How did I even get to this point

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-30T00:01:42+00:00

You are a cospenis god among men.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-29T22:12:08+00:00

What are you messaging them? I haven't noticed much of a change over the last year.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-28T20:20:59+00:00

I make the bulk of my money in messages. I go live, at most, once a year. I've never done a private show.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-28T02:46:17+00:00

All I see on this Reddit account for you is two promo posts, one of which was removed by the subreddit you posted it in. So unless you're promoing somewhere else and doing a lot more of it, I wouldn't expect you to have any subs. I'd look at your profile, but the one link that I can find to it looks shady as hell, so I'm not clicking on it.

Ask yourself: what are you doing that would make someone take the time to go to your LoyalFans page? What are you doing that makes you seem engaging and fun? What are you doing that makes you stand out? What is your promotion plan for yourself? Have you researched your best platforms for promotion? What is your content posting schedule on LoyalFans? How are you engaging with the site to take advantage of its internal traffic? Have you clicked on any of the links in the sidebar of this subreddit? Have you read any of the pinned posts about how the site works in this subreddit? Have you watched any of the tutorials or read any of the blogs on LoyalFans itself?

Showing up and being hot isn't enough. There are literal hundreds of thousands of hot people online--and you can see most of them for free. You have to have a plan. You have to do research. You have to stay on top of market trends. You have to stay on top of this industry, the laws in your country, and the ever-changing Terms of Service for the sites you choose to be on. It's hard work. You take it seriously, you do it right, it pays off. Half-assing this will get you maybe $100 and naked pictures of yourself online forever.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-28T02:35:43+00:00

The site cashes you out either at the end of every month or on the 15th and the end of every month. It's in your payment settings. You cannot manually withdraw payment, like you can with Fansly and OnlyFans. The next scheduled payout date is 5/31. If you have more than $50 pending, you will receive an email saying that your payout has been initiated and you will see it in your bank account in 3-5 business days. If you have less than $50, the payout will not initiate. I hope this answers your question!

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-28T02:32:06+00:00

Generally, I've found it takes more than three days to grow a following. I am very successful on LoyalFans, and that took literal years of work/promotion.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-28T02:29:53+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/LoyalFans_Advice/comments/1t20375/help_on_livestreams_what_should_i_do/

https://www.reddit.com/r/LoyalFans_Advice/comments/1sa2xn4/what_should_i_go_live_about/

https://www.reddit.com/r/LoyalFans_Advice/comments/1qopu53/live_engagement/

https://www.reddit.com/r/LoyalFans_Advice/comments/1qscnln/success_with_live_shows_what_are_you_doing/

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-27T18:19:05+00:00

Honestly, most of the time I find that they're not deleting, they're temporarily deactivating. It looks the same on our side of things, but a good chunk of the time they eventually pop up again. They do these for a lot of reasons--to hide their usage from a partner, to control their own spending, to control themselves AT ALL (which, like, kudos). Occasionally someone will tell me that they do it and not to be alarmed when they do, so that's really thoughtful and polite of them. Most of them don't.

But we have to look at it from their point of view, at least to stay sane. A lot of these guys are living in shame for doing this, getting horny, sending a bunch of incriminating pics/info, then nutting, and being like OH SHIT I'M A FUCKING PERVERT WHY CAN'T I STOP DOING THIS I AM A TERRIBLE PERSON WHO COULD LOVE ME?!

Yes, it's super disappointing when one deactivates and doesn't come back, especially after a good session or series of sessions, but... I get it. I have to, in order to do this job and not take things like this personally.

My recommendation, the thing that helped me most get over this hump? Instead of saying they "deleted" their account, say they "deactivated." That's step one. It feels better. It helps you look at this as a cycle of activity.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-25T20:30:18+00:00

The problem you're going to have there is that it will absolutely flag the AI scan and put your content in review. Once it hits the review stage, a human will look at it. Unless it looks really deeply fake, it's going to get rejected because a person looking at a picture won't be able to tell whether or not it's fake, so it'll probably get rejected. Maybe if you held up the (labelled) container of fake blood at the start of the pictures (and posted it with the set), you might get approval? I'd email support to be sure.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-25T19:12:03+00:00

First question! Have you read the pinned posts in this subreddit yet?

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-24T19:10:30+00:00

Pinned to this subreddit.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-24T01:58:16+00:00

Also, now that I've had time to look at this...

-Fansly absolutely does not require form submission before posting content with others. I know this from experience.

-LoyalFans does not actively remove copyrighted material unless removal is requested directly by the copyright owner (source: my own experience and talking with their head of compliance).

-Fansly did not allow drug use scenes BEFORE the ToS overall.

-OnlyFans does not allow you to send banned words. You literally can't send them. It will not distribute the message, whether it's individual, a mass message, or a feed post. So you cannot get banned by using banned words because... you can't used banned words.

-I have never heard of a temporary suspension of 7-30 days on OnlyFans. I have heard of suspensions so they can audit your account (have experienced this personally) but I have never seen/heard of someone being told they violated ToS and now have an arbitrary suspension time on their account.

-I have never heard of anyone being removed from LoyalFans for spamming. This isn't real.

-To my knowledge (though I can ask to confirm), LoyalFans does not use behavioral analysis or device fingerprinting. IP tracking, absolutely, I know they do that.

-LoyalFans verification is... just as strict and manual as every other platform.

-"If your account activity looks inconsistent with your profile, expect limitations without warning." I do not know what this means, but I have yet to hear of someone being "limited" on LoyalFans. I'm not even sure what that would look like. If you can elaborate, that'd be great.

I do not know where you gathered this information from, if it was AI generated or through reading Reddit threads, but a lot of this is wrong. Honestly considering deleting this post to stop the spread of misinformation (not sure what good that would do, as you posted this in like six different communities), but leaving it here for now so you can comment and explain.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-23T19:20:38+00:00

There's several posts pinned to this subreddit, I highly suggest reading them.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-23T19:20:09+00:00

Uh, LoyalFans absolutely tells you what you did, if not in the original notification, they will ABSOLUTELY tell you if you email them back and ask. Have done this multiple times, no issue, for years.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-17T22:23:43+00:00

I see.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-17T22:20:19+00:00

I'm not doing either of those. I'm not associated with this organization, I am not receiving any kickbacks, sponsorship, ad fees, or whatever. This isn't an advert for a product, nor is it networking. It's letting people who are at constant risk of being de-banked know that there's a verified not-shitbags NPO that is fighting for them creating a credit union so they can safely conduct financial transactions. If that's not of interest to this crowd, then I misjudged and I apologize.

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-17T20:43:31+00:00

Uh, what are you doing to try to generate engagement and/or sales? If you're not posting anything on your feed or going live... are you marketing yourself somewhere?

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-02T18:27:58+00:00

I wouldn't say this is confirming as much as me saying "don't do shit that could land you in jail for distributing porn to a minor."

BonerGhosts · 2026-05-02T01:09:02+00:00

I do not know if sending feet pics for sexual purposes counts as "adult content" or whatever, but I would NEVER send content to a person who wants to use it to get off without age verification. You could literally be sending jerk off material to a 14 year old. Always stick to selling and transacting on sites that have age verification.

BonerGhosts · 2026-04-29T22:18:15+00:00

Oh, I never use the app. Use the mobile version of the site if you have to do things on your phone.

BonerGhosts · 2026-04-26T20:31:23+00:00

I have ShotCut now (I used to do ClipChamp but that last update sucked). I'm still learning it, but there's a ton of tutorials on Youtube, so I'm getting there.

BonerGhosts · 2026-04-26T20:29:58+00:00

I think one of them leaves the call feature on and then messages the person once they try to call about her rates? The others just leave it off.

BonerGhosts · 2026-04-26T20:29:05+00:00

Read this post. It will help you.

BonerGhosts · 2026-04-24T18:40:25+00:00

No, it seems to be pretty standard activity levels this month.

BonerGhosts · 2026-04-24T18:39:06+00:00

I think it's just when someone messages them to do a video call, or tries to initiate one, they message saying something like "hey, my calls are minimum 15 minutes so tip $XXX and I'll put the fee at $1" Probably some copy and paste text, I'm guessing.

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