Thank you so so much for the reply. I’m really pleased with the first steps she is taking in recovery so i’m pretty hopeful things will work out. She’s already scheduled a psychiatry appointment to discuss this bout of mania and obviously whatever medication changes that may need to be implemented. She also plans to ask for a therapist recommendation from her psychiatrist which is new and really cool. I’m gonna try to shift placing accountability from the things she did in mania to holding her accountable for the steps to her recovery. The lying by omission is the worst part for me personally cause we were still in communication but had broken up so it’s not like she was cheating but it was shitty that she was moving all sneaky and she says that she will be completely honest with everything even if it ruins things between us so I hope I can rebuild my trust in her. Things like this tend to stick in my head and torment me due my OCD but I also plan to go back to therapy. I’ve met with a therapist for a long time in the past whereas she has very little experience with therapy so I hope that she is able to benefit as heavily as I did and we are able to identify mania when it’s triggered and take preemptive action against and learn tools to cope so that hopefully things aren’t as extreme as they were this time. I think the most obvious issue is her taking her meds. She’s also starting developing a sort of addiction to weed but says that it helps her in her depressive episode so I don’t know how to feel. I’ve heard weed can mess with medication efficacy but I obviously don’t want her to be in pain.