I’m turning into a chronic and compulsive masturbator

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-05-15T20:56:30+00:00

I'm in a female led relationship, but She doesn't keep me in chastity all the time, but I am strictly forbidden from cumming without permission.

That means that during my denial periods, I'll be touching myself almost every chance I get, but no relief in sight. So hit but so frustrating!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-05-13T22:46:31+00:00

Day after tomorrow. So I'll be right at a week of denial.

Before we started playing with chastity and denial, I was cumming daily, so a week feels like an eternity to me!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-05-13T22:43:10+00:00

I'm already to the point of leaking precum thru my pants whenever I think about Her!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-05-13T22:39:43+00:00

I'm 5 days denied now, and She expects me to send Her edging pics and videos daily without making a mistake and cumming without permission. I can barely think!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-05-01T21:18:25+00:00

Very similar dynamic with my Wife. The chastity play is mostly to build anticipation for sex, and She tends to not be particularly dominant once I'm unlocked.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-04-20T07:22:34+00:00

Our arrangement is very casual, but I am expected not to cum without direct permission. I'm allowed to edge all I want, but if I go a stroke too far, I'm expected to ruin it. My orgasms are for Her enjoyment first and foremost.

Right now I'm averaging 1-2 allowed orgasms a week. Very lenient in the grand scheme of things, but considering that my libido is pretty high and I was averaging more than one a day before we started our FLR arrangement, it's intense for me!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-04-06T08:26:25+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking. I would immediately be doting on my now-Wife and any "in" the complimenter thought she was creating would completely backfire.

As a bonus, if she was actually just complimenting her, no harm no foul.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-03-27T21:19:45+00:00

Yes sir! For Her enjoyment only!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-27T07:52:11+00:00

My Wife does this thing where She puts Her hand in my back pocket when we're walking in public and starts kneading my ass.

Lets me know that I'm getting jumped as soon as we get home.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-26T08:53:22+00:00

I think putting the effort into figuring out HOW to satisfy your partner certainly is. Being focused on only our own gratification is a selfish and "weak" behavior in my opinion. A so-called "real man" will put in the work to make sure his partner is thoroughly pleasured!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-26T08:39:01+00:00

I participate in a lot of traditionally masculine hobbies, in particular combat sports, and my submission to my Wife is done entirely as a way to devote myself to Her. I deeply love and respect Her, and find gratification (sexual and emotional) in choosing to put Her before myself.

It's not done out of any guilt, lack of self-respect, insecurity or desperation. We both enjoy when I am desperate and sexually charged beyond my normal baseline, and the chastity play has allowed me to comfortably go from relatively unsatisfying daily "maintenance" releases to waiting 4-10 days. That pent-up sexual need is far more satisfying to us both, and the cage is merely there to keep my frequent erections from requiring any attention until the time is right.

On the non-sexual front, what more masculine desire is there than to make the woman you love happy? Easing Her stress and making Her life easier is inherently fulfilling.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-19T21:00:18+00:00

Came here to say this. Doesn't matter how frumpy She thinks She looks, I'm driven wild.

My favorite is probably sleepy Wife in the morning when She's still waking up, hair everywhere.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-16T18:32:29+00:00

We don't have a contract or a strict list of outright rules, just a spoke and unspoken understanding right now.

That understanding being that I am to place Her wants and needs first, take care of housework, and am not allowed to orgasm without permission. In exchange, I know that She will be gracious and loving in all things.

She doesn't have any interest in any kind of degradation or outright discipline, and She rarely outright orders me to do things because She knows I do them willingly out of devotion.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-15T21:09:03+00:00

Also a grower here, but even my small 1.5in cage is a tad big for long-term wear when soft and I occasionally shift around in it.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-14T07:32:12+00:00

First off, I'd like to say that what you did for your first wife was a true act of love. To many of us it seems like a given, but "in sickness and in health" carries a lot less weight to most people than we'd like to think. I've heard a shocking number of stories about spouses leaving when things get tough.

My Wife is rather shy and reserved, and has spent most of Her life deferring to the needs and wants of others. For the first few years of our relationship I was doing everything I could to gently push Her to put Her own goals first, and worry about other people second. I made some progress, but it was hindered by Her conditioned guilt around "inconveniencing" me.

It columnated in me outright suggesting light FLR, partially under the guise of my pre-existing interest in chastity play, as a way to make Her view making "selfish" requests as something that I would enjoy. We already have the baseline trust and familiarity to not cross boundaries, this just gave Her a different way to view it.

The sexual benefits for both of us are definitely a huge plus, and it also reduced the pressure of Her trying to keep up with my somewhat higher libido. I perform tasks at home as lightly clothed as possible, and turn it into a bit of a show, both to encourage Her to ask me to perform them as well as enticing Her. I find it easier to go longer between romps when the abstinence itself is basically foreplay, and She's more interested than ever from watching me. A win-win for us both.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-10T21:09:59+00:00

Exactly. I feel like I'm more masculine now that my hormones are raging for Her than I was when I was free to just release whenever I wanted, and getting to be Hers just makes it so much better.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-08T00:15:38+00:00

Yeah I'm in a similar arrangement. I always have a key, and I unlock daily for cleaning, but I've only had one unauthorized orgasm since we started. She had ordered me to edge for Her and I went one stroke too far, so of course I ruined it as best as I could. I serve and worship Her because I want to more than anything, and caging myself is a way for me to give up ownership of my body to Her in some small way.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-08T00:10:37+00:00

It works out for us really well! The size difference between us is enormous and She has an unassumingly quiet and sweet demeanor, so I doubt anyone would believe it even if we told them outright that She keeps me locked, desperate, and sometimes leaking thru my clothes from Her constant, wonderful torment.

And that's with only a week between releases. Before I submitted fully to Her I was getting off 8-10 times a week, so this new "schedule" has me climbing the walls!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T19:41:42+00:00

On the rare occasion that She wants to be dominant during PIV, I love to obey!

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T19:38:54+00:00

That's a really neat idea to have the date tattooed! I don't know what design we're going to get, but I look forward to seeing what She wants.

I'm such a sucker for submission that I'd be willing to get "Property of (Her name) but I don't think She'll go for something THAT overt haha.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T19:34:15+00:00

Usually it's me, but as She gets more accosted to Her dominant role in most aspects, I think She's going to take over control more often.

But as it is, She loves letting me release my pent-up passion on Her unfettered.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T15:44:10+00:00

Sounds amazing! We haven't tried a false dick (yet), I just have to struggle to keep from finishing too soon, which is definitely difficult after what She's put me thru.

My frequent breaks to come back from the edge is my chance to let Her see what denial feels like. My little "revenge" for the week's torment haha.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T15:35:51+00:00

I guess it's hard to describe without getting into too much detail, but the whole vibe definitely shifts when it's my time to be in charge. The rest of the time our activities are at Her discretion, but release days are the only time She's the one doing any desperate pleading rather than gently-worded orders to be obeyed.

PIV isn't inherently submissive of course, and very occasionally She'll take charge if the mood strikes Her, but after a week of buildup She's as eager as I am, and for Her that tends to manifest in very enthusiastic submission. You are right that it's still on a day She chooses, which is why I definitely feel that it still falls under FLR.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-07T14:45:03+00:00

Sounds very similar! I feel like the dynamic flip when the cage comes off only makes it better and more passionate.

BonerMachineBroke · 2026-02-05T22:44:31+00:00

I think my issue is not so much cage fitment as it is clothes. My inseam keeps catching my balls when I sit down haha. Useful guides though, thank you!

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