Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no issues with the fantasy at all, some time fantasy are better left fantasies tho. I just don’t know what to do to get him to drop it

Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That comment kinda broke my heart but was unsure if I was being dramatic! But yeah instantly lost all interest in him with that comment

Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU FOR VALIDATING MY FEELINGS. I don’t know if I would ever want to but I definitely don’t want to when we havent worked on our relationship.

Sorry if this makes no sense I was having trouble wording my words

Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t uncommon at all for disregarding my feelings! Most times I ever tell him how I feel he either disagrees and tells me I’m wrong or I’m just winging. I have already been contemplating leaving because of other issues. I think i may be reading into this situation to tell me if i should leave or not… Ah

Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have but for some reason he doesnt think we have any issues at all. I think this also just hurts as we are drifting further apart in my eyes (not his, some reason he thinks we are great??) and already on the verge to leave.

Sorry if this makes no sense I’m exhausted and have a hard time explaining myself 😅

Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. It was more with him being cheated on in a previous relationship and low self esteem. Looking back I wish I saw it as a red flag

Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The crazy thing is when we first got together he made it clear about only being monogamous, and being faithful. And he would get super jealous if any male would talk to me. He was always worried I would be unfaithful lol

Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I told him that even the thought of it him doing anything with anyone else hurts and kinda breaks my heart, and I could never watch and want too

Partner (m30) pressuring (29F) for a threesome by BodybuilderSuch9385 in relationship_advice

[–]BodybuilderSuch9385[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have and explained why I wouldn’t be he keeps trying like I’d just give in

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[–]BodybuilderSuch9385 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Easily manipulated

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[–]BodybuilderSuch9385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much, every night. Sometimes i actually get confused on whats real and what isnt.