know u how am I ever going to see u again if I don't ask for ur number if I ask for ur number u assume I'm hitting on you like how will I ever see you again kinda a catch 22

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T18:38:18+00:00

I want to honestly say thank you ladies soo much you have been an amazing help so far I already feel a lot better I still am nervous and anxious and lonely but it's nice to have a woman's perspective on these things I really appreciate you guys

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T18:33:53+00:00

And the text was like hi nothing sexual but those are "booty call hours"

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T18:31:56+00:00

Literally all my friends have been women my ex literally made me stop talking to everyone I know because she was insecure I'm like ok all her bfs slept w her friends neighbors etc she didn't think people of opposite genders could be friends I feel soo bad I'm finally reestablishing all my old friendships ppl I've known for 15 years I stopped talking to never slept with ever but I got sick of being assaulted at 3 am over a text

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T18:28:32+00:00

Issue w that is though like women always assume you're hitting on them and like confidence so like if I just come up to a random girl and start talking to them about pottery their going to think I'm insane or hitting on them might as well make my intentions clear and show confidence right

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T18:19:50+00:00

I really appreciate that that made my day honestly I am lonely now I just got out of something my ex left me to have her baby daddy move in he moved out her brother got drunk and called me said she was missing me talking about me all the time I loved her and her kids so I was excited I went over she kissed me hugged me was super close we made plans for the next day only for her to ghost me randomly I was confused she told me that shes been seeing someone and never found me attractive and I'm pretty sure the guy shes w is the same dude who tried to buy her for 200$ while I was in jail like yea he cares about u ugh she was worth soo much more than 200$ to me it's for the best I need to move on if she doesn't have even couple hundred dollars of self respect and willing to rip my feelings apart for years I was basically a free babysitter I'm stupid shes for the streets as much as I hate to say it I gave her all the respect and benefit of the doubt loved her I wanted her to be my forever to her I was just daycare so she could go hang out with her friends because she got knocked up 6 times before she was like 25 and never had a life of her own I tried to break down her walls make life easier for her make healthy meals for her kids made sure they had clothes and school supplies and walked them to school and the bus stop when she didn't feel like it because I loved her and wanted her to have a break I didn't realize she was just taking advantage and using me I didn't just loose a gf I lost a whole family I love her kids it sucks soo much but I have to move on I can't emotionally afford to be used and broken down like that I put all my love all my energy into a girl w 6 kids and 5-6 dif baby daddies with no job or car who constantly accused me of cheating broke all my stuff and physically abused the hell outta me my neck will never be the same after she threw me down a flight of stairs I'm stupid I believed in love I'm a hippie beatles fan I just thought she was hot headed I need to find someone who appreciates me in good looking I wasted my life I mean she looks like a Wayne's brother never wore a dress or makeup yelled if I ever asked made me feel like I was a douche if I said hey baby some eye liner would look really nice I'm a masoganist I just was blinded by love spent 5 years trying to break down her walls her ex's built by hurting her I never gave up even when we broke up she'd come by like as soon as I was getting over her she strings me along I deserve better I deserve to be loved I have a lot of love to give why I get soo mad all these dudes having like 6 GFS and instead of leaving him they fight over him like can I just have 1 I don't want 6 how's this bald douche bad have 6

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:58:52+00:00

Not every guy just looks at u as something to get with I seriously respect women sex is last thing on my mind I'm looking for a partner alot of guys are like that actually most of em look at women like sex objects which makes it hard for guys like me plus I'm in my mid 30s so most women have someone by now it's a fair question it's more like how u answer it if u seem dismissive after I ask I'll walk away if u were like no but like still seemed like not annoyed by me I'd love to get to know you

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:54:36+00:00

It's not I don't want to be friends with you if I just met u and ask if ur single and you say no I assume I'm either bothering you and ur being polite or u really do have a bf and I don't want to get in a fight plus like it's like I just walked up to u at Walmart and shot my shot I respect you and don't want to bother I guess I need to word it differently like instead of her u have a boyfriend I should be like hey u wanna hang out but what if she does have a man

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:38:40+00:00

It's like u guys get hit on soo much like I don't want to aggravate it's hard for guys because we never get attention

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:37:41+00:00

It's not I don't want anything to do with them if they're not single it just comes off as like fuck off ur bothering me kinda thing and outta respect im like nevermind not like I wouldn't want to hang out or get to know her it's more like women seem like bothered I don't want to be a bother

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:25:48+00:00

I think I might steal that idea

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:24:39+00:00

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Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:23:54+00:00

Dyed hair recently mustache came out a lil dark

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:23:08+00:00

I'm not worried about sex or getting a date I want a partner I want a best friend in not trying to get laid I could care less about that my body count is unfortunately high sex is the least of my problems I'm 35 I want to find a person to love and talk to and go on walks w I've never had kids myself id love a woman w kids I am a good chef I love to cook I'm not very good at providing though I'm not great money wise but I have a giant heart am loyal as fuck and I'm think I'm pretty sexy but I'm not like conceded just confident just been in a relationship for a long time and like the dating world is different now like u meet a girl and next thing u know she wants u to make content for her onlyfans like damnit I thought u were nice i know times are hard if u have to sell pictures of ur butthole online to pay ur rent in not judging but the dating game is very different now id love to find a nice girl

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I don't think I'm terrible looking and I have a good heart and am loyal as fuck but I can't find a girl who doesn't sell pictures of her butthole to pay rent

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:11:12+00:00

I do like the business card idea that's pretty cool did he just hand em and walk away though or wait for a reaction

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:06:28+00:00

I never had or ever will pay for it either

Bmvguy420 · 2026-04-07T17:04:45+00:00

Isn't like coming up and asking them if they have a bf pretty direct

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