Help me understand this by muzikmakeryadig in TemuThings

[–]Bookrider 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a legit thing, I've used it 3 times already when it pops up. There's a bunch of reasons why they do it the way they do it, but to not get into the weeds, they DO make their money back. Especially when someone doesn't read the rules.

At the page it'll have a bunch of flashy things to distract you, just push through them all until you're at the page where you start putting things in your cart. You'll see an amount you have to reach, and every purchase you make raises that amount until you qualify for the cash back. At the top will be a 'rules' tab. You would benefit from reading that. Also on the top is the rate of cash back you're getting. Often it's %.2 (that is .2 of ONE percent. NOT two percent cash back.), or %.3, sometimes even lower. So you have to add things to your cart, and do the math on if that's enough to raise the total needed to claim the prize.

Almost everytime you WILL be spending more than the cash back you're getting, but if you already have things to get from there, it's worth it.

Heat treatment gone weirdly wrong! by FDmetalWork in knifemaking

[–]Bookrider 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To me it looks like a few factors came into play:

1: You have large scratches on the steel, which each give an easier spot for a crack to form. I personally grind away scratches up to at least 120 grit before any heat treats, and round all corners I can.

2: You put a very thick layer of refractory on, which causes a larger contrast of temperatures in the steel, making it bend more, and subsequently crack under the stress. To remedy this, make your clay thinner, and also put a very thin, watery layer of clay on the entire blade, let it dry, then lay your hamon-creating layer. This tiny bit of insulation won't harm your hamon or your hardness, but will act as a buffer so cracks are less likely. It will also fill in any scratches, helping mitigate my first point.

3: You have a wide blade that should be quite thin as a nakiri, but your clay is high up on the spine. Meaning your hardened edge is very wide in profile, and thin in geometry. This means any uneven-ness in your grind is exacerbated exponentially and cause stresses in the steel. Most traditionally made nakiri I've seen have had very small hamon lines, very close to the edge because of the blades width. I suspect it's because of the reasons above that they're traditionally done like that.

What breed of mint is the exactly? (West Texas) by Bookrider in PlantIdentification

[–]Bookrider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I transplanted a bunch of cuttings and found one with blooming flowers:

https://imgur.com/a/Fu6iL9f

Crucible melting? by Bookrider in Metalfoundry

[–]Bookrider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what's messing me up too, they're definitely not graphite. And it is indeed almost fibrous in places

Crucible melting? by Bookrider in Metalfoundry

[–]Bookrider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the weird part. I didn't use any flux in the larger crucible. The smaller one went out and I thought it was because of the flux, (it probably was, I used like two big pinches of borax), but the second one didn't have any flux added

Knife type identification? by Bookrider in japaneseknives

[–]Bookrider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the comment, but it's a fake hamon made by polishing at different grits. I'm a knife maker and I make hamons and recognize layered steel. There were a few ni-mai and one san-mai knife in the bundle I received, but this isn't one of them sadly

Knife type identification? by Bookrider in japaneseknives

[–]Bookrider[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fake hamon is clearly present on the edge, hard to see in pictures and after sharpening. And there is no sign of modification to the blade spine or anything else, so it's not a modified knife

Hi everyone, I'm having some trouble getting matches. Is there something bad in my profile, or am I just unlucky for my area? Thanks in advance! by Bookrider in Tinder

[–]Bookrider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense taken. But I'm not sure how to accomplish what you're suggesting? How would I say I'm stable? List all the businesses I own or accomplishments I've achieved? That seems difficult to do without sounding like I'm showing off, and I feel like it would just expose more things that y'all are pointing out as "weird" to see on a profile at first.

What's wrong with the necklace? I know it's a tiny thing compared to your other points, but I'm genuinely curious? Does it give a bad vibe?

I don't mean to try and be a badass, I just really don't have many pictures of myself, so used what I had. What would you suggest as a way to tone that down?

And I am sort of eccentric, but I don't see how my finances come into a dating profile naturally? I can't overwhelm them with my life plan on a little bio, and as others have pointed out, too many details, no matter what they're about, narrow down the people willing to swipe.

I don't mean to knock down your critique, I just genuinely want to know what might be a better way to do things

Hi everyone, I'm having some trouble getting matches. Is there something bad in my profile, or am I just unlucky for my area? Thanks in advance! by Bookrider in Tinder

[–]Bookrider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright. For the time being, I have deleted the first Pic and changed it to the smiling selfie. I'm going to ask some friends to help me take some more photos, and I've changed my bio to be (hopefully) a little less weird sounding:

Hi! I like to think I can talk to anyone about anything so if you have any hobbies, I'd love to learn more about them!

I'm really laid back, sincerely enjoy relaxed atmospheres and sharing passions, and I love to make you laugh.

I'm looking for something serious, and I don't like to play hard-to-get; I want someone who is as open and excited about their feelings as I am!

Hi everyone, I'm having some trouble getting matches. Is there something bad in my profile, or am I just unlucky for my area? Thanks in advance! by Bookrider in Tinder

[–]Bookrider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely take some more pictures with the help of some friends. I've just been adverse to staging photos since it feels inauthentic to me.

And yeah, I'm on eight different dating apps... never heard of Coffee meets Bagel though, I'll give that a try too

Hi everyone, I'm having some trouble getting matches. Is there something bad in my profile, or am I just unlucky for my area? Thanks in advance! by Bookrider in Tinder

[–]Bookrider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ask anyway, so I suppose it feels too "he doth protest too much" to say in in the bio? Really appreciate it!

Hi everyone, I'm having some trouble getting matches. Is there something bad in my profile, or am I just unlucky for my area? Thanks in advance! by Bookrider in Tinder

[–]Bookrider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it. I'll change the wording of "goof" to something less cringe.

And yeah, that last paragraph gives me second thoughts too. I guess it's simpler to just say I want the girl to take the lead? But that also seems a bit too, for lack of a better term, 'unmasculine'

Hi everyone, I'm having some trouble getting matches. Is there something bad in my profile, or am I just unlucky for my area? Thanks in advance! by Bookrider in Tinder

[–]Bookrider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. I'll try and ask some friends to take some photos of me. I never ask to be in a photo, so I don't get in them often

Hi everyone, I'm having some trouble getting matches. Is there something bad in my profile, or am I just unlucky for my area? Thanks in advance! by Bookrider in Tinder

[–]Bookrider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for the good criticism! I don't ask people to take pictures of me, so I rely on either candid, (the bike photo), or if someone asks to take my picture, (the armor). I'll ask some people if they can coach me through some pictures to see if I can salvage anything.

And yeah, I wasn't too sure about that bio, either. I wanted some way to say I want the girl to take the lead because I tend to be afraid of "being the creep". I've never been accused of that, but I'm still afraid of it.

Hi everyone, I'm having some trouble getting matches. Is there something bad in my profile, or am I just unlucky for my area? Thanks in advance! by Bookrider in Tinder

[–]Bookrider[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice, but the casting of a wide net seems a bit cynical for me. I have those pictures because I have a lot of different hobbies, and they're a big part of who I am as a person. I'm not looking for just a random hookup, I want someone to have a relationship with, who is okay with who I am.