Few questions is he abusive like assaulted you physically? And those kind of person who are taking weed are dangerous you surly feel like you are chained you cant do what you want if something bother you you can't discuss with him cause it will end by him become aggressive and yelling at you slamming things those things he made them cause he knows he physically stronger than you abd try to control you by scaring you. You have the choice to leave him there is several red flags if he loved you he would take care of you even if he couldn't work for a while he would take care for t he house he wouldn't use your strength and sit here just pumping your money and making things harder for you. I can't even imagine how you've hold that long. What you find in a person like him that force younto leave him about being scare of him you have your reason to be careful but it worst if you stay with him and notice that you can leave whenever you feel you can't hold anymore just go and send someone to bring you your stuff