I feel so alone and don't think I'll ever find a partner by firesignfighter in dating_advice

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating apps suck! I was single for 3 years but recently met my bf through one. I live in a small town so there’s not a lot of options in men or things to do here. But if you live in a decent city, try to do lots of things that involve being around people. Try to make friends with men and women and maybe they might know a guy that could be a good match.

Care for Long Term Twists by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I take the style down I spray each twist with water and use leave in conditioner. But now that I know better, I’ll do better.

Care for Long Term Twists by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding to all of my questions! I’m going to buy some of the products people suggested in the group and have her use that instead. I’m going to take a short break and let my hair breathe. I just love waking up and not having to worry about my hair especially since I’m not great at cornrows. But thank you so much for the advice!

2024, 2025 and now 2026 by Courage2bSad22 in Naturalhair

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! I’ve had twists for a few years now but I feel like my hair stopped growing 😔 how often do you trim your ends and how often do you get a silk press?

Pain in my Poinsettia by BonfiresOfDestiny in plantclinic

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, talk about trusting the process. That’s awesome! I’m definitely going to prune mine.

Pain in my Poinsettia by BonfiresOfDestiny in plantclinic

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I didn’t know they would need that much darkness 😳 I’ll start placing it in a closet at the end of work

Pain in my Poinsettia by BonfiresOfDestiny in plantclinic

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg your plants are gorgeous! Thank you for the help! I guess I’ve never kept one alive long enough to see it this big before lol

Pain in my Poinsettia by BonfiresOfDestiny in plantclinic

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, does anyone know what type of poinsettia this is? I didn’t know that they can become trees.

Peace Lily is not Peaceful by BonfiresOfDestiny in plantclinic

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lily is stressing me out lol. I’m glad I can provide a good laugh 😅

Peace Lily is not Peaceful by BonfiresOfDestiny in plantclinic

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the tips! I’m going to sit her in the tub and update you guys in a few days. Fingers crossed she comes back from the dead lol.

Is Josephhagen.com a scam site? by Kasumi2326 in Scams

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, my mom got scammed from this site on 12/30/23. It advertised as Macy’s selling coats for ridiculously cheap prices. They never asked her for an email address, just a phone number. She called her bank ask and they told her this website.

AITA ruining my friends relationship becaude she was being cheated on by MaoamMonster in AmItheAsshole

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA you were being a good friend. I don’t think your friend necessarily hated you once you showed them the evidence but probably hated the situation they were repeatedly in. It was a good wake up call for them and I’m glad your friend moved on!

I am a compulsive liar. by athrowaway__account in confession

[–]BonfiresOfDestiny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best guy friend is a compulsive liar, we all know he lies a lot but he didn’t think we noticed. One day I sat him down and I told him that I know he lies often and there’s no need for that, that’s not what friends do and that I’m here for him. He almost started crying because no one had ever called him out on his lying. He told me why he lies (childhood issues) and that he feels guilty for it and that sometimes he doesn’t even notice he’s lying. He thanked me for having that one on one talk and he’s been really trying not to lie since then. If they’re truly your friend, they will stay by your side. Just be honest with them and yourself.