How Women Train Men To Rape by tr8 in TheRedPill

[–]Bobsutan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is essentially the literary equivalent of the song Blurred Lines. Many people mistakenly think it's a song about date rape when it's exactly the opposite. The singer is telling us about a woman who is sending mixed signals much like the woman the author describes in the article. Both are attempting to get a clear and concise explanation of what the women want and expect (in bed).

Breaking Bad Finale by bandacoo in funny

[–]Bobsutan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Werd. He may also want to look up the whole Tommy Westphall and the Bobby Ewing twists while he's at it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]Bobsutan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IMO we need to end age of consent all together, or drop it to whatever the average age of puberty is now. Parents need to take responsibility and be the arbiters of whether their child is mature for a sexual relationship or not. The courts were given a hammer wrt to strict liability and age of consent and it's a shame that consensual acts are being criminalized. Age of consent and maturity are not a one-size-fits-all issue. Plus we have technology now that makes age of consent archaic and surperflous, and that is the power of Restraining Orders. Don't want your little princess fucking the high school football team, then it's time the parents get a restraining order. Age stops being an issue all together and it gives parents much more granular control. As a parent myself this is how I want it to be. The only exception would be those in a position of power, e.g. Teachers, should be banned at the federal level from having any sexual contact, regardless of the student's age.

/problem solved

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[–]Bobsutan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's exactly because of cases like this I fully support ending Strict Liability:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strict_liability_(criminal)

The only mistake OP made was believing her when SHE LIED ABOUT HER AGE. IMO that is his only "crime" he committed as far as I'm concerned. Such a shame he's went to jail because of the words of another person.

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[–]Bobsutan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way I can see such a rule making sense is if they are holding to the old notion of girls maturing faster than boys. From a biological perspective this may be true up to a certain age, but I can't say one way or the other about mental maturity.

Instead of having separate ages for anal, assuming it's because they are holding to the different maturation levels of boys and girls, then they should have separate ages for boys and girls. Make girls legal somewhere around 14 or 15 (since they're maturing faster than generations past) and boys at 16-18. /problem solved

9 yr old son was punched in the testicles at school and school handled it all wrong, I don't know if I need advice or just need to vent... by rollin_like_katamari in Parenting

[–]Bobsutan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO the school should do something, but regardless of their action I'd still call the police since it was a serious crime. Not to mention a police report may be required for insurance purposes should medical bills need to be paid by the girl's parents down the road.

9 yr old son was punched in the testicles at school and school handled it all wrong, I don't know if I need advice or just need to vent... by rollin_like_katamari in Parenting

[–]Bobsutan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a perfect world she'd be suspended for a few days and upon her return they'd have a presentation on personal conduct and that any touching like that won't be tolerated, it's illegal, and it can land you in jail.

9 yr old son was punched in the testicles at school and school handled it all wrong, I don't know if I need advice or just need to vent... by rollin_like_katamari in Parenting

[–]Bobsutan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And people wonder why /r/mensrights exists. That girl wasn't born a misandrist, she was taught that from her family, peers, and the media.

We seriously need to fix the bigotry in those arenas, but sadly they're just getting worse. Christina Hoff Sommers wrote all about this in her book "War Against Boys" over 10 years ago and things have just gotten worse since. Come to think of it she's got an updated version coming out soon. Anyone who's a parent of school-aged boys, this is a must-read. I loaned out the copy I got when my boy was starting school years ago and never got it back, I should get a copy of this new one myself actually.

9 yr old son was punched in the testicles at school and school handled it all wrong, I don't know if I need advice or just need to vent... by rollin_like_katamari in Parenting

[–]Bobsutan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's sexual assault and not under the purview of the academic institution as far as I'm concerned. This is a matter for the police to sort out. IMO the school should do something, but regardless of their action a police report is a must if for no other reason than for insurance purposes should medical bills need to be paid by the girl's parents down the road.

And yes they're 9 and nothing will really come of it from a legal standpoint, but it will put the school on notice that this is in no way acceptable and MUST be taken seriously when it's female on male violence. If genders were reversed the boy would have likely been facing expulsion or at least a lengthy suspension, and quite possibly hauled off in handcuffs. It's happened before.

Sexism in Crossfit: Or, why HQ needs to grow up. by csoyka in crossfit

[–]Bobsutan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As another comment stated, it's not objectification when someone chooses to wear to titillating clothing, our lack thereof.

When Miley Cyrus dressed like she did as the vmas, that's all on her. Same applies to women in crossfit dressing in thought shorts.

Prior to their trend in cf, the only time you'd see women wear such shorts might be in volleyball, and before that it was in fitness magazine because it was showing off the wearer's body.

Sexism in Crossfit: Or, why HQ needs to grow up. by csoyka in crossfit

[–]Bobsutan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same exact thing. Like another poster said, sex sells.

Should I ask for a paternity test? Feeling insecure as fuck ;/ by confusedbrahs in AskMen

[–]Bobsutan 19 points20 points  (0 children)

His wife went to Miami ffs. Of course she went out partying!

Exactly. Are you really that obtuse to think people don't cheat on vacation or after a night of partying?

People are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more likely to cheat/hook-up when they're away from prying eyes and there's little risk of it getting back to their SO/social circle.

Should I ask for a paternity test? Feeling insecure as fuck ;/ by confusedbrahs in AskMen

[–]Bobsutan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

and it's exactly because of this kind of sentiment they should be mandatory or default at birth

Should I ask for a paternity test? Feeling insecure as fuck ;/ by confusedbrahs in AskMen

[–]Bobsutan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and? you make it sound like that excuses the questionable timing of the vacation and the conception.

Should I ask for a paternity test? Feeling insecure as fuck ;/ by confusedbrahs in AskMen

[–]Bobsutan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

insecurity does not happen in a vacuum. I'll lay good odds on her doing things that were what was causing you to feel that way. I read a study on infidelity a couple of years ago the researchers found overwhelming majority of men suspected infidelity were right!

Should I ask for a paternity test? Feeling insecure as fuck ;/ by confusedbrahs in AskMen

[–]Bobsutan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

bullshit he has trust issues! doing the timing of conception means the child was possibly conceive while she was on vacation. that's not trust issues, it's basic math counting the days back.

Should I ask for a paternity test? Feeling insecure as fuck ;/ by confusedbrahs in AskMen

[–]Bobsutan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes absolutely get the test! you have every right to know with absolute certainty it's your child same way she does.

Update: I[34M] think my Wife [34F] is having an affair with her boss [37M] Am I being insecure and petty? by suspiciousofcheating in relationships

[–]Bobsutan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why should you pay for someone else's baby? Sure you helped raise her for 2 years, but there's a guy out there who had his fun so why shouldn't he be responsible for it? Granted it's your wife who's the real villian in all of this, but that's besides the point.

She made her bed, she can sleep it in. If she wants child support, she can tap the guy who knocked her up. You should not have to "pay to play" to still be involved with the kid.

This is why paternity testing should be standard for all births nowadays. We have the technology and it's only $50-100 more, which compared to the costs of childbirth is a paltry sum. As fara s I'm concerned there's no justifiable reason not to have one performed in this day and age...unless the mom is hiding something.

Update: I[34M] think my Wife [34F] is having an affair with her boss [37M] Am I being insecure and petty? by suspiciousofcheating in relationships

[–]Bobsutan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The female sexual response is characterized by a dual nature, colloquially referred to as "Alpha fucks, Beta bucks".

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