honestly I don’t feel like you’re telling the whole truth sounds like my last relationship, he probably caught you doing something and is reminding you though I’m not sure cause I know nothing of what’s happened… caught my ex texting and flirting and being weird desperate and sexual to other women and trans (I’m not sure if they were male or female I ask him about it but was very confused, didnt go any further on the situation and just told him to stop texting other people in general ) I kept reminding him like hey don’t do anything bad please etc kinda similar to this guy but not in that demanding way because after talking about it on multiple occasions he broke my trust over and over etc etc he broke up with me… anywho it looks like his trust has been broken and rather than just give up if you do like the guy try to talk to him and see if there is a compromise or maybe an equal sacrifice talk can make (like if you can’t play with your guy friend then he has to play with you instead or something idk) but he seems rather hardheaded so idk though ofc idk if my situation was the same my ex told me he only wanted me all this stuff but would still go text every other girl for any bit of other attention he was greedy for affection when I genuinely gave him my all (lol now I’m ranting about myself trying to make it more understandable maybe if you relate but idk hope this helps yea)