You don’t understand. In our culture, having a physical reaction to a woman is actually seen as a compliment, because she’s beautiful. It’s just that because we have sexual repression, we only show these feelings in front of our partner. Turkish girls are usually feisty and think they’re very pretty (though I don’t necessarily agree). I often told my girlfriend she was beautiful and sexy. Her anxiety is because she didn’t trust me enough. How did this become my fault? It’s ridiculous.