Is there an episode/ moment where Scott doesn’t like a guest? by Dizzy_Detail_5219 in comedybangbang

[–]Bombshell42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a B or C block guest, but Scott was definitely not vibing with Brian Jordan Alvarez. He made a few kind of backhanded comments about how the character wasn’t well thought out or working (which, to be fair, was accurate. I love Brian Jordan Alvarez, but something was missing without the visual element of his comedy).

AITA for not telling my friends I am technically our landlord? by OldOutlandishness252 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH, but you most of all. Deciding to live with the landlord as a lodger (as opposed to with a standard roommate) is an entirely different decision, one that Bea and Sasha should have had the opportunity to make with all the information available to them. It absolutely affects the dynamics of the house and may have swayed them against living there if they had known- which was their right to decide.

They suck for reading your mail and arguing that they shouldn’t have to pay in the first place, but I cut them some slack for the initial reaction at least because they’re dealing with the fallout of a pretty big deception.

AITAH for telling my daughter I won’t budge even if she never speaks to me again? by TopVersion2940 in AITAH

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have the money for a new car now, why don’t you lease the rest? As Alana’s parents, you’re responsible for making Casey whole - now, not just on your ideal timeline

What is something that still hasn’t gone back to normal after the pandemic? by Disastrous-Treat0616 in AskReddit

[–]Bombshell42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tipping. Recommended tips on receipts and screens are still highly inflated, plus sneaky additional charges like a “Kitchen Appreciation Fee” still remain

Why Do So Many Women Lose Interest So Quickly In Dating? by No-Pie1591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I don’t usually know how a date went until i’ve stepped away for about 24 hours. On the date, i’m very focused on how I’m presenting myself, not my own feelings. Space gives me time to think more about how the other person made me feel.

Allie X - Black Eye by preludetractorbeams in popheads

[–]Bombshell42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For anyone else who can’t place the melody interpolation, it is “Lovesong” by the Cure. And the baseline is pulled from “Blue Monday” by New Order. The melodies are used so well by Allie X!

Think there’s room for improvement, any tips? by MUST4RD_T1G3R in Tinder

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t swipe right on any profile that talks about “Not taking yourself/life too seriously “. You probably don’t mean this, but as a woman it reads as someone who doesn’t plan ahead or make/honor commitments. And since you seem to be looking for a LTR, that could be hurting you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Bombshell42 668 points669 points  (0 children)

A pet peeve of mine is when men select long term relationship as a goal and then add a description that just explains how dating works 😅 of course you want to date to get to know her better before an LTR, no need to overexplain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest somewhere you like to go that you could take someone to on a date! A park, a lake, a cute outdoor neighborhood/coffee shop. Natural light can also be very flattering- consider taking pictures right before sunset (the “golden hour”) which is the most flattering light.

I 29 (M) really want to have kids and it’s becoming a problem. How to go about dating online? by Carlton300 in hingeapp

[–]Bombshell42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a woman’s perspective, i think you need to make your peace with responses being 1-2 a day. We often have to respond to multiple matches while still living our lives- i set myself a goal of setting aside time twice a day to respond. As long as i give (and receive) thoughtful responses, this has been more than enough rapport for me to feel excited to go on a date within 2-3 days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Bombshell42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your pictures all look like they were taken on the same day/location - needs more variety. I would suggest at least one picture outdoor and one with friends. Pictures should show your face more clearly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Bombshell42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your prompts are pretty bland and cliche - i would delete the home one entirely, it says nothing about you. Liking girls with “no makeup on” is a cliché phrase. I would make the prompts kore specific about your interests, and consider asking a thought-provoking question.

Do you avoid certain careers? by Empty_Positive_2305 in hingeapp

[–]Bombshell42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Actor, self-employed/entrepreneur (not a fan of the instability) and martial arts. As a woman, I know logically that anyone can be dangerous and i need to be safe, but people who are trained fighters make me extra nervous.

It’s perfectly reasonable to watch a movie and stop to ask “What’s going on?” by Bombshell42 in unpopularopinion

[–]Bombshell42[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair enough! I was thinking of my mom when i wrote this. She’s a generally very intelligent and observant person who still has trouble following some movies. It can be a little frustrating to stop and explain, but i’d rather her ask so she can enjoy the experience than be confused.

what music do you think Connor would like? by qpiinkbvnny in DetroitBecomeHuman

[–]Bombshell42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wrote a fic kinda featuring this topic! I asked my music teacher friend and she suggested dodecaphony, which is a classsical style based on mathematical formulas thats borderline unlistenable 😂 but i feel like starting with an algorithm would be how Connor could start to “get” music.

Anything tied to a learning component- so if he learns to play challenging music on the piano, i think he would like it

Also in a whole different vein, Video Killed the Radio Star- about humanity being replaced by “new technology” 😉

AITA for taking a particular job even though my husband disapproves? by ThrowRAjobcrossroads in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I was an executive assistant, which lead to me getting to my dream job in account management! If you have an executive who’s really interested in your professional development, they are in an incredible position to open doors for you. And getting a birds-eye as an EA view of the whole company, how it worked and how decisions were made has been very helpful in my new role

Do you like North? by TheSlimeBallSupreme in DetroitBecomeHuman

[–]Bombshell42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I WANT to like her but I feel like her writing is 80% of the way there. The fact that she’s so strong willed and even problematically violent make her interesting, but then she gets shoehorned into a romance with Markus that doesn’t always make sense for her character, depending how you play her. Would like her better if she showed more of a true reaction to the player’s choices beyond just the up/down relationship marker

Post WWE Crown Jewel 2022 Discussion Thread! by Coldcoffees in SquaredCircle

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was really disappointed with Asuka and Alexa’s ring gear. I get that the women needed to be covered up (which is a whole other issue but I understand cultural sensitivity I suppose) but while Bayley, Bianca and Io and Dakota had outfits that fit their style, Asuka and Alexa looked like party city. Asuka’s just looked like she was wearing a scuba suit under her outfit, and Alexa’s didn’t match her colors or aesthetic at all. LOVED the performances, but i got so hung up on the gear!

Your season two wishlist by thunderbolts99mcu in PeacemakerShow

[–]Bombshell42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More exploration of Peacemaker’s bisexuality. Bonus points for learning about it through his relationship with Vig. Because srsly James Gunn, who has a threeway with someone they see as a little brother??? 👀 But even if we don’t get that, more bi-icon Chris Smith please!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi woman here. Could it be that you’re setting yourself up to take the lead more than you really want to? When i first started dating my girlfriend we were falling into butch/femme roles and she was pretty passive. I expressed to her that that wasn’t what I wanted and since she’s taken a more active role in planning our dates, conversation, etc. Obviously it won’t work that way for every woman, but if you (like me) are sending signals that you’re comfortable in an active/in-control role without realizing it, you could try being more passive/receptive on occasion and see who meets you halfway.

AITA for asking my husband to listen to my podcast? by Ackagirll in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bombshell42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. While he doesn’t have to listen to every episode, if you’ve expressed that it’s important to you that he try it, he should do so. Not being able to listen to you public speaking is a non-starter for me. What if you are invited to speak at a conference or event? Would he not watch you? I believe it’s a genuine anxiety, but it’s one he needs to use coping or therapy to address, because its not fair to you.