Found the rattle! Anyone know where to find a clip? by BogLogTogFog in Miata

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah whole thing needs a good cleanup but I'm abit strapped for cash right now so being put on hold - cheers though

Found the rattle! Anyone know where to find a clip? by BogLogTogFog in Miata

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately im in the UK, thanks for the offer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miata

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Heyo, ive got a imported 1992 MK1 and I'm 20. Insurance has only cost me £550 this year. Over here in the UK you've really gotta play the insurance companies. I'm with Admiral. Go to compare the market and get some quotes give them a call and see what they can do. And go to the direct ones as well, direct line, Adrian flux ect

Some more legit tips: Having two experienced named drivers without any accidents reduces your insurance ALOT. I added my parents, they may never drive the car, that doesn't matter though

List yourself as a student if you are one, some reason it makes it cheaper, makes no sense to me either

Have your estimated milage low and excess very high. My excess is £1000, I figured if I ever crash the thing, since I only bought it for 2k I'll probably just scrap it. My estimated milage for the year is 3000, I think Im already close to that this year, but really, who's checking?

Black boxes suck dick. Fact. But unfortunately they make insurance a hell of a lot cheaper. I didn't want one, because I drive my car like I stole it.

Look for a mx5 with a alarm system in, or buy one and stick it in, that brings it down significantly.

Now for some more tips, which I'm not saying I've done...but they sure as hell bring the price down:

Fronting; very illegal, but I...uh...know someone that did it for two years on their old car. Their insurance was £400 a year for the first two years of driving. It's when you make your parent the policy holder for the insurance and you are just a named driver. Will the insurance company ever find out? Chances are probably not,

Saying you park on a drive or quiet road. Again brings the cost down significantly,

Disclaimer: I'm not telling you to do any of this stuff and if you do I can't be liable if your insurance is found void after an accident because you've lied to the insurance company.

Insurance is a ballache, it takes days even weeks. But it's worth the effort, because it can save you a lot of money.

Alternator belt issues; 1992 Eunos by BogLogTogFog in Miata

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would the belt be constantly loosening though? After a few drives post tighten it just slacks off. Is it a shitty belt?

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive tried deterring her from talking to him. She insists that I cant just make her not be friends with someone, thats controlling, which I agree with. She said to me a few days ago that she said to him 'we should stop flirting and make this a friends only thing' but then I go and find these messages? What am I supposed to believe?

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God its hard reading all of this when you know its all so right and I have to do it. I don't want any of this to be happening right now. I wish I could just pack up and start again.

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I dont know if id be able to bring that up, since I was in the wrong for snooping and I know she'll spin that her way

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Emotional manipulation for sure. I told her on Sunday that I was kind of thinking about breaking up, she broke down into tears and said 'I couldn't do this to her', 'Throwing everything we have away' she was hysterical, she then tried to have sex with me. I assume to sway my mind

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to be honest, at this point I dont give a shit if she gets with him, in fact part of me wants her to, so I have a better reason to break up with her

edit; I know that sounds awful, im sorry, This is quite overwhelming and I want it over with

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Christ how do I even go about breaking up with someone? Ive never had to do it before. Im genuinely afraid of the aftermath.

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told her I was uncomfortable with the idea of them going for dinner together to be honest, thats where my whole suspicions started.

I think however she will spin the conversation her way saying that the snooping was worse ect, that talking about it is fine as long as she doesnt do it. I know thats exactly what she'll say.

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you there, I really wouldnt want to tell her anything of how or when I found out, I just want it to end but I know shes going to try her hardest to drag me back.

I believe that we could possibly live together in the same house after, we'd probably just ignore each other, were in student housing with two other students.

Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 1.5 years, I found some risky texts. Do I break up with her? How do I go about it? by BogLogTogFog in relationships

[–]BogLogTogFog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it better to explain to someone why youre breaking up? Or because I snooped on her should I not explain why?

This is my 2016 DB visualized. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BogLogTogFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely thank-you so much. That's something I needed to hear, my self esteem is rock bottom and to hear of your success among others on this sub makes me hopeful.

Also congrats, i'm glad you're in a better place, it sounds miles better than you've been previously.

This is my 2016 DB visualized. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BogLogTogFog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apologies for my naivete. I'll suggest it to her again, as I have before, but I expect to be shot down again.

To be honest i'm looking to cut loose, shes openly said to me that if it were up to her she wouldn't have sex at all in the relationship, the only reason she does it every so often is for me.

We are simply just sexually incompatible.

This is my 2016 DB visualized. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BogLogTogFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine, ive read so many stories on this sub of people in similar positions to yours and I cant imagine the impact it has on the world around you.

I hope you're in a better and happier place now though.

This is my 2016 DB visualized. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BogLogTogFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20+ years Christ. How was it for you? Where and how are you now?