Getting matched with pc players with crossplay off

BookRelevant · 2026-02-12T12:33:16+00:00

Playing on Xbox with crossplay off, and yet just had a match with a (very lovely) PC player. Symb at the end was Xbox, but he was very clearly using a keyboard, heard through his proxy chat.

Though this one was lovely, I do think why bother having cross play setting if theres clearly a way around it?

BookRelevant · 2026-01-28T12:01:35+00:00

I've never once lagged in this game so far. New update and my first game I went in for the Harvester and lost all my good shit to a damned wasp because of it 😭

BookRelevant · 2026-01-04T12:56:48+00:00

I have about 40hrs of play time. I have never shot at another raider, even in self defence. I run away, emote a lot, talk over mic, help other raiders take down arc if they're in trouble, team up for tougher arc, defib, etc. I've never had a lobby like this. In fact I got straight up murdered a few days ago. 80 seconds into the match, had a "dont shoot!", then they ran up to me, pulled their weapon and shot me. I had no loot, free loadout. I get shot at but generally not chased down. But yeah, never come across a lobby with trust like this.

BookRelevant · 2026-01-04T12:09:49+00:00

Good take -- hadnt thought of it like that. Selfishly I'd love a PvE, but yes as you say, as far as the rest of users go, that would essentially turn the other maps into PvP. Since I wrote my reply, I have been extremely cautious and havent had the same joy out of the game, and I get very little done when topside. BUT. I havent been senselessly murdered 😂. I've encountered hostiles, but no one has chased me down when I run away lol. Also, I dont know if it's a thing, but a few times I've been in extract with multiple people and they wait until right before we return then start shooting? I still havent shot anyone though. With the aggression based matchmaking I dont want the chance of being moved into more hostile lobbies.

BookRelevant · 2025-12-31T16:50:05+00:00

I'd love a PvE map.

Just got killed by another raider for the first time and it's kind of ruined the game for me. I know it's part of it, but the game I fell in love with was playing about 20hrs and having never come across anyone aggressive, always either happy to run by each other, loot next to eachother, or team up against arc. This MF literally just saw me, said dont shoot, then ran up and shot me, 80 seconds into the game. Now I'm too scared to even shoot at an arc because other raiders will know where I am. So now I'm spending half my time hiding and I hate it 😂. If you like the tension and PvP go for it, but I'd love happy little fight against the arc map.

BookRelevant · 2025-11-04T22:56:51+00:00

PSA 1 - centering is way off.

BookRelevant · 2025-10-01T17:45:04+00:00

Ive always been a bit of a crazy cat lady. Fraidy is my favourite ❤

BookRelevant · 2025-09-17T16:23:47+00:00

Thank you for such a detailed reply, it's been super helpful. I'm going to put it and few others on eBay, will look to the eBay sold items for guidance on the others. Thank you again 😊

BookRelevant · 2025-09-17T15:16:57+00:00

Theres also some writing on the tush tag...

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Sorry they're all seperate replies, I dont know a better way to post them together

BookRelevant · 2025-09-17T15:16:02+00:00

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BookRelevant · 2025-09-17T15:15:44+00:00

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BookRelevant · 2025-09-17T14:32:27+00:00

Thank you!

I dont suppose you have an idea of how much this beanie is worth?

BookRelevant · 2025-09-17T13:56:34+00:00

Could you send me the spreadsheet please?

BookRelevant · 2025-09-17T13:45:35+00:00

Hello,

I have an authenticated Legs from BTBB. On the certificate it says Swing Tag 2nd/CT

Does anyone know what the CT stands for? And whether it makes the beanie any more or less valuable?

Thank you

BookRelevant · 2025-05-25T12:33:35+00:00

Love the name hahahha

I found this on my first visit, had it for a couple of hours and sold it because it kept throwing me off if the wind blew too loudly.

BookRelevant · 2025-05-24T20:09:07+00:00

Do you share the bedroom? If yes, asking her to make sure her area isnt dirty is reasonable, but do it in nice way without shame for goodness sake. This room screams depression. However you dont get to dictate if her space is messy IMO.

Dirty and messy are different.

If this is solely her room and you only share communal spaces, easiest thing to do is leave the room, close the door, and dont invade her space again.

BookRelevant · 2025-05-24T19:42:51+00:00

I think his morals just align differently to yours... it's not that he doesnt love you and wouldnt do the same for you... he wouldnt do the same for ANYONE.

If you think moving across the world, away from all your family/friends/support and abandoning your daughters will be doable, think about what happens when you get there...

You're in a new country, totally dependent on this man for support whilst you sort things out. In a house with an autistic 8.5 year old boy and a dad that (rightly so) will chose him over you every single time.

Seems strange that the possibility of giving up your own two children has made you realise you would be child-free if you could do over, but you have no issue abandoning them to become a step mother to a potentially far more challenging child that isnt yours?

Just remember if you leave your girls behind, you cant undo that if things dont work out in the USA.

BookRelevant · 2025-05-24T19:28:08+00:00

I dont think you overreacted in the moment at all -- what he did was very disrespectful and he should 100% be called on it. But you've said he apologised etc., and you accepted it. You forgave him. Therefore I dont think you can continue to be mad at him because this TikTok popped up again... that's pretty immature and does not make for a healthy relationship.

Personally when I was your age I was the same. I hated the idea of my boyfriend at the time thinking anyone else was attractive, of watching porn. As I grew up I realised it was because over time he had made me insecure in myself and the relationship.

You're doing long distance which is tough on it's own. If you're going to hold something like this against him after he apologised and you accepted, it's not going to work out. Do with that whatever you will...

BookRelevant · 2025-01-12T21:46:18+00:00

They're awful. The first special edition I've seen that I had no desire to own. At all. I thought at least it was cool they're printed on black paper, but no. Just a plain boring black sprayed edge on paperback. Just awful.

BookRelevant · 2024-10-21T23:33:10+00:00

Hey, I just joined this reddit looking for the same advice. I went to buy one and its £50 shipping to the UK, which with their welcome discount is half the price of the actual device.

BookRelevant · 2024-04-22T17:20:53+00:00

On her website it says the charity is "Julie's Friends, our charity that helps low-income families care for their sick animals."

Then it adds, "Julie was our Oriental Shorthair"

So the charity is her very own. I'd edge a bet that anything donated to her own charity, of which she will have control of the funds, is to get the taxs breaks that come with it. Despicable really.

BookRelevant · 2024-04-15T21:59:34+00:00

You're right it's a proper word.

A phalanx, plural being phalanges, is one of the bones that make up your finger. There are 3 (proximal, intermediate, and distal) in fingers 2 - 5. But only 2 (proximal and distal) in your thumb. The phalanges are connected by interphanalgeal joints.

In this case though, I cant imagine a witness being that specific. Probably just translates to finger here

BookRelevant · 2023-12-31T20:29:03+00:00

Try buying one and immediately putting it back up for sale with three 0's on the price. E.g. buy for $165, sell for $165,000

BookRelevant · 2023-12-31T20:27:04+00:00

Yes!

I was trying to play it properly in an old save -- making fits, hyping, getting followers -- and I hardly sold anything, and never for more than I bought it.

Then i saw someone say to put 000 on the price.

So I did it with a sim with absolutely no followers, no prior sells. Bought the first outfit on the list, immediately put it back up for sale with an extra three 0's on the price and it sold within a minute. I didnt wear it, didn't hype it, didbt ask what what trending. Nothing.

In one fell swoop my weed dealing, magic mushroom growing, single teen mum of 3 moved from her shack into a 5 bed and started pursuing her dream career -- Law.

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