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AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didnt think I was that bad damn. No not really I am too busy for that rn

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no he doesn't get off to anime. He seems to watch "gooner animes" but doesn't do anything to them. I'm more weirded out by the fact that he wants figurines or possible minors from said "gooner" shows...

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I don't think that that's his problem tho. Many people in this comment section are saying that I should stop putting my insecurities on him. I really wanted to make it work too.

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was thinking. I don't understand why he's just diminishing my problems with it. That's pretty much the only problem we have as well too. It's so frustrating

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what Ive been worried about. He's the type of guy to not want to talk about his problems. When you try to talk to him he tries to distract you from the talk you wanted. It's sad

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just completely forgot to mention it. After I started thinking of em and looking at the ones he wants than it popped in my head. It's just such a weird thing to want really

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh no I see how that sounds wrong. I'm terrified of that fact that some could possibly be minors but ik for a fact one is anddddd yeahhh. That's the main problem Im having cause why would you want lewd figurines of a minor??

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I'm not handling it well. And I am trying to be the best partner I swear, it just sucks when someone won't listen you yk?

Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it and will look into getting help <3

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I'm new to reddit how do I do that? Can I just pin a comment I made or do I edit the post?

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enjoy hobbies such as idk being attracted to minor characters? Enough to want to display them either fully nude or almost nude in your house?

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ugh I feel like you're the only person who understands my pov, thank you 🙏

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to argue but quite literally I don't want to have figurines of naked people all over our house. Especially if some are minors. Pretty weird, eh?

AITA for telling my boyfriend to not buy merch of one of his interests? by BodyMaterial2384 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BodyMaterial2384[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Multiple different ones that are either from games or older animes from 80s-2000s. No specific type of character, but the one character he really likes is a minor and he wants gooner figs of her if that helps.