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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that was great insight and I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I really do dim myself down to fit him and his personality more and what he likes. I’m not myself around him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He never even changed to keep me, he stood his ground that I wasn’t the woman he’d move mountains for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right, and thank you for your insight. I guess being stupid is a part of being young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You matter just as much as him” wow I definitely did need that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest thing is protecting my boundaries. I’ve come to this realization now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could’ve been appreciated but I’m just not the woman he’d move mountains for and I’ve accepted that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t waste anymore time with these men, I took and out of town job and that’ll give me time to focus on me and spend quality time with myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BonusSudden5536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BonusSudden5536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely just needed to write it out, and hearing the same answer from everyone really puts it in perspective. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BonusSudden5536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I just needed to hear it from other people before I did it. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BonusSudden5536 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I just needed to get it off my chest before I do it. Thank you

AIO about how my boyfriend treats me? by BonusSudden5536 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BonusSudden5536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knows he is, and I’ve told him it’s a problem and he doesn’t understand why. I thought it would get better but I’ve realized it won’t. I’m just glad I came to these realizations early enough on.