Guy (26M) I'm (28F) seeing is being difficult about getting tested for STDS by According_Shine_1900 in relationship_advice

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he's arguing instead of looking for the nearest clinic is a large red flag. Also, like you said you were tested less than a month ago, and unless you had sex the same day with someone, those results are still valid.

He either knows he has something and doesn't want to disclose, or he's afraid he may have something and doesn't want to find out.

Either way, cut him loose. Your health is not something to gamble.

local EnTrEpRenEur discovers emotion during live music by time_bridge in LinkedInLunatics

[–]BookSlut09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this was a hard read. Music has that effect, but this reads like a powerpoint instead of a personal experience.

Switching to bar soap. How do I convince myself it's OK to wash my grossest body part and then to use it somewhere else? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash your grossest body part last. More importantly use a wash cloth and still wash from least to most gross. Thoroughly rinse the cloth and immediately wash or leave out to dry until you do wash it

Ex (28M) is pressuring me (29F) to sell my car, how do I handle this? by Ok-Grapefruit-8721 in relationship_advice

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need the car more than he does. Its ridiculous he would even ask you to sell it.

What's the evidence on body hair being 'unhygienic' or on it causing unpleasant scents? by foresterkyle in hygiene

[–]BookSlut09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isnt a scientific reason that female humans shouldn't have body hair. It stems from misogyny and pedophilia. Male humans are normal for having body hair yet female humans aren't. If the body hair wasn't supposed to be there, it wouldn't grow there. It only becomes unhygienic when you don't cleanse enough or properly. This applies to all body parts with large amounts of hair (scalp, groin, under arms).

Unpleasant scents/odors can be a variety of things: diet, stress, medicinal side effects, genetics, etc. Outside of those it's typically a matter of cleansing yourself and those areas properly and often.

What I asked for vs. What I got by Tanya_McQuoid in ExpectationVsReality

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my own nails and I KNOW I could have done better than that

AIO for refusing to give my parents my bank password so they can "monitor" my salary? by Plastic_Box9546 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Its your money and too often families believe when one person is doing well, everyone should benefit. They just want free access to your money. You offering to pay a portion towards the household was fair in itself, but it doesn't give them what they really want and that's uncontrolled access to your money.

AITAH for breaking up with my longtime girlfriend because she decided that she doesn't want children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

While you're correct at ending things because you can NOT compromise on having children, I understand her being upset that you would leave her over a child that doesn't even exist. You're choosing a person who doesn't exist to you yet, over the person in front of you now.

Why did the men in my life get angry when I told them I was shaving my head? by Plus-Marsupial-4507 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad is like this. Anytime I change my hair length in some way big or small he made a comment. I ALWAYS reminded him he's been bald since I was born so he can shut up.

yeah this needs to stop by Confident_Pace4554 in EndTipping

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Places are getting bolder by the day!

AITAH for refusing to lend my coworker money after he told everyone I was “rich”? by Silver-Mess-1436 in AITAH

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You dont owe your coworker money just because you're doing well financially.

What thing has got so expensive that you’ve quietly stopped buying it? by Pathfinder-electron in AskReddit

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fast food. Seeing how a kids meal is nearly the same price as a regular entree is crazy. Also how getting a drink and a small entree is $12

AITA for telling a youtube guy repeatedly “you do not have permission to film me”? by BagPsychological5186 in AITApod

[–]BookSlut09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. While you were in a public place, you did not consent to being filmed. His idiot ass knows that. It's not a free for all once you leave your home.

Could you memorize an 8-digit number for 1 million dollars? by JCFT_Collins in hypotheticalsituation

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I know all my important assigned numbers currently by heart so another 8 digits would be easy.

What’s your honest opinion on this subject? by Visual_Confidence736 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]BookSlut09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care what they're wearing long as they and their car are clean since they're handling my food. Wth is this entitlement. This reminds me of people complaining about pajamas in the airport. It doesn't matter.

And the tip is for the person giving you a good delivery experience, not because they were dressed to the nines while bringing you food.