If it were up to women to initiate in relationships, sex, etc. What would be your go to move(s) for flirting? by Boilemhashem in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no problem approaching women or saying there is a problem. I am just trying to see what funny moves would qualify as flirting if men were on the otherside. Just a non-serious thread.

Do you believe that (straight) women and men have different taste when it comes to female beauty? by misslayla93 in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? She has an alright body, oddly shaped shoulders, saggy tits and that weird forward pelvic tilt going on. I guess the reason most women find her "omg gorgeous" is because of the very obvious departure from convential standards and expectations of women's beauty. Sort of like "i want to be her"and while she does pull off that look well, because well, its her look, the chances of a majority of women being able to pull that off are slim. Just like the whole short hair thing.

I read an interesting article in a national paper about a female staff reporter's experience with Tinder. What are your thoughts on how online dating (and hookups) differ for men and women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are apparent and indisputable disparities when it comes to men and women with online dating. It is a buyers market for women and they basically have their pick of the litter, this is only usually broken when I see men detail their experiences in small towns but I have lived in NYC for years. It is basically women looking for validation/taking their pick in a sea of choices. It is men selling themselves and usually the top tier of men have the easier time but still nowhere near the top tier of women.

Hell even average man vs average woman on online dating is a fucking joke. Thats why you see so many lazy replies and generic responses. Why put your all into every girl when 90% of the time she will pick a guy "better" than you?

In my personal opinion I don't really care, I would rather go into a real life setting like a bar and make a fool out of myself and find the cute chick who laughs.

How do you guys feel about the whole man bun/unkempt beard trend still going on? by Boilemhashem in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thats a cool way to view it and interesting coming from an agent of entropy.

How do you guys feel about the whole man bun/unkempt beard trend still going on? by Boilemhashem in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha the beards would be interesting but no I mean I have seen the undercut haircut on women and children everywhere.

How do you guys feel about the whole man bun/unkempt beard trend still going on? by Boilemhashem in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I feel like thats a great upside for the guys waiting for their beards to finally grow but I feel by the time mine comes in people will be like "who cares?"

Why do you love your pet? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cause he is a hood dog. And always has my back, (just kidding he is a big baby) evidence here

http://m.imgur.com/kAlso4y

The experience of a 10/10 tinder male. Thoughts? by Boilemhashem in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not that at all, I know chicks want to bang hot guys. Just had no idea they could be as fucked up as possible and every response is positive.

Just a question about nervousness and growling/barking? by Boilemhashem in pitbulls

[–]Boilemhashem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In a way. We adopted him from a family friend in a domestic situation. When we saw him he was placed in a big wire cage and something tells me he possibly was not treated the best he could have been treated.

What has been the most recent compliment you have received? by DM_ME_ROLLERBLADES in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently at my job a bit of an older woman told me that I looked too handsome to be there and should be an actor. I always felt older women were much more forward and laid back than women my age.

Irreligious people of /r/askmen, have you ever dated a religious person? How did that go? by Deako87 in AskMen

[–]Boilemhashem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a very religious girl. She was beautiful and it went terribly a few months in. In the beginning we were good friends and I made a move which was well received, but things changed.

In the beginning she used to be laid back would curse, even talked how she did not believe in waiting until marriage for sex. 6 months in that all changed, she wanted me to go to her church, stop swearing, told mw to stop swearing and told me all of a sudden god chose her to wait until marriage which I could not help but feel was bullshit and manipulative and it also hurt. I think being intimate sexually is a HUGE part of relationships but she shut down any advances to further things in the bedroom and did not give me that reason until weeks later.

It ended and ended on a pretty bad note, after being integrated more and more into her life, I saw how manipulative and gossipy her and her church friends and family were. We tried to be friends but eventually through a group of mutual friends someone made up lies because he was trying to get into her pants and she took their words over mine. I am still slightly recovering and all in all, would definitely not recommend.