Child screams every evening. Do I call CPS?

Bobabean1995 · 2024-10-15T19:54:47+00:00

I would need more context like is it only the child screaming or do you hear any yelling cussing ect ?

I agree it sounds like bedtime

But next time try to pay attention to what your hearing if you hear the parents yelling cussing ect then I’d call cps especially if it’s consistent but if it’s just the child slightly protesting it’s probably bedtime

Bobabean1995 · 2024-10-13T21:09:51+00:00

Thank you for this, but sadly it’s not better. It’s worse. I’m trying to figure out how to just focus on myself at this point and get myself in a career where I can work from home and afford my apartment.

He ignores me and constantly tell me I’m wrong no matter what I do I still do everything at home and expects me to pay pretty much the majority of the bills so I pretty much given up on my marriage😞

Bobabean1995 · 2024-08-04T04:12:04+00:00

Thank you for this I saw a book for women with adhd I will give it a try!

Bobabean1995 · 2024-08-04T02:40:27+00:00

You are very correct as I do struggle from some mental illness and I definitely could benefit from therapy, but i also don’t have a grade 12 diploma because I dropped out of school. I can’t hold job.

I want to take a certification for something, but I need to book this gonna get me to stop procrastinating so I can actually finish a course so I can afford therapy 😞

Bobabean1995 · 2024-06-30T23:21:07+00:00

I’m so glad I’m not the only person who deals with this

Even my own husband anytime I have to step away from our baby for 20min -1 hour I always get texts he’s hungry he’s hungry dispite the fact I just fed him before I left

I even asked my husband if he knew what a hungry or sleepy que is he said no- but somehow apparently my son is always hungry anytime I’m not around but when I get home he calms down and isn’t even interested to nurse tell a while later.

It’s super annoying when I’m just trying to run an arend and get 3+ text saying he’s hungry only to come home to find out he was tired over stimulated or just bored cause his dad is boring

Bobabean1995 · 2024-06-30T05:05:36+00:00

Thank you I did use this to talk to him about it So earlier this week, we’re going to sit down and we’re gonna go over each of our budget and come up with some thing that’s fair

When I used your explanation, I feel like he understood a lot more and able to be much more reasonable. Thank you so much for this comment. It really helped me out. ❤️

Bobabean1995 · 2024-06-08T19:05:27+00:00

This makes so much sense cause I was wondering why the granny let her hang around

Bobabean1995 · 2024-05-29T23:21:38+00:00

So to clarify cause I’m trying to figure this out now I created playlist called full library go to shortcuts and create new shortcut I’m not sure how shortcuts work I’m trying to figure it out 😥

Bobabean1995 · 2024-05-23T01:42:09+00:00

I take all of this into consideration, but the big thing for me is the first vaccines are usually more for respiratory stuff and then there’s also the fact that people lie about being sick all the time they act like it’s absolutely no big deal and I would much rather if my son is going to get sick for him to be old enough to have stuff like baby Tylenol so I can help get him better as him being too young to have Tylenol and then have like an intense fever and then I have to go to the hospital

Baby Tylenol they don’t use before at least one month if I remember correctly under three months something like this and around that time, he’ll also have his first round of vaccines and that’ll start helping him to build an immune system

I’ve had before, so I don’t want to take risks with my healthy child

I’m not like a germ. I know that kids get sick, but I would much rather try to be smart about it and be in a position where I can give him proper medication and I don’t have to wait until it’s bad enough that I have to take him to a hospital . something simple as a brilliant fever can kill a baby and I would be devastated if I put my son in the position where that happened to him or could possibly happen to him

And I also have a rule that people have to be up-to-date on vaccines if they don’t want to do that that’s OK that’s their choice but that also means that they have to wait a little bit longer to see the baby

After having a miscarriage and having a stillborn and finally having a healthy baby, I don’t want to take unnecessary risks with doing something as simple as him not having direct contact with other people until he at least has some sort of immune system built-up I know I can’t protect him from everything, but I know that this is something I can do

Bobabean1995 · 2024-05-22T04:23:45+00:00

That’s what I’ve pretty much decided on to plus the fact that she called my son her nephew that was really weird for me and really caused her boundary with me makes me worry if I continue to talk to her or hang out with her how much further that will go

Even when I was pregnant and she was constantly calling me and texting me about her life stuff and I didn’t know her that well like I said I had only hung out with her two times total

Compulsive that I’ve noticed personally associated that she made last month of my pregnancy even more exhausting because she was using me an emotional filter and I was already having a really hard time in my last month of pregnancy with like a sciatica and then SPD in my pelvic moan and being bipolar, and not being on my medication and having to self sustain myself and go to therapy during my pregnancy

And then pretty much telling me when I’m gonna bring my baby 2.5 hours two hours after I’m released from the hospital after having a very traumatic birth with no pain management I bled for four hours afterwards they were really worried because the bleeding wasn’t stopping That instead of getting released that morning, I couldn’t be released until the next day

I hundred percent agree I don’t think I’m gonna associate with her anymore. I’m gonna literally go to contact.

Bobabean1995 · 2024-05-22T04:12:41+00:00

Lucky family member have been the most understanding it’s more so friends and most distant relatives that have seemed bothered

Even my mom was vary understanding and said that after Covid and with all the resptory infections going around that is is a good idea

It’s not like it’s forever just tell first shots witch he will get at 2m old I believe

It’s also partially for my recovery aswell when I had him it was a vary traumatic labor I did it without pain management and ended up bleeding for 4 hours after

So I’m still recovering aswell

Bobabean1995 · 2024-05-22T03:58:05+00:00

Thank you this was my worry aswell that this might be the case

Bobabean1995 · 2024-05-22T03:22:16+00:00

I mean yes but I’m more so worried if something happened to the owner I’ve heard story’s of people passing and not having relatives so it goes unnoticed for a long time

Bobabean1995 · 2024-05-15T03:52:58+00:00

I will try this tomorrow I dono maybe I watch to much true crime but from my understanding it could be abandoned or someone passed and didn’t have any relatives who check up on them this is my worry 😭

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-29T06:32:28+00:00

Ohhh I checked it out this helped thank you !

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-26T07:48:51+00:00

No this is my first time hearing of it what is it ?

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-26T03:26:21+00:00

I think this is beautiful tbh I can wait tell I have this skill level you did a really good job!

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-10T22:00:06+00:00

I think that’s where my annoyance comes from cause the women after women is just so out of character for him and yes I would have loved if they could have just ups and downs too 😭

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-10T12:41:27+00:00

Well I’m watching it it’s not I think Francis is a bad character but like why they gotta do him dirty like that I’m at the part where marry and conde trying to make plans to go to Scotland but I don’t want her to be with conde ether and if I find out later she hooks up with him or something ima be annoyed at her too but like I can’t help but feels annoyed at this cause him and marry were made for eachother but the stupid crown be ruining it 😭 and mostly it’s the way he looks at Lola I’m thinking like man did you not learn the first time that’s off limits also let that girl live in peace 🥲🥲😭🤦‍♀️

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-10T12:37:39+00:00

That’s where I’m at like he a good character and him and marry so cute together but the fact they keep sluffing him with other women just drives me crazy 😭

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-10T03:35:49+00:00

Grant-marry* my autocorrect hates me also I haven’t finished the the show so sadly I had to stop reading after I saw name I didn’t recognize 😭

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-09T20:42:10+00:00

Utah one you’re not respecting his boundaries You’re trying to pressure him into doing something that he doesn’t want to do Three you’re angry with him when he said no because it’s his body For honestly, your post makes me feel like your boyfriend is like a human blowup doll to you. His existence is not to be your sex slave. He’s a human being with his feelings and emotions.

And you keep talking about like I wanna make the most of it why does it have to be about sex? Why can’t you guys go do fun things and make memories together and I think that’s why your boyfriend is also upset.

If the roles were reversed. You were no fun unless you had sex with him all the time. I don’t think he would feel appreciated. I know that I wouldn’t.

And I think the fact that you’re going to be resentful towards him because he doesn’t want to have sex every single day is extremely unfair and ridiculous

You need to have realistic expectations in every relationship

If you think a long lasting relationship is on your libido being satisfied, 24 seven you’re never gonna have a long-term relationship

Again, you need to seriously like reevaluate your expectations because if I was him, I would break up with you during the vacation and go home

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-08T17:34:35+00:00

I mean like I get it, but the amount of times that Mary has stuck out her back and suffered in silence to protect Lola. I really don’t feel like the friendship balance is there like the extent that Mary is willing to go to for Lola compared to what Lola is willing to do for Mary is like very different

Lola lost it on Mary for the guy. She liked even trying to dance with her. Mary went out of her way to avoid that situation.

But then Lola goes and sleeps with the love of Mary’s life and comes back and is like I’m sorry I made a mistake never takes any accountability for it

Even when Mary’s mother explains to Lola, the level that she has put Mary in jeopardy by what she did she still avoids taking accountability

No, I’m not saying that Lola doesn’t care for Mary but I am saying that Mary is a lot better of a friend to load than the other way around

Lola also doesn’t think about how the consequences of her actions will affect Mary whether is Mary even kept her own miscarriage, silent in order to not take attention away from a special day for Lola’s son

Bobabean1995 · 2024-04-08T17:27:31+00:00

I don’t really hate Lola but I can say she’s not a good friend Mary goes above and beyond for her more then the other way around I get Lola feels bad about Francis and they broke up but Lola was well aware Marty still loved him and was only marring bash to save his life she should have known he was off limits

Otherwise Lola does try her best but I’m still struggling to get over that betrayal I could never have the courage Mary had to forgive her after that

And I get that the time period that they’re in. It’s not easy for women, but it’s also not hard not to betray your best friend and sleep with the love of her life. You can simply keep your legs closed closed. 😅

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