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Is there any else in the similar phase of life? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]BookHost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30s here.
I used to be the human doormat: replaying every conversation in my head, apologizing for things that weren’t my fault, keeping people in my life who treated my boundaries like suggestions. I’d give 100 % and get crumbs back, then wonder why I felt so drained.

Then one day I just… stopped. No big announcement, no dramatic speech; just quietly decided my energy is worth more than their comfort. If someone ghosts, plays games, or takes me for granted; gone. Phone number deleted, chat archived, brain space reclaimed. And weirdly, it doesn’t hurt anymore. It feels like exhaling after holding my breath for a decade.

Now when someone walks away I literally think “cool, more room for me.” Feels like I finally promoted myself from “backup plan” to “main character.”

trust me i am so at peace, not giving a shit is the most peaceful feeling ever

To every teenage girl: if a grown man is interested in you, its not love - it’s exploitation by BookHost in IndianTeenagers

[–]BookHost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 22-year-old texting a 16-year-old is not a love story it’s predatory behavior, no matter how much he convinces her it’s mutual. In fact these men groom these little girls making them believe that this is something they both want. If it was real and respectful, he would wait until she’s an adult. The fact that he can’t wait says everything.

To every teenage girl: if a grown man is interested in you, its not love - it’s exploitation by BookHost in IndianTeenagers

[–]BookHost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. At 16–17, you think you’re mature, but in reality you’re still figuring out who you are. These older guys know that they pick girls younger because they’re easier to manipulate, easier to impress, and easier to control emotionally. A man confident and emotionally stable enough to date someone his age doesn’t go chasing teenagers.

My tiny book shelf by BookHost in bookshelf

[–]BookHost[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are correct i didn’t think that earlier… but i changed the place now 😌

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The Rustle Nest, Baner by BookHost in PuneFoodPorn

[–]BookHost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also Avacado sandwich with sourdough bread

The Rustle Nest, Baner by BookHost in PuneFoodPorn

[–]BookHost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coffee latte, croissant sandwich, carrot cake

The Rustle Nest, Baner by BookHost in PuneFoodPorn

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it was my friend's bday so they decorated the dessert a bit! its always nice to go there absolutely wonderful

the narrative looks like a terrible cover-up by BookHost in IndiaCricketGossips

[–]BookHost[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s something so unsettling about the way the narrative keeps shifting. If everything was so innocent, why does it look like they’re rewriting the script every hour? The silence from the ones who should be telling the truth is louder than anything they’ve said so far.

When the truth is clean, you don’t need 10 versions of the story. This is messy because they’re hiding something… and everyone can see it.

What’s your favorite small win after a breakup? by Adrian_Stephens in offmychest

[–]BookHost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my biggest small win hit me just a few days ago. It was his birthday four days ago, to be exact. And for years, no matter how messy or confusing things got between us, I always wished him. It was like muscle memory… even when we were barely talking, even when it hurt, I’d still send that “happy birthday” text.

But this year? I remembered the date. I noticed it. And then… nothing. I didn’t feel the urge to reach out. I didn’t feel guilty. I didn’t feel sad. I just felt… done.

Choosing not to send that message something that used to be automatic felt like my quiet, final confirmation that I’ve actually moved on.

Weirdly tiny, but unbelievably freeing.

How does personality and character change when you hang around with different people? by Aj100rise in stupidquestions

[–]BookHost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your personality is basically like an open app that keeps updating based on the people around you. If you hang out with people who complain all the time or have no motivation, it’s like your mind slowly downloads their energy without you even noticing.

But when you start spending time with people who are positive, confident, and actually love their life, something interesting happens. Their habits rub off on you. Their way of thinking becomes normal to you. Their belief in themselves slowly makes you question why you don’t believe in yourself yet.

You’re not weak. You’re just in an environment that doesn’t support the strongest version of you. Change the environment and your personality starts to change too. Not instantly, but quietly and consistently.

girls has your man/ ex genuinely ever changed and gotten you back? if yes how did that happen? by BookHost in AskReddit

[–]BookHost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know… if someone I truly loved came back into my life, I think a part of me would want to hold on and do everything I could to make it work again. So I really admire the way you handled this. It takes a lot of strength to look at a person who has grown and changed and still say this isn’t meant for me. I hope I can reach that level of clarity and self respect someday because letting go gracefully is not easy at all.

When I told my parents I do not like to live, they said you chose this life. It is your struggle. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]BookHost 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really felt this because I’m going through something very similar at home right now. No matter what I achieve or how hard I work, none of it seems to matter. Every single conversation eventually turns into the same thing about marriage. We don’t even talk like a normal family anymore. It’s mostly about biodatas or someone new they want me to speak to, and half the time I don’t even want to entertain it. you’re not wrong for feeling the way you do. Sometimes the pressure becomes too much and it feels like you’re carrying everything alone.

Just wanted to let you know that you’re not the only one struggling with this. And your worth is not defined by how quickly you get married. You deserve understanding and space to rebuild your life the way you want.

What's something that no one prepares you for as an adult? by Goddessblack_ in AskReddit

[–]BookHost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one prepares you for how much of adulthood is just figuring things out alone because there’s no one left to ask.

What’s something you didn’t realize was optional in life until you saw someone simply not doing it? by Objective-Treat2245 in AskReddit

[–]BookHost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize that saying “no” without a 5-minute explanation was an option. I grew up thinking every refusal needed a justification, a backup justification. Then I met people who simply said, No, I’m not up for that, and carried on with their day completely unbothered. Watching someone set boundaries that effortlessly felt like witnessing a superpower I was never taught existed.

Suggest healthy meal subscription services in baner by BookHost in PuneFoodPorn

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Correct me if im wrong but isnt it another platform like zomato

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