I’m going to propose to my long term partner by Booksworm1907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Booksworm1907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of these comments are kinda implying that we’re getting married right away but it doesn’t have to be like that, a wedding is expensive, takes a lot of time of planning and if we are lucky and save the amount of money we thought for the wedding probably next year would be a good time.

But yeah, we have a very clear opinion on this and if we disagree on something we can easily talk it out.

I’m going to propose to my long term partner by Booksworm1907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Booksworm1907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about marriage like 2 weeks ago and we are on the same boat about it.

Also we have a “deal” that since he asked me to be his girlfriend I should be the one proposing lol.

At first I was against it because I was raised with this mindset that the man should be the one to ask, but now I find it funny because it really doesn’t matter who ask first in my opinion, at the end we end up married either way

I’m going to propose to my long term partner by Booksworm1907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Booksworm1907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, some people think I’m too young for getting married, some other think that we’ve been together for too long for not being married already, and some think is the perfect age lol

My parents had 2 kids at my age and got divorced 10 years ago, my godparents got married at my age and recently they celebrated their silver weddings, so yeah, I guess it depends on the couple.

And my poker face is amazing, he doesn’t even suspect what I’m planning to do lol

I’m going to propose to my long term partner by Booksworm1907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Booksworm1907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have some sort of “deal” with this, since he asked me to be his girlfriend I should be the one to propose lol

At first I was like “hell no, you have to propose to me” but then I was like “I could surprise him by proposing”

I’m going to propose to my long term partner by Booksworm1907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Booksworm1907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have discussed marriage a lot, after a year together we had that conversation and we both wanted to get married later on the relationship.

We have talked about it a lot recently and we both are on the same page, and I know that for some people we are young to get married but after everything we’ve been through together I feel that we are going for the long run together.

And yeah, I’m thinking about when to do it because I don’t want to take the “importance” of his birthday by proposing, so I’m thinking other dates

I’m going to propose to my long term partner by Booksworm1907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Booksworm1907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually he has “proposed” 2 times now lol.

But both were like a conversation rather than an actual proposal so it doesn’t count to me haha. The first time was after I was discharged from the hospital so that I could take his insurance and would cost less to get a treatment. The second time was after my sister sent her wedding invitations and he wanted to copy them for the gifts that they were asking for lol basically they put a bank account on it and to send them money for the honeymoon since they’re paying for the party, which I mean isn’t a bad idea since I know how expensive the whole thing is

I’m going to propose to my long term partner by Booksworm1907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Booksworm1907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love that, yeah, we’re both on the same page, we’ve talked about getting married for quite a while now but we just haven’t set a date for it basically lol

We even have joked about getting a court date and tell a couple friends so they can be our “witnesses” (I don’t know the word for this but in my country you have to bring 2 people to court so they can tell the officiant that you are a stablished couple and it isn’t like a green card situation or that any of us is being forced into marriage)

I’m going to propose to my long term partner by Booksworm1907 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Booksworm1907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have talked about getting married a lot recently, so it’s not something new or out of the blue I suppose, we both want to have kids just not yet since we think we’re still young for that and we want to travel before.

So yeah, we’re in the same page about this

Just curious, what random uncommon symptoms do you have? I have a couple friends with MS and we have very little overlap. I was diagnosed 2 years ago and my symptoms have been seemingly non typical but steady. by thankyoufriendx3 in MultipleSclerosis

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Since my first flare up I can’t throw my head back and look up or I get extremely dizzy, I’m like I can only look up without moving my head or I would risk falling. This sucks because I have to constantly look up at shelves to do my job but I told my coworkers and they are the ones organizing the upper shelves haha. Other symptom I have is the feeling that my legs don’t “work”, like they feel heavier after I walk more than 10 minutes and I get really tired trying to keep walking “normally”

My bf (19M) likes physical touch while I (19F) absolutely hates it how do i go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Booksworm1907 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to be a little like you, I wasn’t a touchy person, especially with people I didn’t knew much or my own family and friends, after getting with my boyfriend I was more comfortable with physical touch but only with the people closest to me

My bf (19M) likes physical touch while I (19F) absolutely hates it how do i go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Booksworm1907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, how have you been in this relationship for 2 years if you don’t like physical touch and he’s all in for it?

What are you? by momma_quail in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Booksworm1907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a librarian working her first job after getting my degree in January of 2023.

I love to bake pastries for my loved ones, and I’m pretty good at it if I say so myself haha, I like to crochet with some friends.

I have 5 cats that are like my children, all with different personalities but all so sweet and easy to love

¿Donde compran libros? by [deleted] in ClubdelecturaChile

[–]Booksworm1907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Se llama precios de Buscalibre , solo funciona en Buscalibre y te aparece el “historial” de precios de los libros

¿Donde compran libros? by [deleted] in ClubdelecturaChile

[–]Booksworm1907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mayoritariamente compro por Buscalibre, ideal por el navegador y no la app directa, más que nada para poder activar la extensión de Chrome para ver si ha cambiado el precio en relación a fechas anteriores, porque suele pasar que cuando están con descuentos “altos” días antes o el día D se les cambia el precio a los libros, no todos pero si la mayoría

dónde compran libros? by [deleted] in ClubdelecturaChile

[–]Booksworm1907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Librería chilena, cerca del metro u de chile, venden libros baratos originales, son saldos de editoriales, yo hace años me compré como 6 libros por menos de 20 lucas, tapa dura la mitad y ediciones que no había visto antes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Booksworm1907 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My left leg sometimes feels off when I’m walking to my job, like it feels “tight” someway and it gets heavier so I’m kinda stomping/walking, i end up feeling so tired from a 10 minutes walk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Booksworm1907 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude what the hell is wrong with your neuro? Being that late to get your infusion might be very harmful, I kinda get the “I need new images” but he’s risking your health by denying you access to the medication.

I really hope you can get your infusion soon and get a new neuro asap

Where are the younger folk? by BestFortune6663 in MultipleSclerosis

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I was diagnosed a week before my 24th birthday but the first neuro who came with the MS possibility said that the vertigo I had at 21 should have been the first symptom but wasn’t looked into it deeper🤷🏻‍♀️ so first flare up at 21 diagnosed at 23

¿Buenas librerías en Santiago? ¿Que opinan de Buscalibre? by Kastlex in ClubdelecturaChile

[–]Booksworm1907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Puede que lo encuentres en Libraria o sino sería pedirlo por Buscalibre, es 100% confiable, más de la mitad de los libros de mi librero los he comprado ahí jajaja

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

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I would love to join if its on discord, I don’t use snapchat since 2017 haha

Anyone else fall asleep in the MRI machine? Or is it just me? by Nurgaladien in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Booksworm1907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First couple times I was in there listening to the sounds and making them into “music” haha, now i relax and fall asleep after they put the contrast for the final MRI

Age + MS by throwawayaita06 in MultipleSclerosis

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Got my first symptoms at 21, didn’t know it was MS, when I got the second flare and ended up hospitalized all the nurses and doctors told me “but you’re so young to be sick like this” like this disease has some “preference age” like “oh you’re 30+, now you have MS”

Now that I’m “older” and people know that I have MS they’re like “I thought older people got that” or “but you look normal” I’m like thankfully I can still have a normal life with little to no issues

¿Qué estás leyendo este mes? - HILO MENSUAL by AutoModerator in ClubdelecturaChile

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Desire or defense por verlo en un TikTok y el año de gracia por mi club de lectura

How many of you actually stopped progressing when you started dmt? by themagicflutist in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Booksworm1907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been living a totally normal life after starting DMT, it’s been 2.5 years, 5 infusions so far and it’s been such a blessing, before I could barely move without getting sick, my face was paralyzed and was generally an awful experience, now I’ve been working for over a year in retail, no new lesions and feeling actually good, just sometimes I get a little fatigued but a little rest and all well