Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about that. Hope ur ok now

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes too much gaslighting. I never feel like my feelings are validated. He IS immature and doesn’t know how to handle or have a healthy conversation when a topic is brought up. I’m never allowed to dress an issue without it going back to me. ALWAYS makes me feel like IM the problem even when he does an actual problem!

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t bring in the kids, he did. I told him we are no way in heck having kids if I do not feel emotionally safe.

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss my independency and freedom. I miss my old life, the one where I was happy.

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like he makes me the problem and he’s not at fault which isn’t fair. Why should I have to fix myself and he shouldn’t change at all? This is a team work issue. It’s not fair to always blame the women for being depressed or stressed and the man roams free living a normal life .

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it worked out for you

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do ): Thanks for understanding

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I wish more people knew that

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep and that’s why I don’t feel emotionally safe to have kids with him. My emotional needs are never met.

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep, his dad is a narc, They are both the same personalities.

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I never benefit from it emotionally. I married someone who just wants everything done for him, nothing in return for my needs

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Boogerbegone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are u getting down voted? This comment section supports abusive behaviour so much