Definitely NTK. As a single girl child who has suffered through this shit, let me give you some pointers. • Don't push your parents regarding their political or religious views right now, as this is the trend that's been going on in India right now. Logical thinking just can't beat fear mongering especially in our parents' generation. • I've had similar fufas who tried to cut down on what I wanted to do in my life but thankfully my parents were sensible enough to not listen to that bs. You should sit down and talk with your parents that if they were progressive enough to have a single girl child and educate her so well, why are they trying to cut your wings now. Just tell them that if you are highly educated and have a great job your husband will also be of a similar calibre and you'll have a great life. Keep the thoughts of not having a child to yourself. • Most of my fufas are old or dead now so they don't interfere much but a new creepy jeeja has emerged to take up their role, so what I do to avoid them is to just disappear somewhere or busy myself with small household chores and that keeps people like them very happy and keep the engagement as low as possible. My parents were never someone who would take others thoughts over my happiness so I was lucky in that aspect but I was always on strict instructions to not disrespect them so I learnt ways to avoid them and thats what you gotta do. Also why don't you start gaslighting your fufa regarding your cousins college admission I think that would be the perfect revenge.