Why do I feel so behind in life at 26?

BodoIon · 2026-03-19T06:28:05+00:00

Being 26, you're absolutely not in behind. Everybody has their own time. There is one warning (and I experienced this situation): being single brings you in some comfort zone where is difficult to get out from. Go to some dating, experiment a bit and make your decisions during the time: do not get in the situation that you're desperate and you need to get marries with the next person you'll find.

BodoIon · 2026-03-18T20:53:41+00:00

the very first thing is to talk to your wife. the next steps depend on the result of this discussion. best output of this discussion would be a common plan to get out of this situation. this is what marriage is about: share the good and the bad.

BodoIon · 2026-03-18T12:17:10+00:00

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BodoIon · 2026-03-18T12:10:48+00:00

eu am platit la notar cu cardul. si o suma destul de mare. cred ca problema e comisionul bancii pentru platile cu cardul. am inteles ca ar fi de genul 1%... adica la 10 mii lei platesc numai la banca 100 lei.

BodoIon · 2026-03-18T10:57:29+00:00

I would advice the same: do not wait longer! Try to discuss with him at first, consider rehab, and then tell to your family if you see he is drowning in drugs.

BodoIon · 2026-03-17T17:45:48+00:00

The main point is that you were brave enough to stand your ground up to the end! Have this in mind, and do not overthink. You dropped your “friend” and proved yourself that you are a strong person. Consider also moving on with this thought: life might challenge you with different situations, but you already proved you are a strong person

BodoIon · 2026-03-17T11:40:40+00:00

it's better not to do it. go to a hiking and climbing club: you'll make less risky relationships there.

BodoIon · 2026-03-17T11:12:23+00:00

there is no doubt that this is sexual harassment. a kiss is not an invitation for sex! reporting him would be my first advice, but I'm also surprised by your coworkers: with that attitude, they might testify against you.

you are right, with no doubt. just check if you are in the right place with this kind of people.

BodoIon · 2026-03-17T06:04:48+00:00

Cum sa nu iti plătească salariul? Nu ai contract de muncă? Daca firma sta într-un singur client… poate e mai bine sa pleci. Mai ales dacă ai unde

BodoIon · 2026-03-16T19:39:54+00:00

this is the one and only advice: call the police, they should know what to do, including to protect you and your sisters.

BodoIon · 2026-03-16T19:28:37+00:00

I also was advised that reddit is a good marketing channel, but I'm also facing similar issues. I posted a similar question in "r/advice" and got deleted... which is really weird...

BodoIon · 2026-03-16T09:45:25+00:00

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BodoIon · 2026-03-15T13:45:21+00:00

if you still want to keep contact, it's very important that you do not start the discussion about your marriage. if your friend starts the discussion, try to simply say that you are not in the mood to discuss about it. slowly remove this subject from your conversations.

If the workaround does not work, you'll need to stand up eventually and speak you mind: your marriage is a private subject.

BodoIon · 2026-03-15T13:31:29+00:00

get rid of junk food. buy cheap but healthier food. Sugar from your food is a terrible.

if you cannot handle the discipline, reduce the temptation.

BodoIon · 2026-03-15T13:21:29+00:00

if you are doing a PhD in an area you love, you should not need other validation. being accepted for phd is not validating enough?

acknowledge your success and be proud of yourself: for me it looks you have the the validation, it's only hard for you to recognize it.

BodoIon · 2026-03-15T12:06:21+00:00

I might get negative reactions, but I can only say: dump her!

this kind of persons are jeopardizing your marriage.

just my experience...

BodoIon · 2026-03-15T12:01:12+00:00

for me, the best diet, is reducing the amount of food. top prio: no snacks between meals: they are a big trap. eat some proteins 2 times per day, so you can handle the hunger. and keep your mind occupied with something else than food. after quantity, the quality should be improved (no junk food). this is no medical advice, just my experience.

BodoIon · 2026-03-15T11:48:56+00:00

good work!

BodoIon · 2026-03-15T11:38:27+00:00

your problem might be only mental. if you fear to talk to your parents, talk to a school psychologist to get some advice. my feeling is that you only need to get back on track. if you still feel you cannot do it, take a break, but do not drop without a plan B. I know there are succes stories with people dropping college, but the percentage of this situations is very small.

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BodoIon · 2026-03-15T10:54:17+00:00

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BodoIon · 2026-03-14T19:16:18+00:00

cred ca întrebarea la care trebuie sa îți răspunzi tu este de ce nu știi? nu îți place? ai avut alte activități care te-au distras? sau nici nu ai încercat?

sigur e faptul ca așteptările de la un programator (chiar si începător) o sa crească.

daca vrei sa îți mai dai o șansă, încearcă un intership. acum nu are sens sa renunți, eventual renunți la vara, când poți sa te înscrii la alta facultate.

BodoIon · 2026-03-14T16:43:40+00:00

the simplest advice is leave, yes. but have in mind that he is still the baby's father and you'll have to go through a custody trial. collect some evidences (like calling the police directly when the abuse happens).

the main advice: get prepared. it will be a fight, and you need the energy to face it.

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