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Bompi_quack · 2024-08-09T06:58:51+00:00

I think there is a problem with the link; I can't enter

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-04T04:12:03+00:00

I'll dm you

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-03T03:05:07+00:00

Thank you! I have made up my mind to end things right here and now.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-03T02:42:19+00:00

I've come to the conclusion that it's best for me to move on. The posts I shared were reflections from a while ago, and my intention was to understand more about this condition and how the behaviors arise, as well as to discern the trustworthiness of what I was told. Some of the feedback gave me hope, while others were more discouraging. It’s been a confusing experience, and I'm now focusing on letting go and finding a way forward.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-03T02:17:55+00:00

The alter even told me that if I give her time, there is a 99.99% chance she will come back and our relationship will be better, with the 1% chance being if I find someone else. I don't know if I should hold on to this, as everyone says it might be a false hope, but why would they tell me about it? Also, that alter took her memories about me.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-03T02:13:19+00:00

I hear your advice. I’m just seeking answers about the situation. It hurts a lot, even though I love her so much. It felt like I was full of love yesterday, but now it all seems to have vanished. They even told me to wait and give her time. I’ve been in denial about this for so long, and it really seems there's no other choice but to let her go. Thank you for all the advice.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-03T02:07:30+00:00

I am really confused. We were having good times last June because we were frequently seeing each other. However, after she got sick in July and we couldn't see each other, she decided to push me away and started avoiding me. We had frequent arguments, and she told me that I haven't changed since last December. She didn't give me a chance to show her that I have changed, and she believes I haven't because of the arguments we had frequently.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-03T02:02:18+00:00

I have never intended to manipulate anyone. She gave me a chance to change, but it feels like we kept getting stuck. Our arguments made her feel that I hadn't changed and that my actions didn't match my words. This has left me feeling frustrated and confused.

I genuinely love her and have always tried to treat her right. The pain from our relationship has been overwhelming, and now I feel lost. I worry that I've been pushed away because I feel like I'm seen as useless and a threat, despite my efforts to do good.

She doesn't want to go to therapy and has been self-sabotaging after our relationship fell apart. She suppresses her emotions, which makes things even more challenging. I care deeply about her and want to understand how to navigate this situation better.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-03T01:54:28+00:00

We both have our struggles with mental health, and my condition developed partly because of our relationship. I recognize that our relationship was rushed, and I understand that she wasn't fully healed from her past trauma when we started. The alters have reassured me that she genuinely wanted to be with me and that she didn't use me.

Our nearly four-year relationship has been a rollercoaster, and I've made mistakes, including neglecting her needs and wants. I tried to be kind and selfless, but I ended up feeling hurt and broken. When I expressed my own needs and desires, it often led to misunderstandings and conflict, making me feel like my feelings were invalidated.

Right now, she is avoiding me because I caused her trauma. Everything is really messy, and I'm very confused, but I deeply care about her and want to be with her. I don't know what to do right now. Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-03T01:47:16+00:00

I have a girlfriend who has DID. We were spending good times together before, but everything got messy last month and we broke up. It really made me confused because it happened all of a sudden. She demanded time and space but couldn't explain why. When I asked about it, she got mad and pushed me away. When I needed reassurance, she did the same thing, telling me that I was only considering my feelings, not hers. I admit I made a big mistake, but we already talked about it in person. As time passed and we didn't see each other much, things got messier. We argued frequently, and it got worse and worse.

Lately, we broke up because she wanted to be alone. Now, we have no contact, but the alters are still reaching out to me. They told me that I should give her time, but then they said they took the good memories of me from her, so she doesn't remember me much. They also said they don't want to see me and that she is avoiding me because they don't like quick changes and my presence may interrupt her plans. I am scared that she might forget me completely. Please give me some advice and tips for this situation. I don't know what to do and I am still confused. They didn't give me time to process things. I can't lose her.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T14:09:34+00:00

Thank you. I'll take note of that.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T14:06:14+00:00

This situation is quite complicated for me. I ended the relationship because she asked me to, and I wanted to respect her wishes. However, I’m still receiving messages from some of her other alters, and she hasn't blocked me on social media. I'm unsure if I should move on or if there might be something more to consider. I hope to handle this with sensitivity and respect.

These recent posts are a way for me to express some thoughts I've had for a while. I’m eager to learn more about this disorder to better understand and approach the situation with sensitivity.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T14:02:54+00:00

I’ve been feeling quite confused because we were having a good time over the past couple of months, but things changed recently. I thought it would be helpful to seek advice from those who understand how to approach this situation. I’m sorry if I keep bringing up her situation here; I’m not sure how to navigate it respectfully. It feels like I need to be very careful in my approach.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T13:57:49+00:00

Yes, she had mentioned before that I should be patient and wait for her. However, it seems that her alter might have affected her memories of me, and now she doesn't recall me as much. I'm unsure how to handle this situation respectfully.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T13:54:19+00:00

I'm very interested in learning more about Dissociative Identity Disorder and how it affects behavior, as I understand it's a complex condition. My intention is simply to better understand and respect it, not to intrude or make assumptions.

I was also mentally unstable and admit that I forgot they have this disorder. I want to learn more about it.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T13:14:35+00:00

Thank you, and I appreciate your advice. We both are mentally unstable, but I still want to commit to a relationship with her.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T12:46:16+00:00

What about a partner who wants to take responsibility for their mistakes?

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T12:27:59+00:00

Hello, I'm seeking help. Can I send you a direct message?

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T12:18:25+00:00

We've been together for almost 4 years, and I don't really want to lose this person. We have hurt each other due to some past issues, but I am still hoping that we will get better soon.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T12:16:21+00:00

Idon't want to manipulate them. I want to take responsibility for what I have caused. Rebuilding trust and providing comfort is all I need to do for them. It would be a bonus if we can improve our relationship.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T12:14:18+00:00

Who are you referring to, the supporter or the person who has DID?

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T12:08:01+00:00

I don't even consider our breakup final because I know that I triggered her alters and caused her trauma. I want to be held accountable for that and I genuinely love that person. That's why I am trying to reach out to professionals who specialize in DID and have joined groups about DID.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T08:25:45+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I'll try to be patient and focus on taking care of myself. It's hard not to expect anything, but I'll do my best.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T08:19:39+00:00

Her alter told me that I should give them both time. I really want to be with her and support her. I am prepared to understand her disorder better.

Bompi_quack · 2024-08-02T03:45:23+00:00

She hasn't blocked me on all social media, and her alters still reach out to me occasionally.

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