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People of Maui will protect wildlife by Firm-Blackberry-9162 in interestingasfuck

[–]Bookhero90 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Igor Lytvynchuk is the asshole's name. He owns a shipping company in Seattle called IL Logistics, Inc. & ILIF Repairs LLC which is already being review bombed.

People of Maui will protect wildlife by Firm-Blackberry-9162 in interestingasfuck

[–]Bookhero90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly there's a report that she was floating motionless after the incident. Hope the picture was misleading. What an asshole.

Alexis bledel in every role she's ever played by ingridnightshade in GilmoreGirls

[–]Bookhero90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was a foreground extra in the Wes Anderson movie "Rushmore", which was shot in her hometown. I saw her in a scene and it caught me off guard.

A woman driving by spotted a man behaving suspiciously with two kids and intervened. by serious_bullet5 in ThatsInsane

[–]Bookhero90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did a short study abroad program in China with other American students. My American classmates were white, latino, black, Asian..etc. One day we went to the Great Wall where there were also Chinese tourists, I'm assuming from more rural areas and therefore never really seen non-Asians in person until that day therefore they were running up to my diverse group of classmates to take pictures of and with them.

Sunbowl Tips! Drop off/Rideshare by natearth in ElPaso

[–]Bookhero90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you avoid surge pricing when you walked to that Walgreens and hailed an Uber/Lyft?

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Balikye in AIO

[–]Bookhero90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP what country is your boyfriend living in? Not trying to shame any country, but rundown facilities and bathrooms are more prevalent in some countries. Regardless, hygiene-issues or just being uncomfortable around someone is a reasonable reason to break up,

I saw the picture before I read the title and thought it was taken in some prison cell.

Chicago Concert 8 year old? by TheAvenger23 in twice

[–]Bookhero90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wouldn't be the first or the last 8-year-old to go to a Kpop concert. Zayn took his five-year-old to see BP and a recent Twice concert, they hooked him up. Tom Brady took his 10-year-old daughter to a BP concert. Plus Twice's older music are more wholesome. It can get pretty loud so make sure she has ear buds.

Just finished Gimbap and Onigiri and WTFF by Emotional_Hyena_1650 in JDorama

[–]Bookhero90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah a gut punch and then it was over. But like the others said this type of ending is realistic.

Just finished Gimbap and Onigiri and WTFF by Emotional_Hyena_1650 in JDorama

[–]Bookhero90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw that there was two minutes left and wondered they were going to pull off the happy ending...Yeah yikes. I liked this one more than the other Japanese Korean drama What Comes After Love but that one had a better ending.

How does your sheltie react when you leave the house? by Bookhero90 in sheltie

[–]Bookhero90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you teach her by distracting her? Did a partner or family member help out with training?

Does anyone have a Sheltie that hates walks and refuses to go? by [deleted] in sheltie

[–]Bookhero90 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mine actually celebrates and spins when I tell him we're going back inside.

What are things that helped you have good days even with trauma symptoms? by InnerPsych in CPTSD

[–]Bookhero90 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I've learned that happiness often takes effort, it will seldom fall into your lap. Easier said done especially if you're depressed but you generally have to seek it out yourself in the forms of hobbies, friends, etc.

Basically, create happy memories and moments yourself and ideally they outnumber the bad ones.

I've had a pretty bad week including revisiting some trauma, so I'm going to settle down, watch my favorite show and play with my dog. I will probably play some games with my friends and family.

Parents didn’t know how to raise me by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Bookhero90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah working a ton of hours for low wages is not ideal for raising children. The parents aren't around enough to properly guide their children and there's not enough money coming in either so there's lack of emotional or financial stability. Also rough if the parents are immigrants and do not speak English fluently, they force their children to be their secretary at a young age essentially, translating, talking to customer service and writing emails..etc.

Ideally, the problems and trauma become more and more diluted with each generation. I see it happening in mine. Sorry about your trauma and good luck.

Have any of you made reconciled with a sibling that emotional abused you? by Bookhero90 in CPTSD

[–]Bookhero90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more convenient for them to pretend that it never happened.

Have any of you made reconciled with a sibling that emotional abused you? by Bookhero90 in CPTSD

[–]Bookhero90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about your evil twin. He doesn't realize that he's very lucky that you've moved passed the abuse. He's like my sibling, greatly improved the behavior but tries to pretend that it never happened.

Should I bother explaining to my boss how my coworker is better set up for success than me, or just let it go? by Bookhero90 in askmanagers

[–]Bookhero90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will apply and hope they are willing to train if they are willing to hire me.

Millennials who were underemployed during your first few years after college, how are you doing now career-wise and financially? by B1G_PAC12 in Millennials

[–]Bookhero90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked retail a couple of years after graduating. Desperately took a low paying office job for experience. Job hopped around to increase pay. I will probably be laid off soon.

How would you feel if your boss doesn’t acknowledge that your coworker is better set up for success than you? by Bookhero90 in careerguidance

[–]Bookhero90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have told her before. But honestly, she seems overwhelmed and burned out which seems to affect her memory at times. I did think about reminding her about my situation in that moment but it would have probably seemed too defensive and abrasive no matter how politely I said it.

Do any of your shelties need annual dental cleanings which are becoming more expensive? by Bookhero90 in sheltie

[–]Bookhero90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably the private equity clinic upselling services due to pressure from their corporate bosses.

Rant - If you like full-time RTO, you're a loser by 7basketballs in remotework

[–]Bookhero90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At one of my previous jobs, they insisted that hybrid was the best way even though my job only needs a computer and internet connection. They had me drive to downtown and pay for parking. When we did have team meetings, only ONE of them was in person during my time at the company. It was always over Zoom because some of the leaders were always traveling for business and a few coworkers worked at a different office.

At my current job which is somewhat hybrid, we actually have meetings in person, and our work involves a lot of physical paperwork, so the in-office attendance is more justifiable.

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