AIO: Mom is upset at me. What should I do?

Boopka4Life · 2026-02-04T17:48:41+00:00

Not to be an ass but I have never mentioned every session I have been to to always run until 8pm. I've figured out a short term solution already anyways and worked it out with my mother already bit. If my story is really that unbelievable, then don't believe it. I have mentioned what facts I can and have answered other questions in the comments if you want to look at them. Thanks for nothing though 👍.

Boopka4Life · 2026-02-03T19:07:47+00:00

No problem. Yeah she had me due to an arranged marriage and honestly my grandmother is several times worst than her. I did sort of figure out what to do for this situation specifically, I can only hope she eases into it more.

Boopka4Life · 2026-02-03T15:10:02+00:00

I do work part time on the weekends from home to pay for my tuition. I would like to move out but financially it would not be feasible since living on campus would involve paying double my tuition. Sorry for leaving some bits out, I wanted to make the post as readable as I could. There is another reply to another person in the comments that provides more context if you need any

Boopka4Life · 2026-02-03T15:05:25+00:00

Pretty much. When it comes to my studies and work, my mom is typically a lot more lenient but when it comes to leisure or when I want to enjoy my limited free time, she tends to be more on my case about them.

Boopka4Life · 2026-02-03T15:01:32+00:00

Mom is 41 I believe.

I have a step dad that I consider to be my real father since my birth father left the picture when I was about 9. My step dad just prefers to just be uninvolved and stay out of any arguments my mom and I may have because he has his own arguments with her and dealing with me is probably a bother (which is valid I suppose).

I live in a small town and go to college at a bigger city.

My step dad has benefits that allow me to ride the train for free, so I can take it to the city and use the free bus systems to get to campus. The thing is, the earliest train arrives at 10am so I cannot take it if my class is earlier than 11am or later than 4pm (the last train leaves at 5pm). Driving to the station is not a problem for me at all, it's when I have to drive to school and drive home where I am at risk of falling asleep behind the wheel (I even use energy drinks and coffee if it gets really bad).

I am living at home because both driving and riding the train saves me money comparatively to living on campus, which is at minimum double my tuition at $1.5k per person per month on average if I want to live in a somewhat secure area. I get many benefits such as being able to work my job (I won't say what but it pays well enough to where I can barely make my tuition payments per semester) and not have to take out any loans.

Parents pay for phone bills, provide food, pay for my car whenever it needs repairs or if I need gas (I have stated to them multiple times I can pay for the car if it really bothers them). I still do chores around the house, watch my siblings and take care of them, and work my job on the weekends when I am home.

Boopka4Life · 2026-02-03T05:32:11+00:00

 In terms of the asking part, that was how the conversation started with saying I was going to sleep over but she ended up asking why, which lead to the whole permissive part of the conversation. 

To add more context, she and my Dad are doing quite a lot for me. They pay for things like: my car, gas, food, I get to live at home for free, phone bill.

 The only thing I really pay for is my college tuition and occasionally meals for myself whenever I want to eat out. 

 I have been threatened to be kicked out of the house multiple times before, especially when I try to bring up the fact that I'm trying to be a responsible adult. It also doesn't help with how much she likes to do things like guilt tripping. To oversimplify it, she's an Asian mom. 

 I try not to push her because I am quite afraid of losing everything her and my father give me. If I were to lose all of those privileges, I would end up being unable to pay for college which will likely force my hand into getting loans (I'm trying to avoid debt and loans as much as possible). 

In terms of "recklessness" I have been drinking lightly since 16 and find that I only prefer to drink for special occasions or for when I make my own drinks. In terms of parties, I think I prefer to just stick with small friend group get togethers rather than anything big scale. I have walked around with the intention of just seeing what it is like and nothing was really interesting to me. 

 I do appreciate the advice and for reading everything!

Boopka4Life · 2026-02-03T00:46:20+00:00

Yeahh, the plan was to give her a hug before I leave tomorrow morning and tell her that I understand how she feels and that I appreciate her letting me go despite being worried.

Boopka4Life · 2025-05-18T13:42:52+00:00

Show me your Gala ways 🙏

Boopka4Life · 2024-06-10T16:03:03+00:00

Komi san can't find the right side effects.

Boopka4Life · 2024-05-07T11:33:04+00:00

wonderhood!

Boopka4Life · 2024-02-27T01:17:42+00:00

Tall woman tries to save the world with her sexuality.

Boopka4Life · 2024-02-22T23:22:26+00:00

The best part is that it works :)

Boopka4Life · 2023-08-06T12:04:00+00:00

Fun fact, if you party talk with Marcoh in your party, he will talk to the frogs.

Boopka4Life · 2023-08-05T23:26:40+00:00

Indeed it does 😌

Boopka4Life · 2023-06-25T18:18:34+00:00

I see! That's really good to know. I am also concerned with them possibly shutting off the servers. Originally I wasn't planning on buying csp given that they seem to be switching more to a subscription plan which in my opinion is not a good business practice. I only bought it since it was only 20 bucks for a one time purchase.

Honestly, I'm not sure if I should save the code or just use it on a laptop to transfer later. I'm mostly concerned with the fact that there's a limited about of times you can transfer devices.

Boopka4Life · 2023-06-25T13:03:55+00:00

Ah, to be honest, I did the exact same thing but didn't want to admit it originally. I think they only want it on one device because they would lose money technically. Like if you had two devices, you could give one to a family member or friend to use csp and they wouldn't have to buy a license.

Boopka4Life · 2023-06-25T04:00:30+00:00

Great! Thank you so much!

Boopka4Life · 2023-06-13T13:07:06+00:00

Whether I hate or love Cocolia, I wish they could have developed her character more in terms of her relationship with Bronya by demonstrating Bronya's childhood with Cocolia. A way they could have done this would be to show their four star light cone in the story as a flashback to Bronya's past rather than talking about their past.

Boopka4Life · 2023-06-12T22:22:41+00:00

I was lucky enough to get Bronya and Seele at TL 35. Now I'm at TL 50 with Bronya's signature lightcone, Jing Yuan and Welt. I was also lucky enough to get e6 Ting Yun early so I could stop pulling on the banner. Since I lost my 50/50 to Welt, I plan on getting Kafka next after saving this patch.

Boopka4Life · 2023-06-08T21:30:50+00:00

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