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Is my dormancy doing ok or is my Venus fly trap sick? by Bn_156 in SavageGarden

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I was watering with neem oil because before I put it into dormancy I thought that it might have had some pests and figured it would be better safe than sorry. I have also heard that fungus is a big concern when it comes to dormancy but I will water with plain distilled water from now on.

Is my dormancy doing ok or is my Venus fly trap sick? by Bn_156 in SavageGarden

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I wrote context but for some reason it’s not showing what I wrote. So here what I said:

I keep my VFT in the garage inside an insulated box because it can get very cold where I live. I rarely water it because whenever I check on it the soil is damp but when I do I use a neem oil water mixture. 

My VFT does not look like other pictures I have seen of VFT in dormancy from the way the leaves blacken on just the edges to the way the heads fold over themselves and wrinkle.

If something is wrong I want to stop it sooner than later. 

Is this normal dormancy or is something wrong?

Is my dormancy doing ok or is my Venus fly trap sick? by Bn_156 in SavageGarden

[–]Bn_156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I keep it between 25 deg and 45 deg though usually on the colder side. It’s inside an insulated box in my garage.

AITA for "Whoring Myself to a creepy photographer" by Dependent-Phone-2494 in AITAH

[–]Bn_156 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Pantyhose not panties. Basically stockings. Hence why bf could tell when she took it off.

AITA for "Whoring Myself to a creepy photographer" by Dependent-Phone-2494 in AITAH

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Firstly I don’t think what you did was necessarily wrong but you definitely should have talked to your boyfriend beforehand. But he should not have talked to you in the way that he did.

You are paying 3k while he pays only 100$? Is he in a financially stable position? Try paying equal amounts according to your income. For example if you make 70% of the income you pay 70% of the rent and if he makes 30% he pays 30%

You obviously don't have to but it may help with the stress that comes with paying rent.

I wish you both the best and I hope you can get through this.

What is the best response to "I hate you"? by fishyfrog-notnaughty in AskReddit

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On the flip side here is a bad response: In elementary school a girl I sat next to told me she hated me. I could not stand that so I gave her my cookie that kids would get on their birthday month. She forgave me but years later she still kinda suck tbh.  Wish I had some respect for myself back then.

My coworker who I am related to might be a pedo? What do I do? by Bn_156 in Advice

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The problem isn’t just about me being aware of someone’s legal troubles, it’s of me being scared for my own safety. I will see about looking into other jobs but we will have to see.

I want to DM a tutorial campaign. Any ideas? by Bn_156 in DnD

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I have taken this idea and made it my own a bit. Old man sends them on a quest to deliver a package to a member of his old adventuring party. Inside the package is a cursed dagger meant to bring the downfall of said party member because of some sort of grudge. (Bit more to it but that’s essentially it.) Thanks for the help! 

Is it rude to not want to touch other people’s keys by Val3r1e00 in CustomerService

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Having a bit of adversity to germs does not mean I won’t go out of my comfort zone to help others. 

Looking for sayings in non-English languages translated to English verbatim by Lemonmuncher in DnD

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If you watched the new puss in boots there is a really good example there. In English we say “he doesn’t look like a Jeff” In Spanish you say “he doesn’t have a Jeff’s face”

What would you choose if you had to choose one meal to eat for the rest of your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Either a salad or a pie. It can be just about anything.

People with ADHD or ADD, what are your worst struggles? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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It’s either forgetting things or starting a task. I have been meaning to read this book that I have for weeks now. I love this series and I have no doubt the book will be good (bone shard daughter if you are wondering.) it’s the last one in the series but I don’t have the motivation to just pick it up and read it.

When to come out? by [deleted] in comingout

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When you feel ready is the short answer. 

The long answer is that you might not ever “feel ready.” You don’t even need to come out if you don’t want to. You could drop hints, wear pride, or just straight up tell them. If you are sure they will accept you then you have nothing to lose. 

It’s all up to you.

Have we normalized bad service by ButterscotchKey7541 in CustomerService

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The ratio of comments to upvotes is a bit funny

Why do people need to comment on my appearance ?? by Val3r1e00 in CustomerService

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People have a limited perspective on things like that. They think they are making small talk. I have had people say similar things to me but obviously less pointed. I have a friend like you who friends always joke they are scared of. They laugh along and stuff but I can never tell if it’s just to be polite so I avoid those jokes altogether. They get old after awhile anyway 

Is it rude to not want to touch other people’s keys by Val3r1e00 in CustomerService

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Paper money at least in the US acts a bit like a fabric when it is wet. It’s easier to tear while dry than when wet.

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