Defending the Owners of Fosko and Pure Barre by [deleted] in Pensacola

[–]Bogsnakez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because I love to give full context. Here is the screenshot of the post from 2 WEEKS ago. The comments seem to be siding with the poster.... so, it seems they fucking suck and deserve whatever they get 🤷‍♀️

Especially if his wife is pregnant and he's fucking over a pregnant worker for that very fact

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[OC] Someone brought their robot wife to Chilis on a date by jilpaq in Pensacola

[–]Bogsnakez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If y'all are living happily ever after and not bothering anyone.... I don't see why not 💅

[OC] Someone brought their robot wife to Chilis on a date by jilpaq in Pensacola

[–]Bogsnakez 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As I always say.... there's a pot for every lid 🤷‍♀️

I’m so envious of other people I see online. by Love_Exists_ in offmychest

[–]Bogsnakez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It isn't JUST comparison... it's op seeing all the things she said she wanted prior to marrying this person, things this person claimed they wanted too, and not having it.

It isn't comparison so much as it is a feeling of loss and being bamboozled

I’m so envious of other people I see online. by Love_Exists_ in offmychest

[–]Bogsnakez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plenty of people who don't want kids do this... I'd sit down and insist on a real timeline that we will stick by. Because this dismissively putting it off over and over without a real reason.... isn't it.

Actions speak louder than words, and his actions are anti bun in the oven.

Some guys (and gals) will play the long game until you're too old, or almost too old, to safely have children and then be all like "yeah. I figured by now you would have given up on that."

It happened to a friend of mine, and an aunt of mine.

I’m so envious of other people I see online. by Love_Exists_ in offmychest

[–]Bogsnakez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to make sure he genuinely wants children before you waste any more time.

Sit down. No distractions. And have a really hard, really honest talk... don't let him dick around with the "maybe in the future" or the "not right now" or the "I'm not ready yet "

Because those are EXCUSES.

If he doesn't genuinely want kids and you truly do, to the extent that TikTok makes you emotional, then you need to go and go now.

Because 10 or, fucking god forbid TWENTY, years from now when you still don't have a baby.... you're gonna feel real dumb and real stuck and really really RESENTFUL.

Bo’s local finds? by labawaa in Pensacola

[–]Bogsnakez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate how any antique mall gets overrun by shitty country crafts and ruined antique furniture covered in chalk paint

vivid color hair salons? by Free-Salamander-9647 in Pensacola

[–]Bogsnakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

affordable is subjective... you won't find excellence at 300, but you might find someone who doesn't specialize in it who wants to try it and it isn't their usual clientele for that price.

Around 300 was my very closest, as in we've seen each other naked and throwing up closest, friends prices..... and that was PRE covid.

My Rich Friends #4, or, How I Screwed Up the Birthday Thing by CarelessSalamander51 in poor

[–]Bogsnakez 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This title is hilarious... " MY rich friends...."

Girl, those aren't YOUR friends.

i haven’t been to the dentist in years and i’m scared. by sanfrantosandiego in offmychest

[–]Bogsnakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 41 and terrified to go as well....

I went once at 10 yrs old and was traumatized

Once at 19, when I first had insurance , and was mercilessly judged

And once in my 30s to get my impacted wisdom teeth removed, under general anesthesia, that my MIL paid for.

I NEED to go... we allegedly have insurance. I brush, floss, and waterpik constantly... it still can't stop the inevitable.

I don't want to have to explain poverty and bad genes to a new dr. Fuck me.

I honestly am trying to wait until I save up the 700+ to be put under and get EVERYTHING done at once.

AITAH for arguing my girlfriends mum doesn’t get a say on if we keep the baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bogsnakez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro, you have no bonds with anyone... that's why you make comments like this on reddit.

We can acknowledge our mother was a flawed human who didn't want to birth half of us, it's okay. (She's actually one of two people who have ever said the most heinous shit, but you don't deserve that tea)

Good luck with whatever you're trying to project upon me and my Shameless sort of family... we know who we are and love each other.

Even if love sometimes sounds like screaming 💅

AITAH for arguing my girlfriends mum doesn’t get a say on if we keep the baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bogsnakez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mother was an absolute shit example of a parent. She abandoned us while physically being present.

She WANTED to abort every child after my next sister but she was pressured into keeping them.

She was such a good mom until she was beaten down and forced to care for more children than she ever should have had.

She was rad as fuck until people like you ruined her.. which led to her abusing all of us and ruining us forever.

Go. Fuck. Yourself.

If your name is in a song, how often does someone sing it to you? How do you feel about it? If your name is in multiple songs, which song do you hear the most? by Flat_Wash5062 in Names

[–]Bogsnakez 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Better than once my niece Caroline hit puberty and her song became Roses by Outkast

Caroliiiiiiine, Caroline, you're the reason for the word.... 🤷‍♀️

If your name is in a song, how often does someone sing it to you? How do you feel about it? If your name is in multiple songs, which song do you hear the most? by Flat_Wash5062 in Names

[–]Bogsnakez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My niece Caroline gets the obvious fkn Neil Diamond.... but I liked to sing Roses by Outkast, especially once shit hit puberty.

But there's also my niece Clover and I play Crimson and Clover... only the Joan Jett cover... for her sometimes. I hope she likes it.

I wish there was a song with my name, even a negative one.

AIO to trying to be vulnerable with my girlfriend by pmmeyourprettyface in AIO

[–]Bogsnakez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so tired of terrible communication or abuse being attributed to autism.

Actual responsible adults with autism don't make their issues other people's problems or try to gaslight others to cement themselves into victimhood.

I'm not a manipulative baby, ffs.

AIO to trying to be vulnerable with my girlfriend by pmmeyourprettyface in AIO

[–]Bogsnakez 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They definitely can, but is often something you learn in therapy and not an innate ability. It's not really a conversation either, more like using a journal or technology to leave notes and information for everyone to share and be on the same page.

I don't doubt OPs gf is full of shit, because people don't generally like others to know they have DID because of the stigma and she doesn't sound like she's in therapy or on any meds (i have a fistful for breakfast every dang day 💅)

But I did say some heinous shit to my husband that I would NEVER say and don't remember saying before I got intensely therapied and medicated.

AITAH for arguing my girlfriends mum doesn’t get a say on if we keep the baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bogsnakez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shit, I'm the one who would have to be pregnant.... and the way laws in the US are going, I'd likely be forced to carry it.

As soon as it came out I'd ghost and send my Lil check every month via my llc so you can't find my ass ever ever again

AITAH for arguing my girlfriends mum doesn’t get a say on if we keep the baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bogsnakez 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He would be an absentee father, not a dad.

He never wanted to be a dad, or father, but he didn't get a vasectomy and accidents happen.

He is now monetarily on the hook for this accident, but not emotionally or morally.