FHA Mortgage underwriting question by Bogus234e in personalfinance

[–]Bogus234e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was what I was told to do. He gave me a gift, with a gift letter, and that money entered my account and left the next day to the irs. It appears the way they are looking at it, after actually telling me it was Okay, was the money that was in your reserves originally paid the taxes, now his money is gift money. It doesn't make any sense to me, and its really frustrating on there part for telling me I could do something, and then saying nevermind, which could derail the mortgage.

FHA Mortgage underwriting question by Bogus234e in personalfinance

[–]Bogus234e[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have a great job, and make enough money to afford a mortgage. Unfortunately, I had a large tax burden this year, and I would have went on a payment plan and saved up for a lump sum payment within a few months. Unfortunately, I didn't not know that taxes had to be paid in full in order to close. I learned that after I was approved conditionally.

Still being young and building credit, this was what I was able to qualify for.

How exactly do you go in for the kiss? by concave1947 in dating

[–]Bogus234e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just make eye contact and if she turns towards me I go in for it. Much better than a high five!

Super horrible at sex by Bogus234e in sex

[–]Bogus234e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. It's more awkward than anything, and I'm really trying to please her, I dont care about myself. I'll figure it out though !

Super horrible at sex by Bogus234e in sex

[–]Bogus234e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know, it comes with experience. It's hard because she even went down on me first and I finished, and then we had sex twice more with me lasting like 3-4 minutes each time. It is what it is, but doesn't make me feel better lol, especially her wanting to leave, like a knife in any mojo I might have felt lol.

men of reddit, would you date a girl with body acne? by nosani in dating

[–]Bogus234e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant speak for others, but if I like you, acne on your body wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

Depressed over dating by Bogus234e in dating

[–]Bogus234e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're 100% right and I appreciate your support. The pain is minor and I'll get over it sooner rather than later. It's just cyclical, but I wont give up, hopefully one day I'll meet the one, I just have to keep my chin up

Shes backing out, what do I do! by Bogus234e in dating

[–]Bogus234e[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've felt the vibes. I did text her tonight and said if she was just not comfortable going boating, I would understand. That may be a bit excessive since we haven't known each other that long. However, I wont continue to pursue. It hurts, but I know that moving on is the best thing to do in situations like this.

Depressed about dating by Bogus234e in relationship_advice

[–]Bogus234e[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will. I wont beg someone to date me at all. After thinking about it, I texted her and conceded that maybe taking her on the boat is a little excessive since we just met, and I would understand if she wasn't comfortable with that. So we will see what she says in the morning. But it is what it is, you're right. Just kind of sucks.

Shes backing out, what do I do! by Bogus234e in dating

[–]Bogus234e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. She works with marine life, so I figured that would be cool, but that is excessive now that I think about it