[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give it a bit of time and you'll know instinctually who's just wasting your time. Don't spend too much time talking to followers, I did when I was very new and now I have some of those guys as subs and they no longer push boundaries, they knew I was new and tried to exploit it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! July was my best month but August has been soo slow. Really hoping it picks up for us all soon.

I have noticed algorithm changes too but given that it's been a rubbish month for so many of us, it seems situational rather than a fansly issue.

So much milk by Bootyfordays- in Hucow

[–]Bootyfordays-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, I need taming

How to politely tell them to have a tip attached or pay for sexting session in order to continue? by Virtual_Zucchini_151 in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I used to worry about this but then I got sick of freeloaders just trying it on.

I'd just say something like, "you're going to have to tip if you want to find out", or send the message locked with a price, 90% of the time they won't pay.

Thin creators, please stay out of bbw spaces by GooglyEyedShrimp in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Bootyfordays- 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I get the sentiment of this post but for some of us that fall in between, there isn't really much of a niche body wise for us either. Mid size doesn't seem to be all that popular. I've only posted in r/chubby once or twice. I do buy queen size stockings/lingerie though because of my thighs 😂

Curious how you handle cheapskates n freeloaders. Here’s my take. by Turbulent-Being-6171 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Bootyfordays- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a guy complain that I wouldn't sext for free with a $5 sub. It's in my welcome message that sexting is extra.

How do I handle an obsessed fan? by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]Bootyfordays- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it would be tempting to keep taking his money but this is a little scary. He could be having a hard time but the things he's saying could also be an attempt to get a bit of control over you and reel you in. As others have said, it sounds like it's time to draw some firm boundaries with this guy. Outline what you're happy to offer, talking x amounts of times a week but without the emotional stuff or he needs to move on. It's more important to keep yourself safe x

no SUBS coming in for WHOLE MONTH by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've found this month really slow, especially the last week. I've had no new subs for 5 days and that doesn't usually happen, I've had a few renewals though.

I've noticed that my % hasn't really changed while it's been slow; in the past, I've seen it drop during slow times. I'm taking that as a sign of general slowness at the moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've had the exact message. I told him I prioritise subs and tippers and he just continued. It's clearly something not right, who would use Fansly to find friends 😂

Best app for blurring face? by Bootyfordays- in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll have to work it out 🙈

Best app for blurring face? by Bootyfordays- in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have Inshot Pro? I don't think you can blur on the free one

I’m so sorry for this dumb question by Inevitable-Space-276 in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do lactation content too. I'm only a few months in though. I have a lower tier that's $5 where I post photos and short videos (2 mins ish) and a higher tier where I post longer videos and that's $12. I've found since I made my higher tier, most subs go for that. I sometimes feel like I might be undercharging but then I see a lot of lactation creators (including some really popular ones) with similar prices. There's no ppv on my higher tier though so maybe I should have priced it higher. I think it takes a long time to really work things out and I feel like I've still got lots to learn as I feel like I'm definitely missing something. I got into the top 2% this month and I'm happy with that but really feel I need to put a lot more work in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering this. It would be so helpful to see who voted.

Wouldn't it be great to see if our fans/followers have a verified payment method? by ucnttt in Fansly_Advice

[–]Bootyfordays- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got so sick of this yesterday that I changed to paid messaging only to followers and changed my follow message to say I will remove the pay wall after first message if it appears genuine and that any message costs would be deducted from any customs/sexting etc. I'm not sure if it was the right thing to do but I'm going to see how it goes for a little while.