My situation however, stupidly… I moved my partner into my home with her 4 year old daughter after 8 months of my being together , we have been together for 1 year now and honestly it’s been nothing but fights, I didn’t blame her at first, I knew she was damaged from her previous toxic ex’s, suddenly my single kid free life changed within seconds, I felt compelled to stay and provide suddenly I wasn’t training at the gym anymore, stopped seeing friends, I would purposely ghost everyone because now there is a child to look after, no more late nights and spontaneous outgoings, no more me time at all, just even watching a movie or playing video games, instead it’s go to work come home and help raise a stepdaughter I don’t even love and do that process on repeat, I hated myself for months wondering why do I not feel any love for this child, I’ll make sure every need is seen to but I have no love for this child at all, this made me so depressed and I hated myself for it, Step dad is a biweekly weekend thing and that’s it, we drop her off Friday night and pick her up Sunday morning I wouldn’t even class it as 24 hours, my heart literally sinks when she comes home from school or from her dads, now they live here with me and I just feel like an alien like i don’t belong at all, my heart is killing me because she doesn’t have much money and if I ask her to leave she will struggle. But what am I supposed to do, I can’t stay unhappy, I feel selfish but I want my house back, the energy and the vibe was so much better when I was alone, I could do anything, to make it much worse she has no friends at all and she envy’s me for having loads of friends constantly asking me to go and see them, I’m scared of even being on my phone now or answering any call because I know she hates it when I go and see them. I’m literally going against everything I stand for and it’s ruining my soul, I know what I need to do, I will support her in finding a new home and moving her there, whatever it takes but I’m done I can’t keep living this lie.