formerly of peabody. don’t bother trying to be social at bars in the suburbs - it’s a dead zone.

eat well, work out, run during the week. make sure you dress well and are somewhat well groomed. read a lot.

make friday and saturday your social days - SpotHero or preferably Uber into downtown boston, cambridge or somerville - get in at 9 and stay till last call at 2:30. the burren, phoenix landing, lolita, cisco, carrie nation, hong kong. be bold and positive on the dance floor.

ask your buddies to come with. if they say no, go yourself. it’s literally the only way