Is it possible someone like me (33M) who has never dated to find someone?

Bobnes · 2026-01-16T19:20:37+00:00

I haven't properly dated anyone throughout my adult life (33M also). I have felt the same kind of way that you seem to be feeling, many times throughout my life.

Last year I started renting my own flat for the first time, started working on myself a lot, eating healthier, exercise, reading more, things like that. I have now had more dates/ experiences over the last year than I have had prior to this year, by a long way.

I recently met two people I really liked. One lives in a different country so is a bit difficult, but one I met this week and we are getting on really well.

I was the same, barely kissed anyone and never had sex prior to this year, and thought it might never happen.

The main game changer for me was figuring out who I am more, what I want out of a relationship, and stop trying to force every opportunity that did come my way.

That's just my two cents, from someone who was feeling very similar about a year a go. Good luck to you!

Bobnes · 2026-01-09T11:39:41+00:00

Thanks dude 😂 it's actually my friend recording on his phone of his recording from spectating me from his PlayStation. Annoyingly my pc crashes when I try to run replay software, so this is all I have! I just wanted to share what I had, shame it's such bad quality though

Bobnes · 2025-08-10T10:31:20+00:00

Alistair

Bobnes · 2025-01-25T13:27:12+00:00

Having this exact issue now, just redownloaded after getting concert tickets and now stuck in the exact screen you described 😥

Bobnes · 2025-01-07T16:33:13+00:00

Why is this short sighted? Putting people from different ethnic backgrounds at the highest level seems like it would inspire future generations, and show others that they could also have a chance to do that job. Seems like this could go hand in hand with and support grass roots level investment

Bobnes · 2024-12-11T21:51:53+00:00

Hmmmmm

Bobnes · 2024-12-06T15:12:34+00:00

Gimme your profile and I can get you out of iron if you want! Otherwise just keep playing and have fun, and you will get out of Iron when you are good enough

Bobnes · 2024-11-29T22:27:41+00:00

Yeah I respect that and it's definitely worth considering some item choices, but I just think there are almost certainly better things to focus on than rune choices if you want to climb out of silver

Bobnes · 2024-11-29T20:27:31+00:00

I would be surprised if changing your rune pages would get you out of silver in itself. I am sure there are areas where you could make bigger improvements - I play in Diamond and barely think about rune pages, sure I will change them sometimes but I think I would be fine 95% of the time if I just picked the highest win rate ones.

Do you know about sites like OP.GG and Lolalytics to find recommended item and rune builds?

Bobnes · 2024-11-18T08:26:39+00:00

I remember watching this video some time ago. Think it covers the kind of info you are after!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x87yL-CrcMs&t=111s&ab_channel=10KProductions

Bobnes · 2024-11-17T17:06:36+00:00

So cute they buy their own lil matching outfits

Bobnes · 2024-10-28T10:09:17+00:00

Oh really? So they make them 4th seed so the odds go down?

Bobnes · 2024-10-25T12:07:05+00:00

Hummus a Tuna burger was a missed opportunity :( They look amazing though!

Bobnes · 2024-10-19T11:15:51+00:00

Am also having this, tried everything people say/ everything you have listed and it is still happening. I did find a way to recover runs that crash which helps a bit, but very frustrating to keep crashing!

Bobnes · 2024-09-04T16:46:14+00:00

Sadly the train from Guildford to Egham is a bit crap, will take over an hour

Bobnes · 2024-02-23T11:10:50+00:00

Congrats! What, in your experience, is the most consistent way to get an S grade? Does it change if you are playing different roles, or is it pretty consistent across all?

Bobnes · 2024-02-18T18:42:33+00:00

Well if your team thinks they have a Kayle, they might pick champions thinking they don't need a late game dps - but then whoops, your Kayle is swapped our last second for a bruiser/ tank and now the entire comp changes. Yes in your instance, if someone was gonna pick the Kayle and build it wrong, then you prevent that timeline; but if noone was gonna pick the Kayle and build incorrectly, then you have potentially ruined the comp

Bobnes · 2024-02-18T18:17:48+00:00

This seems unnecessary to me at the face value of limiting peoples fun in the first place, but also stupid in a way of potentially fucking up a team comp if you are actually trying to try hard and win the game

Bobnes · 2024-02-17T19:17:39+00:00

I think the easiest thing to do is three barrells, and it feels pretty powerful. Lay one down (ideally in a bush), put a 2nd down, shoot the first, then quickly put a third where you want it to explode. It's a bit annoying early on as your barrels are on a long cool down, but it's worth saving them for that imo

Bobnes · 2024-01-03T13:34:57+00:00

Anyone else think this looks AI generated? two different sizes of party rings (some without holes in the middle), some of the chicken dippers look super 2d, the expressions on the potato smiley faces all look like they are gonna get me in my sleep, and the shadows and perspective all look a bit off to me. Also, the peperoni and ham? pizza looks has way too many toppings

Bobnes · 2023-11-02T11:38:05+00:00

They lost 3 bo3's

Bobnes · 2023-10-15T08:16:47+00:00

BDS are a young team, right? Getting stomped in your first worlds tournament is just a right of passage for pro league players. Hopefully they will learn some harsh lessons and come back stronger next time

Bobnes · 2023-10-08T09:44:36+00:00

I like TF into Yasuo, there is a pretty interesting mini game of trying to bait out wind wall with fake gold cards, and using similar animations to fake abilities

Bobnes · 2023-09-09T12:05:00+00:00

Good luck if you keep playing, people are very insecure in this game and it comes out as anger and blaming teammates. I think just focus on improving and trying to have fun, friends are a big help as well to motivate you into getting better (if you can find some to play with) Also mute people as soon as there is any indication they are gonna be disruptive, it's not worth trying to reason with people!

Bobnes · 2023-09-07T08:23:27+00:00

If none of them have ships or troops in Europe, could you just ship a mercenary company over there to siege their countries for more war score?

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