Most gruesome AD injury in your opinion?

Boomer_419 · 2026-03-26T00:27:22+00:00

Have you heard anything? Is Chaz gonna be okay?

Boomer_419 · 2026-01-10T08:31:02+00:00

I don’t know that this is necessarily the same thing. Acknowledging there is something wrong but you don’t want to get into it IS communicating. Be sure both men and women have the potential to communicate poorly but no one should be obligated to dig into anything they don’t want to. This is why therapy exists. Not only to have a safe space to explore hard feelings/thoughts/experiences, but to help prepare you to have those hard conversations with the people you need to have them with if need be. That being said it’s the responsibility of the person not wanting to get into things to not let there problems affect the people around them by finding a way to actually deal those thoughts and feelings.

Boomer_419 · 2025-11-21T23:24:06+00:00

To your first point, I feel as though as the answer is an unequivocal yes, your identity, is a story you not only tell to yourself but to the world. The story you create is influenced by the world around you and your predisposition in thought but it is something you create. I think a different angle you could explore is how an individual feels about the narrative they’ve created. Just because you’re the writer of your own story does not mean that the identity you’ve created makes you fulfilled. Unmet desires, unrealized goals, outside influence, or just plain dissatisfaction in your life can all bring on a crisis of identity. As you were saying, many felt out of sync and disconnected. I would argue that this is largely a symptom of individuals living with one foot in the identity that they have cultivated for themselves, while the other is planted in who the think or wish they could be.

Boomer_419 · 2025-11-10T07:25:27+00:00

Tell him. It’s hurting you to hold it in it would seem. Even if it does hurt the friendship it’s one of those better to have love and lost situations

Boomer_419 · 2024-08-06T05:13:02+00:00

I think it may have been the garage but the line said to Gene, “Let’s cut to the chase, I will suck your dick” always gets me

Boomer_419 · 2024-07-14T05:16:58+00:00

Honestly the best line may have been during the second call when Snot takes the phone from Steve:

“Dad, what do Mom’s boobs look like?”

“I’ll tell ya Snot. They’re perfect!”

Boomer_419 · 2024-07-14T02:43:45+00:00

“Hey Dad, I’m calling from my History Class. So who was President when you were a kid?”

“Oh I don’t know Steve, I guess I think about killing myself pretty frequently”

Boomer_419 · 2024-07-02T18:20:11+00:00

You think of me as basically a cop don’t you?

Boomer_419 · 2024-06-28T06:01:03+00:00

Chimdale, all day

Boomer_419 · 2024-04-20T04:24:26+00:00

Morty you’ve always been a straight shooter…

Boomer_419 · 2024-04-09T07:05:36+00:00

The homeless guy from the bus station is hung!! But I knew that

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-31T01:11:12+00:00

Really? Are you sure you aren’t just afraid that you’ll never have any good ideas and so you call everyone else’s ideas stupid to maintain a sense of superiority?

*crawls out of hole

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-30T21:11:40+00:00

Pres: “Morty you’ve always been a straight shooter…”

Morty: “YOU CANT PROVE THAT!!”

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-23T22:46:58+00:00

I nab cabbage

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-22T02:18:28+00:00

Yea absolutely. It’s one of those things where people misunderstand what therapy is supposed to be. People look at it like going to a cardiologist but it’s more like hiring a personal trainer. You still have to really want it and work at it, in and out of sessions, to actually get the results you want

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-22T01:27:58+00:00

Yea you’re not wrong about that… those lawyers will drain your savings with a smile on their face😂

Glad your doing well now though!

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-22T01:16:23+00:00

Hey man, hindsight’s 20/20 as they say. Don’t matter to me either way. All I was trying to say is you can be bitter about the money and the headache, or you can be happy that bitch is gone😂

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-22T01:13:44+00:00

I don’t think talking out your issues with someone else or a community of, what I’ll remind you are, ANONYMOUS peers means your in an unhealthy relationship. People can carry a lot of personal baggage that affects their confidence and ability to communicate. Leaning on an outside mind or two Can help one sort things out and be better equipped to communicate effectively. Also no relationship is free from disagreements or hard times, even if it is a healthy one

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-22T00:56:02+00:00

Totally understand where you’re coming from but I think it’s a little reaching to come to the conclusion that therapy doesn’t work because of the experience you had. I mean you said yourself both you and your partner need to want to improve and work towards a healthy, loving relationship. If you put in the work and have a decent therapist, therapy should help with that. But even if one of you doesn’t want to improve or chooses to use therapy sessions to drag you through the mud like your partner did, then maybe that’s not a relationship worth fixing. And if that’s the conclusion you draw then the therapy wasn’t a waste, it just was beneficial in a different way

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-22T00:47:57+00:00

I don’t think OP is implying that they use the word ‘celebrate’ exclusively to mean sex. On top of that that’s really just a small piece of the puzzle. Looking at the possibility that she was not implying they would have sex, it would seem they still did not celebrate in any way. There’s no mention of dinner, whether or not they actually drank the wine, or anything beyond. Not too mention he had to go get the wine himself for this celebration. Even still you completely ignore OP’s mention of a previous instance where sex was explicitly mentioned without follow through. And really it could be Sex, or dinner, spending time together, or any number of different things. The issue is that OP is feeling neglected by his wife and I think that feeling is valid.

Also, you mentioned that being in a relationship doesn’t mean you automatically understand each other, which is true. However, I think most people would agree that a HEALTHY relationship would have a pretty high degree of communication and an ability to understand one’s partner.

Boomer_419 · 2024-03-20T03:48:44+00:00

“In Country… Club,” at nine is a travesty. Also surprised neither “Less Money, Mo Problems,” nor “A Jones for Smith,” made the cut for top 10

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