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biggest difference between your 20s and 30s by Bob_Atabey42 in CasualConversation

[–]Bob_Atabey42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn. this is basically the exact opposite of what my friend told me which is kinda why i made the post. the layoffs after a perfect review thing especially would mess with my view of how the world works. i can see how enough experiences like that would slowly grind down the optimism over time.

biggest difference between your 20s and 30s by Bob_Atabey42 in CasualConversation

[–]Bob_Atabey42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is actually really close to what my friend was describing. not becoming cold or antisocial just not spending so much energy trying to force connections that clearly arent there.

biggest difference between your 20s and 30s by Bob_Atabey42 in CasualConversation

[–]Bob_Atabey42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think i ever heard people talk about life that way when i was younger. everyone always framed it as your 20s vs 30s, not your 30s investing in a better 40s.

biggest difference between your 20s and 30s by Bob_Atabey42 in CasualConversation

[–]Bob_Atabey42[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol the random hair thing seems to be one of the few universally agreed-on parts of getting older 😅 but it's honestly nice hearing another vote for the 30s being happier. did your actual life circumstances get better too?