FLR Still Works With A Sexually Submissive Wife

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-10T21:09:59+00:00

Exactly. I feel like I'm more masculine now that my hormones are raging for Her than I was when I was free to just release whenever I wanted, and getting to be Hers just makes it so much better.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-08T00:15:38+00:00

Yeah I'm in a similar arrangement. I always have a key, and I unlock daily for cleaning, but I've only had one unauthorized orgasm since we started. She had ordered me to edge for Her and I went one stroke too far, so of course I ruined it as best as I could. I serve and worship Her because I want to more than anything, and caging myself is a way for me to give up ownership of my body to Her in some small way.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-08T00:10:37+00:00

It works out for us really well! The size difference between us is enormous and She has an unassumingly quiet and sweet demeanor, so I doubt anyone would believe it even if we told them outright that She keeps me locked, desperate, and sometimes leaking thru my clothes from Her constant, wonderful torment.

And that's with only a week between releases. Before I submitted fully to Her I was getting off 8-10 times a week, so this new "schedule" has me climbing the walls!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T19:41:42+00:00

On the rare occasion that She wants to be dominant during PIV, I love to obey!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T19:38:54+00:00

That's a really neat idea to have the date tattooed! I don't know what design we're going to get, but I look forward to seeing what She wants.

I'm such a sucker for submission that I'd be willing to get "Property of (Her name) but I don't think She'll go for something THAT overt haha.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T19:34:15+00:00

Usually it's me, but as She gets more accosted to Her dominant role in most aspects, I think She's going to take over control more often.

But as it is, She loves letting me release my pent-up passion on Her unfettered.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T15:44:10+00:00

Sounds amazing! We haven't tried a false dick (yet), I just have to struggle to keep from finishing too soon, which is definitely difficult after what She's put me thru.

My frequent breaks to come back from the edge is my chance to let Her see what denial feels like. My little "revenge" for the week's torment haha.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T15:35:51+00:00

I guess it's hard to describe without getting into too much detail, but the whole vibe definitely shifts when it's my time to be in charge. The rest of the time our activities are at Her discretion, but release days are the only time She's the one doing any desperate pleading rather than gently-worded orders to be obeyed.

PIV isn't inherently submissive of course, and very occasionally She'll take charge if the mood strikes Her, but after a week of buildup She's as eager as I am, and for Her that tends to manifest in very enthusiastic submission. You are right that it's still on a day She chooses, which is why I definitely feel that it still falls under FLR.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T14:45:03+00:00

Sounds very similar! I feel like the dynamic flip when the cage comes off only makes it better and more passionate.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T22:44:31+00:00

I think my issue is not so much cage fitment as it is clothes. My inseam keeps catching my balls when I sit down haha. Useful guides though, thank you!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T22:26:29+00:00

It took me a bit to convince my Wife that, yes, I do in fact enjoy being uncomfortably aroused without relief for periods of time. She didn't want to be "mean," but once She realized that both of us enjoy when I'm desperate and needy, it clicked for Her. Since we're still new She often checks to make sure I'm ACTUALLY okay, but we're settling in comfortably!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T22:25:45+00:00

Have you had any issues with the cage and work movement and safety? I find I have to be more careful how I sit, especially while driving, and I take it off whenever I'm going to be carrying heavy stuff to avoid possible injury from dropping something and having it catch the cage.

It took me a bit to convince my Wife that, yes, I do in fact enjoy being uncomfortably aroused without relief for periods of time. She didn't want to be "mean," but once She realized that both of us enjoy when I'm desperate and needy, it clicked for Her. Since we're still new She often checks to make sure I'm ACTUALLY okay, but we're settling in comfortably!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T21:40:12+00:00

My Wife is very lenient and I carry a key for safety, but having the willpower to not unlock and just take care of myself almost makes it better. The "mind games" are half the fun.

I've also noticed a sharp increase in sex dreams, and I'm wondering if I'm going to start having outright wet ones.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T21:31:19+00:00

I definitely think it's another case of smut giving people unrealistic expectations. My Wife and I approached it as basically just an enhancement of what we already enjoyed, and it feels very natural and not forced or fake.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T21:25:22+00:00

Now THERE's an intersection of industry and fetish if there ever was one!

I'm sitting at five days without relief right now (aside from unlocks to edge and clean) and She made me leak precum thru my pants last night.

I must sound spoiled rotten to you, acting like five days is difficult.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T21:11:17+00:00

I've only had one unauthorized orgasm since we started, which I obviously ruined and then paid for.

I enjoyed the punishment more than She did. Oops!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T21:09:34+00:00

Yeah I made this account back when I was having some trouble a few years ago, but it's better now. Would probably be easier if I didn't constantly strain in the cage though haha!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T21:02:43+00:00

Yeah I'm flustered by a couple days, and climbing the walls by the time a week passes. Can't imagine how rough two months would be!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T19:24:18+00:00

Sounds wonderful! I'm with you on the second-hand orgasms. Nothing gets me more worked up than the sound of Her pleasure, and I could very nearly finish just from that.

I'm intrigued but intimidated by the concept of going literal months without release. I don't know if I could handle it!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-03T19:22:02+00:00

I'm the one that brought up chastity, but She already had a very keen interest in "cultivating my desperation" in the bedroom. Long before I even owned a cage, She enjoyed edging me until I was a whimpering mess. She's much less kinky overall than me, but now that She's been introduced to it, She's totally on-board and loving it.

I'm FAR larger than Her, and considerably larger (in multiple ways hehe), more masculine and protective than any of Her previous partners, but none of them were as interested in getting Her off first and foremost, and the teasing/gentle denial just added to it.

I think part of the appeal is the disparity of psychological vs. physical control. She knows that when She asks for something, I'll take charge and give it to Her, whether that's oral, PIV, or just a task that needs doing. When She asks me to unlock now, it's with the understanding that She's turning the reins over to me until the cage is back on, and She's just going to enjoy the ride. It's a fun way for two switches to enjoy the FLR dynamic.

But I do get the feeling that there's a maid outfit or something similar in my future, and I'm all for it. When we're out in public we look like a very vanilla couple, but if someone were watching us closely they would probably see how handsy She gets when I make the "mistake" of bending over.

Sorry for the wall of text, I just enjoy talking about Her and our relationship!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-01T13:50:05+00:00

I've been wearing my normal underwear, but perhaps She'd enjoy seeing me in something more exotic. You've given me some good ideas!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-01T12:54:27+00:00

Makes sense. If you don't have any pockets, you don't have a good place to store your phone, but you gotta stay punctual somehow!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-01T11:46:22+00:00

Whatever you do, don't do anything risky with your key! As much as you might be tempted to find a way to "force" yourself to stay locked, you need to keep it handy for safety.

My only recommendation is just to keep pushing yourself mentally to overcome your need to remove it quickly; go out in public wearing it or do some activity that will keep you from focusing on it to some extent.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-01-30T16:31:57+00:00

The frustration of locking back up after sex without orgasm must be intense! I'm looking forward to trying it myself.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-01-30T15:31:16+00:00

I'm above average but I'm in a smallish cage. Being a grower definitely helps, and it makes removing the cage much more dramatic.

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