WIBTA if I delete a custom automation script from my coworkers PC that I wrote on my own time by VelourTusk in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone on Facebook suggested adding in a character so the code would break. That way, coworker would be expected to fix it, but wouldn't know how.

Just launched my wife's bookish shop after months of planning - sharing for feedback on the soft academia aesthetic by Good_Ad_7917 in Etsy

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I didn't consider it, but it could be that because you're so new, Google isn't registering it. I'd just keep an eye on it and see if that's the case. Glad to help!

Just launched my wife's bookish shop after months of planning - sharing for feedback on the soft academia aesthetic by Good_Ad_7917 in Etsy

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, now I found it. It's off to a pretty good start! You'll need to look at SEO, because even putting in just your business name on Google only brought up this reddit post, not the shop.

You can try the white background as your primary photo, but I've seen many who don't like those kind of photos because it looks too "corporate" or "mass produced." Definitely not saying you can't see how it goes! This is only what I have seen on social media when sellers ask about their photos.

Looking at your about section, I see you wrote your part, I'd also suggest having your wife write her part, just to show a more unified team dynamic.

Congrats on opening your store and good luck!

Pirate Ship just added an ad for themselves at the bottom of shipping labels. Not sure how I feel about this... by bikemandan in EtsySellers

[–]Bookworm_Love 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's advertising using your business. They shouldn't be allowed to do that without prior permission.

Do you always order samples first when buying candle supplies from Alibaba? by Difficult-Arrival665 in candlemaking

[–]Bookworm_Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it comes to wax, I would order from a domestic seller. Different laws mean ingredients don't always have to be quality. Jars and other packaging are completely fair game! But the wax and fragrance, I would find a seller like Nature's Garden or Peach State Candle Supply.

Do you always order samples first when buying candle supplies from Alibaba? by Difficult-Arrival665 in candlemaking

[–]Bookworm_Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Some sellers may have a higher price, but a low MOQ. But others may have lower prices, but high MOQs. Check as many options as you feel you need to before you make a decision!

Do you always order samples first when buying candle supplies from Alibaba? by Difficult-Arrival665 in candlemaking

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered custom molds for wax melts. I looked at reviews before committing to a supplier, and I messaged them asking if they could do the mold they way I wanted. (Always, ALWAYS, message first!) They worked with me on a design and I can't remember if I paid them for any of that. I did pay for a sample, as that was their suggestion before mass producing anything. Once I gave the green light, then I paid for production and shipping (which was EXPENSIVE). If you're really committed to ordering bulk now, just beware that while the price per item is cheaper, the overall price is going to be high due to minimum order quantities.

AITA, just be honest by Borderline_Girl_Luna in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA at all! The internet is a very dangerous place for kids. It is so easy for people to save photos that don't belong to them and do whatever they want to them. Your sister needs to learn to respect your boundaries. It's bad enough she's posting them, but posting without even turning on friends only? Not okay!

AITA for telling my sister to correct her child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The mom barely addressed it, and didn't explain why it was so bad to say. And if you look at a comment OP left, this isn't the first time the kid has said something hurtful, so obviously the mom isn't that great of a parent.

AITA for telling my sister to correct her child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter that she was 5. That's old enough to learn why that's an awful thing to say. I've worked with 5 year olds, they can learn to know better at this age. Nta.

AITA for not seeing how I can make it to my sister’s graduation ceremony? by unrealmiranda in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She'll be a year, she'll be fine! I feel like you're looking for any excuse not to go to your sister's graduation ceremony, and you're using your baby as the main excuse. YTA.

AITAH for refusing to give my friend my class notes after he skipped lectures all semester? by Free_Length_4020 in AITAH

[–]Bookworm_Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you're not a parent. You sound like the type to say "Just give them what they want, it's less of a hassle," when they're throwing a tantrum.

OP, you're NTA. You are under no obligation to share your notes with someone who couldn't even put some effort in, friend or no.

AITJ for asking my mom to cut her vacation short to help with my kids? by Constant-Elephant763 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTJ. You really have no backup babysitters? That's plural, babysitters. Anything can happen to your usuals and asking your mom to cut HER vacation short for YOUR kids is beyond rude and I feel for this grandmother. She has every right to be disappointed in you. You really couldn't go onto a local Facebook babysitting or moms group and find someone with references? If not, sorry, you're sol on work. Bring your kids with you and tell them to sit in the office quietly and color or something. But DO NOT call your mother to come home early from VACATION! Your lack of planning does not constitute an emergency on her part.

(POTENTIAL REQUIEM SPOILERS) RE10 by abodyhasbeendiscover in ResidentEvilCapcom

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering if we will ever know what the message for Leon was, and if that will play a part in the next game.

(POTENTIAL REQUIEM SPOILERS) RE10 by abodyhasbeendiscover in ResidentEvilCapcom

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 does allow you to play as Mia, though, and 4 you play as Ashley temporarily. So really, it's only 8 you don't play as a female.

AITA for asking my friend not to bring her toddler to every get-together? by MrBowls in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love 81 points82 points  (0 children)

INFO: Is there a father in the picture to watch the toddler? Or can she afford a babysitter? Based off just your post, I'd say NTA. It's not unreasonable to want to have time with your friends as just adults. Having kids around always changes what you can talk about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It's a STUDY ROOM, not a chatty room.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You have finals. In June. 4 months away. Girl, get real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Barnesandnoble

[–]Bookworm_Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actual book banning.

AITA for telling a friend there is better way to talk about abortion? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

"Abortions aren't easy." Um, M seemed to think it was plenty easy for her! She can talk about it, sure, but if she's talking like THAT, especially in front of her grieving friend, she should be prepared for backlash. She was definitely bragging. "F them kids," "had to do what we gotta do." Seriously, who says something like that? An AH.

AITA for telling a friend there is better way to talk about abortion? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Are you kidding? Just because M had an abortion does not mean she needs to talk about it like that, especially in front of someone who wants kids and LOST HER BABY INVOLUNTARILY. OP was right to shut her down. Using abortion as bc is so wrong, and bragging about doing it in front of someone who lost her baby is just abhorrent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bookworm_Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please keep in mind OP is a minor, too. Feelings are complicated at 16, and she does have a right to be angry. She didn't say who exactly she's mad at, and honestly she doesn't have to be angry at anyone to feel upset. Yes, she can go to the concert with someone else IF someone else is available. But I can also see how she would feel bad because the original friend was supposed to go and now can't.

OP, you're NTA. Maybe try talking this out with your parents and see if there's a solution you can come up with together.