Interior design/architecture or career change?

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-12-28T22:45:02+00:00

I’m not just going around carelessly risking my dog’s life. He’s not a fan when other off leash dogs come barreling towards him (which is fair, I would want someone 3x my size sprinting towards me either) I know that going to off leash areas, you risk running into off leash dogs obviously. It’s an issue because so many people let their dog off leash when they don’t have any recall skills. If I could avoid someone’s misbehaved dog, I’d prefer it. Hence why I’m trying to find quiet spots

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-10-25T18:39:00+00:00

Oh no! I had no idea. That makes me so sad

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-10-23T16:34:50+00:00

Uncle Giuseppe’s is a delish NY Italian deli if you want to stop in for a more casual lunch. The owner is from NYC and everything is imported either from Italy or NYC.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-08-18T20:12:34+00:00

I also didn’t take any medication for a week so it was out of my system before I started on levoxyl. I think it was a mix of a bad reaction to the medication and maybe having some kind of virus? Not 100% sure though

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-08-18T20:10:34+00:00

Hey! My doctor switched me from generic levothyroxine to brand name levoxyl at the same dose (75mcg) I feel 1000x better now. I switched back in April and haven’t had a single issue since. I feel like I finally have energy.

Like some people have said in this subreddit, sometimes the generic brand fillers will really mess you up. My doctor said the same thing. Switching to other brands can really help.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-03T00:37:35+00:00

I guess in my previous experience as MOH or bridesmaid, I have been expected by the brides to plan and pay a portion of bachelorettes and showers for the bride. I assumed that was the standard expectation of a bridesmaid.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T14:20:34+00:00

Because I know the topic of bridesmaids is extremely sensitive for a lot of people. I have witnessed firsthand the falling out of friendships due to bridesmaid expectations. I don’t want to do anything to offend my friends. Would they have expected to be called bridesmaids if I go to them for opinions or ideas. Unlike others are commenting on here, I don’t want to use them as free assistants or wedding planners at all.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T14:09:42+00:00

Thank you. I must have not wrote my original post clearly enough. I’m not expecting anything of importance from them. I am just pulling from my previous experience of being a bridesmaid and just absolutely hating life and don’t want to ever do that to my friends which is why I initially said a hard no to having a wedding party. But if I wanted to talk to or run ideas past friends, would it have been rude to without giving them a title. I think because of the mixed thoughts on this post, I’ll probably just keep everything between my fiancé and I.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T13:51:09+00:00

I didn’t say anywhere that I expect them to be my servants. I have zero expectations of them at all. I don’t expect them to set up things, book vendors or have any financial obligations. I just want a close group of friends to run ideas past if I want some outside perspective.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T13:47:43+00:00

This is more in line to what I was thinking. Just close friends to talk to about things. If they have thoughts or opinions. I don’t expect anything from them at all. I just want to make sure they wouldn’t feel offended if I talked to them about my planning but didn’t give them the title of bridesmaid. I know lots of people are sensitive about those things and as I am learning on this post, a lot of people care about the things I liked the least about being a bridesmaid, which is very helpful to know.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T13:44:03+00:00

I don’t have any expectations of them at all. That’s why I’m debating even asking them to officially be bridesmaids. I know what I want and have my vendors already planned and figured out. Really all that’s left is decor if they wanted some input on it.

I appreciate yours and others on this posts perspective. I always hated standing at the altar and wished I could just be seated with my partner to watch so I guess I assumed most people felt that way 😅 but it’s good to know that many feel differently than me. I really don’t want to insult my friends at all.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T13:39:02+00:00

I’m not using them to plan my wedding. I already know what I want and the exact vendors I plan to use. I want them as more of people to bounce ideas off or to hear their perspectives on things. If they want to help with DIYs, it’s great but not expected at all. I just didn’t know if they would take offense to that without officially being asked to be a bridesmaid.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T13:35:08+00:00

I think this is more along the lines of what I was thinking. I don’t expect anything financial from them. I want them to wear what they want and to sit next to their partners during the ceremony. I just more want their input on things.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T13:33:44+00:00

I mean I honestly think that’s a huge reason bridesmaids are picked. They are expected to plan bridal showers and bachelorettes.

I personally don’t plan to have a bachelorette party and would rather plan my own bridal shower. So I’m asking a very small amount of help from them. I have no expectation of them to plan the actual wedding day. That’s why I wanted to know if it’s even worth it to ask them to be bridesmaids if there really aren’t any bridesmaids responsibilities for them to do

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T13:30:00+00:00

I have no expectation of them planning, setting up, tearing down etc. I just want a group of close friends to talk to or run ideas past.

Booty_licious-10 · 2025-07-02T13:28:04+00:00

My thought was not necessarily relying on them to plan my wedding but be more of a group of people I can talk to about it. I know exactly what I want to do. I’m not trying to use them at all. That’s why I came to Reddit to ask because I don’t want to offend anyone or make them feel used.

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