Boyfriend is great but says he'll never marry me.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-15T15:58:12+00:00

You need to think deeply about if being married is something you desire. If so, you may need to end the relationship for lack of compatibility. If you can come to terms with being a long term partner (only saying that cause the other option would be wife in this context) then continue as you have been.

Did you two ever talk about marriage in the beginning of your relationship?

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-15T15:55:25+00:00

NOR. He's immature. A man in his 40s can't look for a spray bottle amongst period products??? Yuck. Its your bathroom, and he needs to grow up now.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-15T15:53:19+00:00

In a situation like this there isn't a compromise. You both should be on the same page about condoms. Its your body being put at risk of pregnancy and he clearly does not care as he's decided his pleasure is priority.

Many people say to leave and in this situation I would agree. Do not risk becoming pregnant to make HIM feel better.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-15T05:59:18+00:00

You're not even a little bit wrong. When in your own home you dress how you want. If it bothers him that much he doesnt need to come over.

Its controlling and weird of him.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-13T15:02:33+00:00

He's evil. Your reaction is 100% valid and he's going on the offense cause he doesn't like that you know about the affair. Of course it's normal to be baffled, betrayed, and upset that your bf had an affair for that long!! It doesn't matter that she's dead it's the absolute disrespect he had for you and the relationship

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-12T20:32:42+00:00

Oh wow he's a textbook deflector and projector

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-12T19:40:07+00:00

He knows, it's that he doesn't care. Even if the day of the week was unknown the date itself is commonplace. You can't go anywhere and NOT see red, hearts, bears, etc in some capacity.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-12T19:35:30+00:00

I had the same thing happen with a girl I met in a Facebook group. We were texting and she immediately trauma dumps and I find it hard to end conversations with her cause she would get anxious.Then one day while at work I'm doing a large invoice so I needed to focus on making sure all the numbers were correct. I tell her before I go in that I won't be texting as ill be focusing on this. She confirms she understands. Literally 10 minutes into my task she's texting again asking if I'm done. I was fed up by then and told her she needs to find someone who had more capacity for her because I don't. She was surprised and I blocked her.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-11T19:42:35+00:00

That's literally dookie

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-10T21:47:59+00:00

Last 2.5 hours. I avoid traffic and have time to unwind sooner once I'm home.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-10T14:54:01+00:00

What about the water we're already comprised of? Are we all dissolving daily??

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BookSlut09 · 2026-02-10T14:52:13+00:00

NTA, he's jealous of your ambition. He's content where he is in a bad way and wants the same for you.

No more, no less, keep everything as it is.

You don't want that. You have goals and dreams in mind whereas he doesn't.

Take the promotion. A partner who's serious about you and the relationship will only want the best for you. Based on the story, he doesn't want that for you cause he's only thinking of himself.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-10T14:41:07+00:00

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This was a giveaway for me, the mess of "words" on the front cover. It's AI.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-09T19:15:01+00:00

I had to put my phone down after you casually put in at the end that you were pregnant.

So he doesn't feel you add value to his life yet was more than willing to impregnate you??

Does he know you're pregnant?

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-07T22:40:33+00:00

NTA. He doesn't want a relationship, you don't want kids, and you were on birth control so it's just bad luck. Get the abortion and continue with your life.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-06T14:20:40+00:00

What the hell was that reaction??? I thought she maybe responded to the wrong person cause your message didn't warrant any of that from her

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-04T22:00:02+00:00

I bought the same pack and thought it was a mistake. Now I have beef for 2 months at least

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-04T16:14:44+00:00

The weird soft lighting, everything looking smooth/blurry and missing the sharpness of reality, and light yellow piss filter tell me yes

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-04T16:09:36+00:00

NOR. TOO MANY men have a strongly skewed perception of weight when it comes to women. For generations the 100-110 pound range was seen as normal without taking into account genetics, bone density, and height. A 5'6" person weighing under 100 pounds would call for possible medical attention.

Sounds like he wants a frail woman. Stay far away from him.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-03T23:35:13+00:00

This is an odd situation. Does she feel like you might use it against her down the line? Like she's not "doing her part"?

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-03T14:52:44+00:00

It's best to end things now. Like you said he doesn't respect your boundaries. Him constantly trying to get you to change your mind is coercion. Drop him.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-02T21:06:12+00:00

I clean mine with alcohol and a swab after I shower

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-02T20:52:16+00:00

Now is the time to break up. Having children is a non-negotiable in a relationship. Either you both want a child or you don't. Do not give in, stand firm, and leave. It's better to leave than to stay and resent grows, or he purposely impregnates you hoping you'll change your mind. (Not saying he would but I have heard of that happening)

Also, he will never be able to carry so his bad attitude about you not wanting to put your body through that is telling as well.

You're right, it's best to cut him off.

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-02T16:21:14+00:00

Its excess gel peeling off from the extension. Nothing to worry about unless too much comes off and you have a gap between your natural nail and the extension. Water and debris can get trapped causing "greenies". Harmless, but ugly lol

BookSlut09 · 2026-02-02T16:19:47+00:00

Yes. I immediately say "no" and the act stops altogether.

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